Please help

[ColdFusion718]

I had the same problem too back when I was in college. When my gf (at the time) and I did it 2-3 times a day for about 2 weeks, I found it difficult to "come out and play" (it was her way of saying, "Let's do it now!") on occasions. After I gave it a few days off, I was back! This happened when I was 20.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: loic2003
Yeah, impotence is very often a mental issue more than anything else. Beer doesn't help, though. Everyone's been there when you're wearing the rubber overcoat and have had a skinful of beer.... you're on the job, dehydrated to hell, she's dry as, you're numb from the 12 pints of Stella, the johnny's not helping sensitivity, and you think you might rather just go to sleep/pass out than continue like a jackhammer. Suddenly you find that you're losing it a bit and the worry of imminent flaccidity drives you into a moment of panic. Of course, every girl takes you losing it as you thinking they're not attractive, so awkward conversations usually follow, and you can't just carry on pumping away as after a while it's going to be like trying to shove an oyster into a slot machine...
Best move here is to admit drunkeness before she noticies a distinct loss of penile pressure, and to say you need 10 mins and a cup of tea. This usually bails you out of the potential situation.

As for not being able to get it up fully when you're alone, even with the help of the internet and it's wealth of faux-blondes with modified chests, I'd say this sounds like something you should speak to your doctor about. They're paid to deal with stuff like this, and you can of course expect complete confidentiality.

Good on you ATOT for being so understanding to this guy. :beer

Too bad this is too long to be sig material.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: shortspanishguy

Originally posted by: eakers
are you using steroids?

lets hope not.... at age 16 that would be a big mistake.

at any age it would be.

 

[shadow goat]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: shortspanishguy

Originally posted by: eakers
are you using steroids?

lets hope not.... at age 16 that would be a big mistake.

at any age it would be.

Nah no steroids.

I managed to not think about it long enough this morning to manage a quickie with my girlfriend but yeah I think I will try to give it a week or two off like you guys suggested.

Thanks again. This help is much appreciated.

 

[Cattlegod]

I'd recommend telling your mom you feel sick or are peeing blood or something so she stays out of the doctors room while you are in there. when the doc comes in, tell him the truth and tell your mom to wait outside or something.

 

[Squisher]

Now that we've gotten all the serious stuff out of the way.

Gone Dead Train
by Nazareth

It's a gone dead train
Yes, it's a gone dead train

My engine was pumpin' steam
And I was grindin' at you hard and fast
Burnin' down the rails, tryin' to heat the way
Haulin' ass and ridin' up the track
And I laughed at the conductor who was tellin' me my coal
It would never last

But then the fire in my boiler
Up and quit before I came
Ain't no empty cellar
Like a gone dead train

Once was at a time when I could
Mama shave 'em dry
And raise a fever ice-down chill
Waitin' at the station
With a heavy loaded sack
Savin' up and holdin' just to spill
Shootin' my supply through my demon's eye
Instead of holdin' my time, I hope I will

But then the fire in my boiler
Up and quit before I came
There ain't no empty cellar
Needs a gone dead train

Yes it's a gone dead train
I'm gonna teach it to learn now, now
It's a gone dead train
Yes it's a gone dead train
I'm gonna teach it to learn now, now
It's a gone dead train
Gonna teach it, gonna teach it to learn

There ain't no easy day
When your daily run's a downhill pull
And there ain't no easy way
Wishin' for some jelly roll
There ain't no switch been made
To make your juicy lemon find
A spring to run a dry well full

But then the fire in my boiler
Up and quit before I came
Ain't no empty cellar
Needs a gone dead train


Yes it's a gone dead train
I'm gonna teach it to learn
You know it's a gone dead train
Gonna teach it, gonna teach it to burn
It's a gone dead train
It's a gone dead train, you gotta learn
It's a gone dead train
Gonna teach it, gonna teach it, gonna teach it to burn.

 

[AreaCode707]

WebMD.com has a good forum for questions like this and you'll get more educated answers.

 

[Eos]

Is it possible you're not into the girl anymore? I know you're young and a breeze can likely give you wood, but your big head may be taking over here.

 

[narzy]

Originally posted by: yowolabi

Originally posted by: loic2003
Yeah, impotence is very often a mental issue more than anything else. Beer doesn't help, though. Everyone's been there when you're wearing the rubber overcoat and have had a skinful of beer.... you're on the job, dehydrated to hell, she's dry as, you're numb from the 12 pints of Stella, the johnny's not helping sensitivity, and you think you might rather just go to sleep/pass out than continue like a jackhammer. Suddenly you find that you're losing it a bit and the worry of imminent flaccidity drives you into a moment of panic. Of course, every girl takes you losing it as you thinking they're not attractive, so awkward conversations usually follow, and you can't just carry on pumping away as after a while it's going to be like trying to shove an oyster into a slot machine...
Best move here is to admit drunkeness before she noticies a distinct loss of penile pressure, and to say you need 10 mins and a cup of tea. This usually bails you out of the potential situation.

As for not being able to get it up fully when you're alone, even with the help of the internet and it's wealth of faux-blondes with modified chests, I'd say this sounds like something you should speak to your doctor about. They're paid to deal with stuff like this, and you can of course expect complete confidentiality.

Good on you ATOT for being so understanding to this guy. :beer

Too bad this is too long to be sig material.

I know dude, I lost it at oyster into a slot machine...

 

[jkersenbr]

Originally posted by: edro
It's all in your head. The second you start to think about it, it won't happen. It's tough to take your mind off of, but you must try to think about sexual things as much as possible and not about your softy.

Most guys go through this at some point. It usually happens a few times in a row because you are still thinking about the past failures.

QFT