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Have you ever slept with an escort, hooker, went to a brothel etc?

  • Yes. And I don't think it's immoral.

  • Yes. But I still do think it's immoral.

  • No and I think it's immoiral.

  • No but I don't think it's immoral.


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Dec 26, 2007
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Would be for me though. I don't feel ashamed about it. I can't attract women. So what? I can hold down a good job, and I can play ice hockey. A lot of guys can get women but can't do those things. Just different abilities, that's all.



Do your letters stick to the inside of her mailbox?

To answer the tread, nothing wrong with it. To answer Craig; if it were legal and safe, I'd sell my ass for $500 and I'm not even gay. I'd give a guy a BJ for $500, what's the big deal?

Hell, I'd do that now...
 

Dr. Zaus

Lifer
Oct 16, 2008
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Some other girl would be riding my pole, so why couldn't she ride some other guys pole?

She wasn't a virgin when I met her, which means she had sex with other men already. What's the difference if she does it again as long as it's done safely (i.e. preg/std risk is mitigated)?

Mitigated is not eliminated; The emotional issues involved in casual sex for women tends to be different than those involved in casual sex for men. You may well lose a wife (but it sounds like you don't much care).
 

Stuxnet

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Some other girl would be riding my pole, so why couldn't she ride some other guys pole?

She wasn't a virgin when I met her, which means she had sex with other men already. What's the difference if she does it again as long as it's done safely (i.e. preg/std risk is mitigated)?

I'm not necessarily taking exception with it, although I'll admit I doubt I could handle the idea. It's more important to me that my wife isn't on someone else's rod than it is for me to get some other chick on mine.

Out of curiosity, do you see an open marriage in your future? The logic you're applying to you engagement could still apply after you're married. Again, not judging... just interested.
 
Dec 26, 2007
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Mitigated is not eliminated; The emotional issues involved in casual sex for women tends to be different than those involved in casual sex for men. You may well lose a wife (but it sounds like you don't much care).

I fully understand mitigated is not eliminated.

I also understand casual sex is different for men and women (in general).

That said, I wouldn't be marrying a girl unless she was similar to me sexually. That would mean she would be up for things that most people consider taboo, and "wrong". One of those things is a much more casual view of sex than the traditional sex=feelings BS that a lot of people in this country tend to hold.

Oh, and if my wife decided to leave, then so be it. Just means she would have done it later on most likely.
 

Locut0s

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Mitigated is not eliminated; The emotional issues involved in casual sex for women tends to be different than those involved in casual sex for men. You may well lose a wife (but it sounds like you don't much care).

So are you saying that women don't seek out casual sex as well?
 

Blackjack200

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I fully understand mitigated is not eliminated.

I also understand casual sex is different for men and women (in general).

That said, I wouldn't be marrying a girl unless she was similar to me sexually. That would mean she would be up for things that most people consider taboo, and "wrong". One of those things is a much more casual view of sex than the traditional sex=feelings BS that a lot of people in this country tend to hold.

Oh, and if my wife decided to leave, then so be it. Just means she would have done it later on most likely.

I think it would be awesome to be mature enough, and to marry a woman that was mature enough, to have an open relationship. I imagine it's like catching lightning in a bottle though.
 

Dr. Zaus

Lifer
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So are you saying that women don't seek out casual sex as well?

Not in the least.

Just that they tend to be in it for different reasons than just having their sexual organs stimulated.

Oh, and if my wife decided to leave, then so be it. Just means she would have done it later on most likely.
I see your point about being with someone like you but:
Women tend operate differently and an open union is more likely to lead to her finding someone else to love.
 
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Patterner

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Had to google that myself. Looking at the wiki article on strip clubs brings up this pic:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Cheetahs_San_Diego_CA.jpg

Open from 11-2. Is that 11pm-2am? Kind of short hours. But if it's 11am that really begs the question, who are these people going to a strip club at 11am!? :eek:

I had a steak lunch at a strip club in Georgetown once that was *phenomenal*.





The steak was pretty good, too. (Thank you, be here all week.)
 

alkemyst

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Feb 13, 2001
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Not in the least.

Just that they tend to be in it for different reasons than just having their sexual organs stimulated.

?!? I don't know about that. I have met a lot of chicks that just wanted to hook up and we each went our separate ways when the deed was done.

I have had more call me for a booty call than I have made the call as well.
 

Bateluer

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We jokingly talk about hookers and blow all the time here. So I'm curious how many of you have actually slept with an escort, prostitute etc? Poll is ANON.

Oh and personally, option 4 for me.

Dude, you know damn well that ATOT is 99% virgins, most of whom live in their parents basements and work fast food. They can't afford escorts.
 

CVSiN

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No idea since I've never been to even a strip club. However my guess would be a private lap dance or something similar. I don't think many such clubs would stay open for long if they were running as brothels as well.

You would be VERY surprised what is going on in most strip clubs..

They can and do turn tricks right there in the club in the "private" rooms if you have enough money and the girl is comfortable with you.

And if not on the premises most of the time you can find out which girls "play" and get them out of the club for some fun.

again Your mileage may vary.. but it is going on.. and LE knows it.. but most of the time they cant catch them.
 

Dr. Zaus

Lifer
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Slightly different question, would you pay to sleep with your favorite playmate/model/actress for $1000/hr, knowing she does that on the side?

Hum...

Even if I wasn't married I wouldn't.

BUT I would pay much more for a chance to get to know the woman and woo her with my awesome knowledge of the difference between DnD 3.0 and 3.5.