Poll: Have You Had Sex Before?

[Pyxis]

Another vote for "no" here.

 

[Windogg]

Those at Neochat know my answer.

 

[Adul]

And then some windogg

 

[Don Vito Corleone]

Boy, I truly hope the 50/50% split just reflects youth and not, well, Internet addiction and shyness.

I am frankly dubious about the whole idea that no sex before marriage is somehow a good idea (because from what I can see it is just the opposite, and it probably far queers more marriages than it benefits), but to each his own I guess.

 

[Emulex]

no way. you should never marry then have sex. what if the girl doesn't fullfill your every need? you'll end up cheating or divorcing, which is worse.

i'd say a handful is a good # of girls/boys to have done it with before you really know whats going on.

 

[Viper GTS]

what if the girl doesn't fullfill your every need?

If your reason for getting married is sex, then maybe you shouldn't be getting married in the first place.

Viper GTS

 

[Emulex]

I strongly believe sex is a VERY VERY important part of a relationship. If its something i'm going to be doing every day for the rest of my life, with a person, its VERY important.

? Does that make sense ?

 

[Isla]

The Mr had only kissed one girl before me, and he was 22 when I met him.

I can assure you that he hasn't missed out on anything!

 

Of course

 

[CromNogger]

Nope, I haven't.

This thread had some pretty funny replies in it though.

 

[Viper GTS]

Emulex...

Yes, it makes sense. It makes perfect sense. But...

It doesn't require prior experience to be good. Sex is about interaction - What's happening between your souls means a lot more than what's happening "down there." If the soul to soul part's already there, the rest will fall into place by itself.

Viper GTS

 

[aolj]

Voted.

 

[Sundog]

 

[UWDawg]

NO

 

[Bignate603]

Haven't yet, but of course I'm still young and in high school.

 

[Don Vito Corleone]

If the soul to soul part's already there, the rest will fall into place by itself.

Boy, I have had a number of loving relationships and many sexual partners, and I just don't buy into this theory at all. I think pre-marital inexperience has led to many, many divorces on the part of baby boomers and others, and I know I have been in love with women whose relative lack of sex drive ended our relationships.

I know when I am dating someone sexually inexperienced, it is near-impossible to bring her up to speed, so to speak, and I think the chicken-and-egg theory is at work there. A woman (or, I suppose, a man, from his partner's perspective) who is fundamentally not that interested in sex (and who, as such, has had very few partners) ends up being, for lack of a better phrase, a dull lay. Tough to keep an interesting relationship alive with such a person. I frankly prefer a woman with experience, who enjoys sex.

 

[Windogg]

<< It doesn't require prior experience to be good. >>

Best joke I heard all day.

 

[blade]

&quot;Have you ever...seen a grown man naked?&quot;













-Airplane

 

[Emulex]

i agree tee. I've had girls that want sex once per week, some twice a week, and now i've finally found someone with the same desire and libido as me. I've never been told &quot;NO&quot;. never. matter of fact, many of the times i'm persuaded into it by the girl she rocks my world. in more ways than that of course.

 

[Viper GTS]

I'm not talking about people who have no interest in sex, I'm talking about choosing not to explore that interest outside the commitment of marriage. I would be lying my ass of to say I have no interest in sex, but I choose to wait. I'll be making up for that once I'm married.



Viper GTS

 

[Scrapster]

It doesn't require prior experience to be good.

What the? I thought practice made perfect.

 

[Whitedog]

WOW! Half the votes are No! Good riddens!

I took a vow of celebasy (spelling?) in 1994. I haven't had sex since then. I am going to keep this vow until I am married. My girlfriend of 2 years now is still a Virgin. She's 31.

I hope any of you who are not married can see that it's not right to have premarital sex. Even if you're not a virgin anymore, you still can quit.

But that's just your own call

 

[DannyLove]

i have

 

[Emulex]

hahahahah! QUIT SEX!?!?! ahahahhaha

i'd rather die.

 

[Isla]

Practice makes perfect when you are practicing with the same person.

Change partners and you are starting all over again!

Heh, the Mr was a vigin when we were dating and we saved intercourse until our wedding night.

I knew it was gonna be good because all I had to do was hop on his lap with all my clothes on and make out with him to, um, feel the earth shake.

To this day I look back and think.... Wow! There was something going on that was bigger than just sex.