POLL: Give my info to victim of car accident I witnessed?

MotionMan

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I was driving home on the freeway with my wife on Sunday afternoon. We were less than a mile from our exit, so I moved into the right lane. In front of us, a car had slowed down a little to let in another vehicle that was in the second-from-right lane with his right turn signal on. That vehicle seemed to start to move into the right lane, but then seemed to drift back to his left and tapped his brakes a little. This happened a couple times.

I mentioned to my wife that that the driver was awful and did not even know how to take a lane when it is being given to him.

Eventually, the guy moves into the right lane and starts down the long, wide exit ramp. I get on the ramp and, where it opens to three lanes wide, I moved to be parallel to the vehicle (him on the far left, me to the far right). I look over and the guy is asleep! Not slowly blinking his eyes. His eyes were closed for seconds long!!!

I immediately honk my horn and my wife and I start talking about if there is anything more we can do. (his eyes are closed throughout our conversation!!).

We get to the end of the ramp before the car and we stop at the red light. It is clear that the guy is not awake and will not stop, so I honk again to try to, I don?t know, warn someone. He plows into a car at the red light. Luckily, he was not going very fast, so it was just a fender bender.

I make a right turn and pull into the next driveway (which happens to be my daughter?s school). My wife and I hop out of the car and run back to the accident scene 100 or so feet away. We run up to the accident victim, a 20ih guy, and start to tell him through his window that we saw the whole thing, the guy was asleep, etc., etc.

The accident victim thanks us and we decide that we should all pull down the block to a gas station. We run back to our car and drive to the station to meet the victim and his girlfriend (who was in a car next to him at the time of the accident). Turns out that the sleeper took off and neither the victim nor his girlfriend got the sleeper?s license plate number! We gave him our name and number and left.

The most amazing thing about the whole event was that when we were talking with the victim at the scene of the accident, the light turned green and this 50ish guy in a big Mercedes drove by and yelled at my wife and I ?Why don?t you mind your own f--king business?.

I could not believe it!!! Do you think that the guy would say the same thing if it was his family who had been hit? Does this guy want the sleeper to continue driving around our neighborhood? Though it may be obvious as to who caused this accident, my wife and I felt it was important that someone know what led up to it.

I do not feel like a busybody and I would do it again (except I would take down the license number, too).

Do you think we were wrong to volunteer to be witnesses for the victim?

CLIFFS:
1. Saw a car accident caused by sleeping driver;
2. Offered to be a witness;
3. Asked by non-party, ?Why don?t you mind your own f--king business?.

MotionMan
 

MmmSkyscraper

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Originally posted by: MotionMan
The most amazing thing about the whole event was that when we were talking with the victim at the scene of the accident, the light turned green and this 50ish guy in a big Mercedes drove by and yelled at my wife and I ?Why don?t you mind your own f--king business?.

That guy is a tool :thumbsdown:
 
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SlitheryDee

That's messed up. Mercedes man should start taking his own advice.

And yes stopping and offering to witness for the victim was a totally cool thing to do. :thumbsup:
 

Whisper

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the guy in the Mercedes was a d!ck, plain and simple. You did the right thing by offering your information to the driver of the car that was hit.
 

Zenmervolt

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Guy in the Mercedes probably thought you were just gawking and not actually helping.

ZV
 
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I work claims for an auto insurance company; in my line of work, that is probably the most helpfuil thing you could've done at the time.

So I would say a :thumbsup:
 

FallenHero

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Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
Originally posted by: MotionMan
The most amazing thing about the whole event was that when we were talking with the victim at the scene of the accident, the light turned green and this 50ish guy in a big Mercedes drove by and yelled at my wife and I ?Why don?t you mind your own f--king business?.

That guy is a tool :thumbsdown:

yeah im wondering which ATOTer that was.
 

AlienCraft

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The lesson here is to get the basic information down as quickly as possible.

Car licence plate number, color, model,
and
Driver description or even better,
a cell phone photo of the, is essential information and needs to be preserved ASAP.
Distractions and other events subsequent to the accident event will occur and degrade witness reliability.

 

Joemonkey

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Originally posted by: AnandTech Moderator
The fact that somone has to even ask this question makes me fear for the future of this country. Seriously.
:eek:

Someone forget to change accounts before replying? ;)
 

AnandTech Moderator

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Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: AnandTech Moderator
The fact that someone has to even ask this question makes me fear for the future of this country. Seriously.
:eek:

Someone forget to change accounts before replying? ;)
No. It's a commentary on the sad state of affairs this country and this board are in for.
I remember a time when people did the right thing because it was the right thing and not because of public opinion. This isn't a dig on the OP, he did the right thing. It's sad that this question even has to be asked.
Well, time to take my Geritol and a nap.
Moderator out.
 

MotionMan

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I knew it was the right thing and I probably did not need to ask, but the fact that someone said that to us made me (and my wife) wonder if the poll would turn out less lopsided than it currently is.

MotionMan
 

MotionMan

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Jan 11, 2006
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Originally posted by: AlienCraft
The lesson here is to get the basic information down as quickly as possible.

Car licence plate number, color, model,
and
Driver description or even better,
a cell phone photo of the, is essential information and needs to be preserved ASAP.
Distractions and other events subsequent to the accident event will occur and degrade witness reliability.

Certainly, if I had been the victim, I would have gotten all that. My wife and I assumed that the victim or his GF would get the info. My wife and I both feel bad that we did not get the info since we were standing right there. My mobile phone has a camera and, if I had thought about it, I could have taken a picture of the sleeper, his car and his license plate. I sure will next time.

MotionMan
 

Gunslinger08

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Nov 18, 2001
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Depending on how fast the car was going and where he hit them, they may have an imprint of the guy's license plate.

And Mercedes guy was an asshat.
 

soydios

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Originally posted by: Whisper
the guy in the Mercedes was a d!ck, plain and simple. You did the right thing by offering your information to the driver of the car that was hit.

/thread
 

GagHalfrunt

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Apr 19, 2001
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I have done the same thing and would do it again. What goes around comes around. Someday you might be in an accident that isn't your fault and might need a witness to step forward to say so.
 

alkemyst

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Feb 13, 2001
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It's a big thing now a days not to report things for a variety of reasons. Some think it could be costly, some think it's snitching, etc.

I am always using my cell phone to call in problems as I see them. I once had dispatch tell me "Don't you think someone else would have reported it by now?"...my reply was "no, since it just happened".

I called in to report the lady and the supervisor I spoke with said alarmingly a lot of times people just assume those in the incident have cell phones and do not call in.