Poll: if a girl has a boyfriend ....

[hans007]

and you liked said girl, is it right to go after her. this isn't gonna affect what i'm gonna do , since i'm already decided, but i was just wondering what others though

 

[TripleJ]

Nope. That's bad sh!t you'll get yourself into.

 

[Viper GTS]

If she's got a boyfriend she's off limits, but nothing prevents you from befriending her in advance in case that ever changes.

Viper GTS

 

[iamfried]

What Viper said. It is never a bad idea to log some empty hours. As a matter of fact, I have been doing that for the last semester and it looks to be turning my way.

 

[Daniel]

Yep there is always knowing that if she cheats on him with you then what would she do to you?

 

[SammyBoy]

go get her go get her.

depends what you chose......ur gonna get her aint ya

 

[atom]

Nope, what comes around goes around. Become friends, wait until they break up, then be her shoulder to cry on.

 

[Siva]

If its the world is going to end, I love her more than life itself, she's perfect and I need her in my life kinda love, then screw the boyfriend because you will live the rest of your life in regret if you don't pursue something.

If you kinda like her, but could live without her then back off cause she's taken. Unless you desperately need her you don't do anything, cept what viper said.

 

[iamfried]

One more thing that is somewhat different than my last thoughts.
I would think women would probably not agree with this statement, but it is an observation that I have made (and a couple of my friends have made).

"Generally", women have someone in mind to take the place of their man prior to breaking up with their current man. If you think that she is looking for a way out of said relationship and you are on the back burner...go get it.

 

[OS]

<< and you liked said girl, is it right to go after her. this isn't gonna affect what i'm gonna do , since i'm already decided, but i was just wondering what others though >>



I don't see a problem, as long as there isn't two timing involved. If you can get her to leave her bf, apparently she wasn't serious about him anyways.

But of course, you are creating one freaking messy situation.

 

[yllus]

Be damned sure that if you go after her, you'll get her. Otherwise you lose everything...

All's fair in love and war.

 

[IBuyUFO]

I hope you get beat up if you're going to do what I think you'll be doing.

 

[kei]

do not pass Go
do not collect $200

 

[hendon]

<< do not pass Go
do not collect $200 >>



huh?
why do you say that?

 

[monk3y]

I would try to become friends with her, but no i won't pursue a 'relationship' until she's broken up with the guy.

 

[kei]

basically asking for trouble
go to jail card in monopoly

 

[jeweleeann]

<< If she's got a boyfriend she's off limits, but nothing prevents you from befriending her in advance in case that ever changes. >>



Yes, this is what a good guy would do. Are you a good guy?

 

[GL]

The only problem with befriending a girl, is that you'll befriending her for the rest of your life You walk a fine line of falling into the dreaded &quot;just friends&quot; grey area.

 

[AznMaverick]

it's not right to go after her, but hey, we live only once. If u've met her in school, do it, you'll never see her again after school ends...>=)

 

[rlism]

Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.

 

[stratusfear]

Well, if the guys a jerk then why not
But, if she's happy with him then I wouldn't advise you to intervene

 

[serialb]

Plain simple.

If she is living happy with her boyfriend, you won't even stand a chance at her.

If she has some problem with her boyfriend, she won't be with him for long regardless.

Just make sure which circumstance she is in, then act accordingly.

serialb

 

[cherrytwist]

<< If its the world is going to end, I love her more than life itself, she's perfect and I need her in my life kinda love, then screw the boyfriend because you will live the rest of your life in regret if you don't pursue something. >>



Well stated.

It's the &quot;all's fair in love and war&quot; thing. If you aren't true to your feelings, then what is the point to having them?

 

[monto]

give her space to choose

 

[Presence]

If you like her that much than go after her. Just dont be heartbroker when someone else comes along and does the same to you. What comes around goes around.