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POLL: Have you ever cheated/been cheated on?

Miramonti

Miramonti

Lifer
Ever done it or done it to someone else? I've been cheated on before once, not cheated tho. Not a real pleasant time when you find out the truth. :|🙁

How about you?


for clarification:
Cheating = sexual involvement with someone else while committed to someone else, married or not.
 
Every single person I've been with has cheated on me.. never done it to someone else though, not worth it.
 


<< Every single person I've been with has cheated on me.. never done it to someone else though, not worth it. >>


Ouch...that's really messed up
 
Never have and never will cheat. Never been cheated on and would, obviously, try never to date anyone that I think has a moral sense that would allow them to even consider cheating. For me, matching moral codes are important in a dating relationship and it's something I'd talk about with a guy before dating them. Not infallible, but hopefully would act as a screening mechanism.
 
I don't know why it's called "cheating"....

I have had sex with a woman that was not my wife while I was married. It's not a big deal.

amish
 


<< I don't know why it's called "cheating"....

I have had sex with a woman that was not my wife while I was married. It's not a big deal.

amish >>

Some people here consider a sexual relationship something that you reserve for whoever you're married to. It's an intimate union. You know... the whole sharing a piece of yourself with someone thing. And, since that person isn't your wife, some people here would consider that unfaithful -thus the "cheating" thing.

nik
 


<< Ah, the good old days of sharing. You young people are such tight asses.

Russ, NCNE >>



Yes they are. 🙂




<< sexual relationship >>



That's an oxy-moron if I"ve ever heard one.

amish
 


<< Ah, the good old days of sharing. You young people are such tight asses.

Russ, NCNE >>



r u married ???

location pls.😉
 


<<

<< sexual relationship >>



That's an oxy-moron if I"ve ever heard one. >>

Okay, so you don't feel the same way. That's fine. But just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

nik
 


<< Never have and never will cheat. Never been cheated on and would, obviously, try never to date anyone that I think has a moral sense that would allow them to even consider cheating. For me, matching moral codes are important in a dating relationship and it's something I'd talk about with a guy before dating them. Not infallible, but hopefully would act as a screening mechanism. >>



Even the most spiritual people fall my friend. There have been many instances of very 'godly' pastors losing their place in the church because of it, and not to mention some very public ones. I'll bet if you ask your pastor he'd tell you he's unfortunately dealt with it in couples in the church alot more than you are probably aware of.

But I don't condone it and think its one of the most selfish things someone can do, regardless.
 


<<

<< Never have and never will cheat. Never been cheated on and would, obviously, try never to date anyone that I think has a moral sense that would allow them to even consider cheating. For me, matching moral codes are important in a dating relationship and it's something I'd talk about with a guy before dating them. Not infallible, but hopefully would act as a screening mechanism. >>



Even the most spiritual people fall my friend. There have been many instances of very 'godly' pastors losing their place in the church because of it, and not to mention some very public ones. I'll bet if you ask your pastor he'd tell you he's unfortunately dealt with it in couples in the church alot more than you are probably aware of. >>



Yep, you're right. That's why I said it's not an infallible thing, but there's less chance of being cheated on if I find someone who has moral opposition to cheating than if I find someone who has no issues with it. No guarentees, except from my own side because I can make my own decisions and it's a decision I've made.
 

neither.

the time i got drunk and went home with a stripper should not count since my gf at the time had just called and told me she wanted to break up. we ended up back together just for sex for a few more month, so no big deal.
 
Not sure and I'm not sure I would want to know now. My gut feeling is no, but you never know. I had a break up
about 10 years ago, after a 3 year relationship, that was alot less than good. Other than that I'm farily confident the
answer would be no.

I have never cheated on anyone, although cheating is a thin line. Especially the way some people define it.
 
<<Even the most spiritual people fall my friend. There have been many instances of very 'godly' pastors losing their place in the church because of it, and not to mention some very public ones. I'll bet if you ask your pastor he'd tell you he's unfortunately dealt with it in couples in the church alot more than you are probably aware of.>>

What a joke. If your spirituality lets you fall, it isn't spirituality.

There is law and there's the spirit of the law. I once met two women at the same time and naturally mentioned it to both because I want honesty myself. One of them was merely curious and competitive with an former girlfriend, I came to find out, and the other couldn't handle the info because the second girl had the same name as her sister. 😀 That one was married but separated from her husband at the time. Neither situation violated my sense of the spirit.

I won't intrude of an ongoing relationship and I won't violate one I'm in either. I do this, not for religious reasons, but for spiritual ones. In either case you harm yourself and others.

Amish, I would have, I think, more respect for your comment if it were: "My wife has had other relationships. It's no big deal."
 


<< Ah, the good old days of sharing. You young people are such tight asses. >>


ROFL 😀 yeah, it's a disturbing trend in today's youth.

I have to agree with Amish, it's not that big a deal. Although, out of respect for my wife I haven't cheated on her. I have cheated with about every GF I've had though but I never looked upon relationships as a permanent thing until I got married.
 
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