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Originally posted by: lnguyen
wow, this thread is up there in the upper spots of google?

Yep. Go to google and type in

dating young girls

Scroll down past the russian mail order bride sites, it's about the 7th or 8th thing that comes up.
 
Originally posted by: PremiumG
23 year old dude i know is dating a girl who's at least 16 but doesn't look much older than 18 (if that). Is there a problem w/ that? He seems to like her and not just try to get into her pants.

From a purely legal POV, it's a risky situation to be in, if the parents of the girl decide to make a fuss and get the police involved.

 
Originally posted by: PremiumG
ok.... the original poster back again.

truth is I am the older person and the younger girl and I are just "hanging out" at the moment.

we just started hanging out not too long ago.. Unfortunately, I dont know her real age, but she is really young. Its not that I'm afraid to ask her, its that I'm afraid to find out!

anyway, so back on topic.
i think i'm going to see how things go even though there is a pretty big age gap. Truthfully, I dont know much about her, but I do know that she is super duper gorgeous and she might be interested in me too. I mean, if I find out that she's not all that mature, i'll probably call it off. Really though, I dont know how I feel about her, but i might as well give things a shot anyway, right?

if you're 23 and picking up chicks at the local highschool you're a loser.
 
Her parents won't like that at all, move on with life

Keep in touch for a few years if you must, don't try and establish a relationship with her though

She's 16, tons of changing left
 
Originally posted by: PremiumG
23 year old dude i know is dating a girl who's at least 16
younger than 18 = :thumbsdown: + pound-me-in-the-ass if the judge says so

18 or older = :thumbsup: + :beer:

Besides, speaking from experience, a 23 year old dude is a 5th or 6th-year college senior. An 18 year old woman (i.e. adult) is a freshman. Nothing wrong with going out with a girl you met at the school's gym.
 
Originally posted by: codered22
Wow. Killer thread. Found it thanks to Google when searching for what other people's experiences are on this topic.

All right, I think I'm borderline here. Age 21 -- 22 in less than a week -- and this 17 year old girl and me have been been getting pretty friendly. Not even close to dating level but it's pretty obvious both of us like each other. She'll be 18 in February. So basically she's about 17.7 and I'm 22.0. What do you guys think about this?

Google finds ATOT! BEWARE!

Koing
 
Originally posted by: PremiumG
i think i'm going to see how things go even though there is a pretty big age gap. Truthfully, I dont know much about her, but I do know that she is super duper gorgeous and she might be interested in me too....

how old are you again?
 
Originally posted by: lnguyen
Originally posted by: PremiumG
i think i'm going to see how things go even though there is a pretty big age gap. Truthfully, I dont know much about her, but I do know that she is super duper gorgeous and she might be interested in me too....

how old are you again?

He is 23.

Koing
 
Well I'm an 18 year old dating a 15 year old... (well technically she'll be 16 here pretty quick and I'll be 19... so 3 year difference.
 
Originally posted by: Paulson
Well I'm an 18 year old dating a 15 year old... (well technically she'll be 16 here pretty quick and I'll be 19... so 3 year difference.

Dude... how do you find 15 year olds attractive at 18? Actually, the real question is how you find 15 year olds at all? Do you hang out by the local high school looking to scam on some young girls?
 
Originally posted by: mwtgg
Originally posted by: Paulson
Well I'm an 18 year old dating a 15 year old... (well technically she'll be 16 here pretty quick and I'll be 19... so 3 year difference.

Dude... how do you find 15 year olds attractive at 18? Actually, the real question is how you find 15 year olds at all? Do you hang out by the local high school looking to scam on some young girls?
Ok asshat... I was involved with our local school musical or whatever (yes, lame I know) and she was in it as well (I was a senior)... we just clicked and have gotten along great. We've been going out for like 7 or 8 months.

Her parents both like me, I get along with all of her siblings, it works out great.

Oh my, people are 3 years a part... oh no, that's a sin!
 
Originally posted by: Paulson
Well I'm an 18 year old dating a 15 year old... (well technically she'll be 16 here pretty quick and I'll be 19... so 3 year difference.

18/2 = 9
9+7 = 16
nope, that doesn't work
19/2 = 9.5 (round up to 10)
10 + 7 = 17
nope, that still doesn't work
 
The equation is:
Half your age +7 yrs. That is the unbreakable, unbendable rule.

23? 12 (round up, especially when you're youngish) +7 =19.

Simple. Try it at home! I'm 26, so I can date girls down to 20.

If you're 34, it's 24.

If you're 80, it's 47.

It works!!!
 
whats wrong w/50 dating a 13 year old. you know, there are advantages of working next door to a junior high...

 
Originally posted by: Paulson
Originally posted by: mwtgg
Originally posted by: Paulson
Well I'm an 18 year old dating a 15 year old... (well technically she'll be 16 here pretty quick and I'll be 19... so 3 year difference.

Dude... how do you find 15 year olds attractive at 18? Actually, the real question is how you find 15 year olds at all? Do you hang out by the local high school looking to scam on some young girls?
Ok asshat... I was involved with our local school musical or whatever (yes, lame I know) and she was in it as well (I was a senior)... we just clicked and have gotten along great. We've been going out for like 7 or 8 months.

Her parents both like me, I get along with all of her siblings, it works out great.

Oh my, people are 3 years a part... oh no, that's a sin!

When the other person is a minor, it gets a little sticky.

I know all about age differences, my parents are 11 years apart, but that doesn't mean that my dad met my mom when she was 15 and he was 26.
 
Originally posted by: mwtgg
Originally posted by: Paulson
Originally posted by: mwtgg
Originally posted by: Paulson
Well I'm an 18 year old dating a 15 year old... (well technically she'll be 16 here pretty quick and I'll be 19... so 3 year difference.

Dude... how do you find 15 year olds attractive at 18? Actually, the real question is how you find 15 year olds at all? Do you hang out by the local high school looking to scam on some young girls?
Ok asshat... I was involved with our local school musical or whatever (yes, lame I know) and she was in it as well (I was a senior)... we just clicked and have gotten along great. We've been going out for like 7 or 8 months.

Her parents both like me, I get along with all of her siblings, it works out great.

Oh my, people are 3 years a part... oh no, that's a sin!

When the other person is a minor, it gets a little sticky.

I know all about age differences, my parents are 11 years apart, but that doesn't mean that my dad met my mom when she was 15 and he was 26.
Well don't worry, I'm not doing anything wrong that would make it a bad situation.
 
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