Please understand what being a 'Nice Guy' ISN'T all about:

Zeze

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STOP.

ABUSING.

THE WORDS

'MR. NICE GUY'

There's a difference between...

A charming nice guy who's confident, charismatic, socially awesome, damn cool, and genuinely sincere. All ladies go wet for him.

AND

A pussy doormat 'nice' guy who's insecure, does everything to seek approval (which is painfully obvious and unattractive), and spills everything inside for zero charm. All ladies friendzone him and he narrow-mindedly thinks "Oh man, nice guys do finish last'.

The latter isn't a nice guy. He's just a pussy and an idiot.

There's a THIRD guy who's confident and douchey. Women only go after two out of those three. Take a wild guess who's left out.

Just had to get it off my chest.
 
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Exterous

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Sounds like someone keeps getting put in the friend zone for being Mr Nice Guy
 

Zeze

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Sounds like someone keeps getting put in the friend zone for being Mr Nice Guy

This friend of mine just doesn't get it and keeps blaming how it's because girls don't like nice guys like him.

I got a pretty girl myself, some ATOTer's know this. :)
 

surfsatwerk

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I used to be such a sweet, sweet thing
'Til they got a hold of me.
I opened doors for little old ladies,
I helped the blind to see.
I got no friends 'cause they read the papers.
They can't be seen, with me and I'm gettin' real shot down
And I'm feeling mean.

No more Mister Nice Guy
No more Mister Clean
No more Mister Nice Guy
They say, he's sick he's obscene

I got no friends 'cause they read the papers.
They can't be seen, with me and I'm gettin' real shot down
And I'm, I'm gettin' mean.

No more Mister Nice Guy
No more Mister Clean
No more Mister Nice Guy
They say, he's sick he's obscene

My dog bit me in the leg today
My cat clawwed my eyes
Mom's been thrown out the social circle
And dad has to hide
I went to church, incognito
When everybody rose, the Reverand Smith,
He recognized me,
And punched me in the nose
He said,

No more Mister Nice Guy
No more Mister Clean
No more Mister Nice Guy
He said, you're sick, you're obscene

No more Mister Nice Guy
No more Mister Clean
No more Mister Nice Guy
He said, you're sick, you're obscene
 

Imp

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But the nice guy was there for her, listened to all her problems, was her doormat, bought her shit, did all her homework, paid her bills, bought her expensive shit... Totally nice, dude. WTF?
 

Exterous

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This friend of mine just doesn't get it and keeps blaming how it's because girls don't like nice guys like him.

I got a pretty girl myself, some ATOTer's know this. :)

Oh sure, it's your friend that has the problem. Got it. *Nod nod wink wink*
 

Platypus

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I saw a perfect TLJ picture in the window of some random restaurant walking down the street the other day. I almost snapped a pic of it to send to you Zeze.
 

MontyAC

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STOP.

ABUSING.

THE WORDS

'MR. NICE GUY'

There's a difference between...

A charming nice guy who's confident, charismatic, socially awesome, damn cool, and genuinely sincere. All ladies go wet for him.

AND

A pussy doormat 'nice' guy who's insecure, does everything to seek approval (which is painfully obvious and unattractive), and spills everything inside for zero charm. All ladies friendzone him and he narrow-mindedly thinks "Oh man, nice guys do finish last'.

The latter isn't a nice guy. He's just a pussy and an idiot.

There's a THIRD guy who's confident and douchey. Women only go after two out of those three. Take a wild guess who's left out.

Just had to get it off my chest.

Post this sh!t in L&R you noob.
 

Spungo

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I'm the pussy doormat :(

Try being a dick. One of my girlfriends complains about how verbally abusive her boyfriends are but she stays with them for months. She's a good person but damn she's dumb as a rock.
 

Aikouka

Lifer
Nov 27, 2001
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My sister loved the Swan Princess animated movie as a kid, and whenever I heard "nice guy", it reminds me of the song in the movie.

"Nooooo more Mr. Nice Guy, no siree!"
 

Fritzo

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Try being a dick. One of my girlfriends complains about how verbally abusive her boyfriends are but she stays with them for months. She's a good person but damn she's dumb as a rock.

It's hard to find a balance. If I do everything for everyone, everyone likes me but they drive me crazy from needing things all the time.

If I'm a dick, everyone hates me and avoids me.

I'm to the point where I'm trying to cut all ties with people and become a loner. I go straight home from work and sit in my basement until it's time to go to bed.
 
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I've gotten to where I don't do the nice stuff for gals with boyfriends.

Go to eat with young gal 1 with a boyfriend, young gal 2 who is married, and old gal.

I'll be nice and get to go cups for the married gal and old gal, but the one with a boyfriend can take care of her own shit.
 

purbeast0

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haha it's so true. i have a friend who's a nice guy in category 2, and he just does not get it.

one problem that the category 2 guys don't get is that women want a man who will put his foot down and take charge, where it's his way or the highway. but knowing when to do that is key.
 

surfsatwerk

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I've gotten to where I don't do the nice stuff for gals with boyfriends.

Go to eat with young gal 1 with a boyfriend, young gal 2 who is married, and old gal.

I'll be nice and get to go cups for the married gal and old gal, but the one with a boyfriend can take care of her own shit.

The only time I watched Scrubs and laughed was the episode wear they talked about how married women were invisible to JD. The one nurse asked all the married women to take their rings off, and all of a sudden the room was full of women that appeared out of nowhere.
 

Theb

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I was pretty certain only teenagers spent time thinking about this, but I'm also pretty sure some of you aren't teenagers. Now I don't know what to believe.
 
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The only time I watched Scrubs and laughed was the episode wear they talked about how married women were invisible to JD. The one nurse asked all the married women to take their rings off, and all of a sudden the room was full of women that appeared out of nowhere.

No way man, married/engaged gals are better sources. Their friends/bridesmaids girls don't want to be without a person at the wedding, figure she's found a guy, so she surely is a good judge, etc. Girls with boyfriends ain't going to be sending ass your way, want to keep you available in case of "break glass in case of emergency" dick.