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rh71

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Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
i never "proposed" to my wife.

i still don't get this "proposal" thing. IF there is ANY chance she is going to say NO why are you asking? IF there is NO chance she is going to say NO why are you asking??

We started dating with the intention of getting married. once we got to a certain comfort level we both just KNEW that we were going to get married. there was never a question about that.

we just started planning our wedding and the "proposal" issue just never came up.
Hell, screw the wedding ceremony too. Just go get the marriage papers done and you're good to go.

 

PlatinumGold

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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
i never "proposed" to my wife.

i still don't get this "proposal" thing. IF there is ANY chance she is going to say NO why are you asking? IF there is NO chance she is going to say NO why are you asking??

We started dating with the intention of getting married. once we got to a certain comfort level we both just KNEW that we were going to get married. there was never a question about that.

we just started planning our wedding and the "proposal" issue just never came up.
Hell, screw the wedding ceremony too. Just go get the marriage papers done and you're good to go.

I wouldn't have had a problem with that. but her father had JUST gotten elected city councilman and the people in that town wouldn't not have appreciated a public ceremony.

we had over 1000 people attend the wedding.

 

Wolverine27

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Another thing, he looked for and found the Tiffany's packing slip from where he got the ring and it was dated 12/30/02, which wasn't even that long ago. I could understand if it was years and years ago, but 7 months?! He couldn't even remember how much the ring cost him. WTH???

Maybe the thought of how much the ring cost him brings painful memories...so he's attempting to repress it. lol! :D ;)
 

cainsdive

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Originally posted by: AnyMal
Yes I remember. I also remember our anniversary date and my wives and kid's birthdays. You'll be surprised how far remembering those dates will take you, it's not that hard.

BTW, I still buy flowers for my wife every week.

Ditto, ecept for the flowers.
:beer::D
 

Crucial

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Date was June 15th, her birthday, We were at the museum in the live exotic butterfly exhibit. Sitting on a rock in the middle of the room surrounded by flitting butterflies I asked her. Wedding was Feb 14th. Those should be fairly easy to remember.
 

LunarRay

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I remember when we decided it was a reasonable thing to do... Hippy chicks were that way back then.. ya know.. :D
 

Ornery

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  • Asked her if she wanted to get married November '77
  • She picked out setting at JB Robinson Jewelers.
  • I later haggled for price of stone.
  • If I had it to do over I'd get a bigger, less perfect stone.
  • Gave her ring on Christmas '77, which shocked her mother, since she was 17 and I was 19.
  • If I had it to do over, I'd ask permission from her parents to marry her.
  • Married in garden of the Kirtland Temple on July 7th, 1978
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: Ornery
  • If I had it to do over, I'd ask permission from her parents to marry her.
LOL, I didn't ask their permission either. I wonder if they're mad at me about that.

 

billandopus

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Dec 29, 1999
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Are you kidding?

I remember everything.

Man, that's one of the most important things that has happened in my life.

How can you not remember when and how you proposed?

Better yet: how can you not remember spending thousands and thousands of dollars on a ring?

Must be painful for some of these guys here to forget the whole "ordeal" ;)

I don't remember the proposal date but I certainly remember the details of my proposal and the whole process of getting an engagement ring. I've been married since '98 so maybe marriage Alzheimers hasn't quite set in yet.
 

Ornery

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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: Ornery
  • If I had it to do over, I'd ask permission from her parents to marry her.
LOL, I didn't ask their permission either. I wonder if they're mad at me about that.
At the time I figured, we're getting married, no matter what our parents say. Still rebellious I guess. The truth is, you're marrying the whole family, so it's best to start off on the right foot. Hell, I've got a 17 year old son now, and I can't begin to imagine him being engaged! I bet her mom almost fainted when she showed her the ring. :Q
 

blackdogdeek

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engaged 27 jan 2001, quebec city, quebec, on the banks of the river down in the old city. i could show you the spot. completely surprised her because she didn't think i knew her ring size(which was true) but she didn't know that the place i got the ring resized free of charge.

married 24 nov 2001, reception in tarrytown, ny at abigail kirsch at tappan hill.
 

Mr N8

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LOL! Engaged August 11, 2000. (Yes, today is Aug 11, and I did remember before I saw this thread.)

 

dirtboy

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Oct 9, 1999
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I don't remember the exact date, but I do remember where I proposed to my ex-wife. It was within a few days of her birthday, which I also forgot, so I used to get in trouble for mixing the two dates up.
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You can count me as one who remembers if you want.
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: AnyMal
Yes I remember. I also remember our anniversary date and my wives and kid's birthdays. You'll be surprised how far remembering those dates will take you, it's not that hard.

BTW, I still buy flowers for my wife every week.
That's one of the most romantic things I've ever read (the part about the flowers).:) For how long have you been married?
Originally posted by: Wolverine27
Maybe the thought of how much the ring cost him brings painful memories...so he's attempting to repress it. lol!:D;)
hehehe. I suggested that too, but he told me that's not the case. *shrug*
:p
Originally posted by: lnguyen
wow that's some short term memory.. did he give the ring to the right girl ;)
lol :D
Originally posted by: MogulMonster
LOL! Engaged August 11, 2000. (Yes, today is Aug 11, and I did remember before I saw this thread.)
Heh nice!