Poll: Do you have the right to check out girls?

[Woosta]

The real question is, would you be here on earth asking this ridiculous question if your daddy didnt stare at your moms ass and titties?

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: TitanDiddly

Originally posted by: Ryan
Do you accept the same criticism?

I'm not sure what exactly what you're asking- my personal standard is that I've made a promise to myself and to God that I won't get any sort of sexual pleasure from anyone other than my future wife. I have come to realize that sexual pleasure comes from several sources, not just the genitals- I believe that it can be derived from looking and thinking about women in an inappropriate manner. In following, I do my best to hold myself to that standard- which for my unmarried self right now, is no sexual pleasure whatsoever. I can't claim to be successful on all fronts, but I've come a long way and I'm on what I believe is the right path. I haven't masturbated in three months. Over spring break I got disgusted with myself for what I was doing and decided to seek the true standard and follow it as best as I can.

These are my own ideals, and while I do think that they are the true standard to which we are all held, I do not expect that others will embrace them. I have been thinking a lot about this topic lately after reading a book called Every Man's Battle and its spinoff Every Young Man's Battle. I posted this poll to get a feeling for what others think on this issue.

It's posts like these that make me wish someone had killed Jesus before he became a cult leader.

 

[jjones]

This question is akin to asking if a bear has a right to shit in the woods. It's not a question of rights, it's just going to happen.

 

[PlasmaBomb]

Originally posted by: SoulAssassin

Originally posted by: BoomerD
If you're not a whore, don't wear the uniform out in public...

"You know sometimes you are out at the club with your boys and you see a woman and she looks good. She looks good but not in the classical sense. She's got half her ass hanging out skirt, titties all mashed together, popping out the top of her turtleneck and shit. So you go to talk to her but you've been hanging with your buddies and have got a couple drinks in you so it doesn't come out right. You're like "DAMN!!! Look at them titties". She interupts you and says, "Just because I am dressed this way does not make me a whore.". That's true fellas. Just because she is dressed that way doesn't make her a whore. But you must understand ladies, that is fucking confusing. That would be like me, Dave Chappelle the comedian, going out in public in a cop uniform. People come up to him and they're like "Help me officer, we need you over here". Then I go "Wait a minute buddy, just because I am dressed this way does not make me a police officer". You see ladies, you may not be a whore, but you sure are wearing a whore's uniform."

Reminds me of Motivator_Perception

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: Mrvile
Yes, absolutely. I do it discreetly so I don't look like an idiot but I do it whenever I want. My girlfriend doesn't mind at all - she trusts me 100% and she knows she can.

Dude, no offense, but - if you're with the right girl, why are you checking out other girls?

When I was with the right girl, I had absolutely 100% no craves to check out other girls.

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: TallBill
It's our natural role as a man to continually search for a proper breeding partner to produce offspring with.

QFT

 

[oddyager]

I'll glance as long as the SO isn't around... or if she's looking the other way.

 

[Anubis]

Originally posted by: Kadarin

Originally posted by: TitanDiddly

Originally posted by: Ryan
Do you accept the same criticism?

I'm not sure what exactly what you're asking- my personal standard is that I've made a promise to myself and to God that I won't get any sort of sexual pleasure from anyone other than my future wife. I have come to realize that sexual pleasure comes from several sources, not just the genitals- I believe that it can be derived from looking and thinking about women in an inappropriate manner. In following, I do my best to hold myself to that standard- which for my unmarried self right now, is no sexual pleasure whatsoever. I can't claim to be successful on all fronts, but I've come a long way and I'm on what I believe is the right path. I haven't masturbated in three months. Over spring break I got disgusted with myself for what I was doing and decided to seek the true standard and follow it as best as I can.

These are my own ideals, and while I do think that they are the true standard to which we are all held, I do not expect that others will embrace them. I have been thinking a lot about this topic lately after reading a book called Every Man's Battle and its spinoff Every Young Man's Battle. I posted this poll to get a feeling for what others think on this issue.

It's posts like these that make me wish someone had killed Jesus before he became a cult leader.

ROFL

 

[Xavier434]

Yes! Heck, I even make comments to my girl about another girl in a similar way that I do with the guys. She doesn't care and often laughs and agrees with me.

 

[Pabster]

Originally posted by: Barack Obama
Of course, and they enjoy the attention as well. But within limits of course. The only people complaining are the fatties and ugly feminists.

MASOCHIST! :laugh:

 

[TruePaige]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

Originally posted by: Mrvile
Yes, absolutely. I do it discreetly so I don't look like an idiot but I do it whenever I want. My girlfriend doesn't mind at all - she trusts me 100% and she knows she can.

Dude, no offense, but - if you're with the right girl, why are you checking out other girls?

When I was with the right girl, I had absolutely 100% no craves to check out other girls.

Yeeaahh..that's like saying married people don't watch porn.

 

[TruePaige]

Originally posted by: TitanDiddly

Originally posted by: Ryan
Do you accept the same criticism?

I'm not sure what exactly what you're asking- my personal standard is that I've made a promise to myself and to God that I won't get any sort of sexual pleasure from anyone other than my future wife. I have come to realize that sexual pleasure comes from several sources, not just the genitals- I believe that it can be derived from looking and thinking about women in an inappropriate manner. In following, I do my best to hold myself to that standard- which for my unmarried self right now, is no sexual pleasure whatsoever. I can't claim to be successful on all fronts, but I've come a long way and I'm on what I believe is the right path. I haven't masturbated in three months. Over spring break I got disgusted with myself for what I was doing and decided to seek the true standard and follow it as best as I can.

These are my own ideals, and while I do think that they are the true standard to which we are all held, I do not expect that others will embrace them. I have been thinking a lot about this topic lately after reading a book called Every Man's Battle and its spinoff Every Young Man's Battle. I posted this poll to get a feeling for what others think on this issue.

Wow. Talk about a bombshell post. 0.o

 

[Xavier434]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

Originally posted by: Mrvile
Yes, absolutely. I do it discreetly so I don't look like an idiot but I do it whenever I want. My girlfriend doesn't mind at all - she trusts me 100% and she knows she can.

Dude, no offense, but - if you're with the right girl, why are you checking out other girls?

When I was with the right girl, I had absolutely 100% no craves to check out other girls.

Having cravings to check out other women are not always indicators that a man is not 100% satisfied with his woman. That's just the way most men are built. Take me for example. I feel that my girl is hotter than the vast majority of women I see everyday but that doesn't stop me from enjoying the eye candy that passes by. The difference between my feelings on the matter right now as opposed to when I was with a girl that I was not satisfied with is that now I only see those other women as eye candy rather than having some kind of secret desire for my girl to look as good as that eye candy. There is a huge difference.

On top of that, there really is nothing wrong with someone or something else that reminds you that you wish your woman looked more attractive. What matters is how you react to it. Do you sit around and do nothing? Do you cheat on her? Do you try to motivate her in a positive manner to get in better shape? What you do is what counts and nothing more.

 

[judasmachine]

you don't have the right, but i don't think it's unnatural. just be cool and use the line of sight rule instead of staring like a douchebag, or a nerd.

 

[Oyeve]

Originally posted by: TruePaige

Originally posted by: TitanDiddly

Originally posted by: Ryan
Do you accept the same criticism?

I'm not sure what exactly what you're asking- my personal standard is that I've made a promise to myself and to God that I won't get any sort of sexual pleasure from anyone other than my future wife. I have come to realize that sexual pleasure comes from several sources, not just the genitals- I believe that it can be derived from looking and thinking about women in an inappropriate manner. In following, I do my best to hold myself to that standard- which for my unmarried self right now, is no sexual pleasure whatsoever. I can't claim to be successful on all fronts, but I've come a long way and I'm on what I believe is the right path. I haven't masturbated in three months. Over spring break I got disgusted with myself for what I was doing and decided to seek the true standard and follow it as best as I can.

These are my own ideals, and while I do think that they are the true standard to which we are all held, I do not expect that others will embrace them. I have been thinking a lot about this topic lately after reading a book called Every Man's Battle and its spinoff Every Young Man's Battle. I posted this poll to get a feeling for what others think on this issue.

Wow. Talk about a bombshell post. 0.o

Yeah, methinks hes regressing his Christianity and is having doubts.

 

[sdifox]

Originally posted by: TitanDiddly

Originally posted by: Ryan
Do you accept the same criticism?

I'm not sure what exactly what you're asking- my personal standard is that I've made a promise to myself and to God that I won't get any sort of sexual pleasure from anyone other than my future wife. I have come to realize that sexual pleasure comes from several sources, not just the genitals- I believe that it can be derived from looking and thinking about women in an inappropriate manner. In following, I do my best to hold myself to that standard- which for my unmarried self right now, is no sexual pleasure whatsoever. I can't claim to be successful on all fronts, but I've come a long way and I'm on what I believe is the right path. I haven't masturbated in three months. Over spring break I got disgusted with myself for what I was doing and decided to seek the true standard and follow it as best as I can.

These are my own ideals, and while I do think that they are the true standard to which we are all held, I do not expect that others will embrace them. I have been thinking a lot about this topic lately after reading a book called Every Man's Battle and its spinoff Every Young Man's Battle. I posted this poll to get a feeling for what others think on this issue.

Good for you. I don't necesarrily agree with you, but it is good to be principled.