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don't sign anything, obviously. you weren't married. but i'd check the common law marriage statutes in your state. The fact that she never paid any rent or utilities would probably null any claims she would have however.

you can be reasonable and discuss that fact with her, and offer to pay the the dell thing and/or part of the CC's. if she get's even more crazy on you, just call a lawyer.
 
are you serious? How ****** stupid would you have to be to sign that. You spent 3 years with her, and she still acts like this? Must be a real ******. Use it as t.p.
 
Originally posted by: Powerbrew
Recently my live in girlfriend of 3 years has decided to call off our relationship. Which obviously i am already shook up about but. i come home today and look on the dining room table there is a contract for me to sign. No joke a contract.

Basically it stated that i am required to give her 2,000 dollars of my federal tax return money. Pay off the dell account as well as one of her minor Credit Cards. Which everything in totals reach 4,300 dollars. Failure to do so will result in legal action ect. I have no problem paying off the dell account in which i used and i did use he CC from time to time. But what really pisses me off is she never paid a single cent to rent or any utilities. Am i suppose to bill her for that? I mean isn't this crazy?

Thoughts?
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YOUCH THATS UGLY!!!



 
if you did not have any sort of contract stating her being responsible for partial payment of rent or bills, chances are that you are SOL on all that now. But the same goes for her... unless you previously agreed to pay for stuff, then she cannot make you. If you put charges on her CC, then it is only right you pay it.

what is the $2,000 for?
 
You don't owe her sh*t if you are describing the situation correctly.

If she does try to sue, whip out a countersuit for utilities.
 
I would imagine it varies from state to state but I find it hard to believe that without a marriage license she's SOL if you don't want to pay her.

It goes like this:

Her: You owe me.
You: No I don't.
Her: You bought that with my CC
You: With your permission. I'll say it was a gift.
Her: ...
End of conversation.

Edit: Whatever you do DON'T SIGN ANYTHING
 
the 2,000 is just the amount i recieve becasue she is a dependant she didn't work at all last year.

i am going to give her ruffly 2,800 dollars to cover her bills so she will not be totaly screwed.

its just i never saw this coming
 
Originally posted by: Powerbrew
the 2,000 is just the amount i recieve becasue she is a dependant she didn't work at all last year.

i am going to give her ruffly 2,800 dollars to cover her bills so she will not be totaly screwed.
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With her attitude you shouldn't give here ANYTHING. Please don't tell me you are considering it because you still "love" her. Because she will see the weakness and exploit it.
 
Originally posted by: Powerbrew
the 2,000 is just the amount i recieve becasue she is a dependant she didn't work at all last year.

i am going to give her ruffly 2,800 dollars to cover her bills so she will not be totaly screwed.

its just i never saw this coming
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She's the one leaving... it's not like you're kicking her out. Let her fend for herself. And DON'T give her your tax refund.

Ahhh.... Wiz beat me to it.
 
Originally posted by: iamwiz82
Originally posted by: Powerbrew
the 2,000 is just the amount i recieve becasue she is a dependant she didn't work at all last year.

i am going to give her ruffly 2,800 dollars to cover her bills so she will not be totaly screwed.
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With her attitude you shouldn't give here ANYTHING. Please don't tell me you are considering it because you still "love" her. Because she will see the weakness and exploit it.
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that is not the reason i am doing it. i believe i do owe her some monitary value. it is to the point where i just want it over and her gone. btw she will finish moving her stuff saturday.
 
Originally posted by: Powerbrew
Originally posted by: iamwiz82
Originally posted by: Powerbrew
the 2,000 is just the amount i recieve becasue she is a dependant she didn't work at all last year.

i am going to give her ruffly 2,800 dollars to cover her bills so she will not be totaly screwed.
Click to expand...

With her attitude you shouldn't give here ANYTHING. Please don't tell me you are considering it because you still "love" her. Because she will see the weakness and exploit it.
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that is not the reason i am doing it. i believe i do owe her some monitary value. it is to the point where i just want it over and her gone. btw she will finish moving her stuff saturday.
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Why would you owe her anything if she didn't contribute income?
 
Originally posted by: Powerbrew
Originally posted by: iamwiz82
Originally posted by: Powerbrew
the 2,000 is just the amount i recieve becasue she is a dependant she didn't work at all last year.

i am going to give her ruffly 2,800 dollars to cover her bills so she will not be totaly screwed.
Click to expand...

With her attitude you shouldn't give here ANYTHING. Please don't tell me you are considering it because you still "love" her. Because she will see the weakness and exploit it.
Click to expand...

that is not the reason i am doing it. i believe i do owe her some monitary value. it is to the point where i just want it over and her gone. btw she will finish moving her stuff saturday.
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She's just as gone and it's just as over whether you pay her or not. It's her choice to leave. You don't owe her anything other than the Dell bill.
 
dont sign anything and dont pay anything

you paying or giving her money will not look good in court if things go that way

ask her to leave and set a date for her to be moved out by


actually id watch your back i bet she will rob you blind when your not home.

 
Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
dont sign anything and dont pay anything

you paying or giving her money will not look good in court if things go that way

ask her to leave and set a date for her to be moved out by


actually id watch your back i bet she will rob you blind when your not home.
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yeah. That's why he needs to change the locks immediately. He may come home to a comletely empty place. Happens all the time.
 
Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
dont sign anything and dont pay anything

you paying or giving her money will not look good in court if things go that way

ask her to leave and set a date for her to be moved out by


actually id watch your back i bet she will rob you blind when your not home.
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i have set aside time to be home when she finishes moving. BTW i have not signed anything. my parents want me to go to court. i just want it done
 
dont sign it..

if she didnt pay rent.. then you arent liable.. maybe if anything it is for teh dell.. but if she bought it, and you use it once in a while, she cannot collect 'rent' for it.. if there was no stated contract, only an impled contract and she cannot collect on an implied contract.


edit:

if you bought something on her cc, you only need to pay that.

you need to listen to tom leykis.
 
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