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Originally posted by: Yzzim
Originally posted by: wiredspider
I'm 17 (but will be 18 in just 2 weeks) and my bf is 23. I've got to say there is nothing wrong with it, if they are both mature about it.

My girlfriend is 18, I'm 23. We've been dating for ~5 years and I was very uncomfortable with it for the first couple years...well, in public anyway. I think it helped us that we spent a lot of time with her family for the first couple years. I got to know not only her but also her family very well.

We're talking about getting engaged in a couple months. I can't wait :heart:

WTH? How does an 18 year old find himself attracted to a 13 year old????
 
If the 23yo isn't as perverted as all you freaks on this board, then I see no problem with her being 18-19, but even if he's a total conservative guy I think 16-17 is too young (immature). She should at least be graduating high school or be in college.
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: lavagirl669
My friend just got engaged....she's 42 and her fiance is 21

that tops yours.....hee hee!

:Q

Pics?

- M4H

actually I do have a pic, but I don't think she'd like me posting it on the internet .....
she's pretty hot though
 
Originally posted by: lavagirl669
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: lavagirl669
My friend just got engaged....she's 42 and her fiance is 21

that tops yours.....hee hee!

:Q

Pics?

- M4H

actually I do have a pic, but I don't think she'd like me posting it on the internet .....
she's pretty hot though

don't get me wrong, your friend should have all the fun she wants... but seriously, what's your take on the LONGEVITY of that relationship?

I, for one, was done with throwaway relationships when I was 22....
 
Originally posted by: Hankysmoo
Originally posted by: Yzzim
Originally posted by: wiredspider
I'm 17 (but will be 18 in just 2 weeks) and my bf is 23. I've got to say there is nothing wrong with it, if they are both mature about it.

My girlfriend is 18, I'm 23. We've been dating for ~5 years and I was very uncomfortable with it for the first couple years...well, in public anyway. I think it helped us that we spent a lot of time with her family for the first couple years. I got to know not only her but also her family very well.

We're talking about getting engaged in a couple months. I can't wait :heart:

WTH? How does an 18 year old find himself attracted to a 13 year old????

We knew eachother pretty much our whole lives. We started doing things together when she was 14, I was 18. First kiss didn't come until about a year later, we just look at the first year as a very entry level courtship 😉

Yes, it was extremely weird at first but both her family and my family supported us. Don't think we'd be together today if they hadn't in the beginning.
 
Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: lavagirl669
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: lavagirl669
My friend just got engaged....she's 42 and her fiance is 21

that tops yours.....hee hee!

:Q

Pics?

- M4H

actually I do have a pic, but I don't think she'd like me posting it on the internet .....
she's pretty hot though

don't get me wrong, your friend should have all the fun she wants... but seriously, what's your take on the LONGEVITY of that relationship?

I, for one, was done with throwaway relationships when I was 22....

That may be true - but man, she's gotta be smokin' hot. 😀

- M4H
 
23 with 16 is a little iffy... But there is nothing wrong with 19.

My girlfriend is 19(20 in Dec), and I'm 23.

We've been together for 3 years.
 
Originally posted by: Manzelle
Originally posted by: Yzzim
Originally posted by: wiredspider
I'm 17 (but will be 18 in just 2 weeks) and my bf is 23. I've got to say there is nothing wrong with it, if they are both mature about it.

My girlfriend is 18, I'm 23. We've been dating for ~5 years and I was very uncomfortable with it for the first couple years...well, in public anyway. I think it helped us that we spent a lot of time with her family for the first couple years. I got to know not only her but also her family very well.

We're talking about getting engaged in a couple months. I can't wait :heart:

You were 18 dating a 13 year old? Now that is horrifying...are you amish?

:Q
 
23 year old i know dating a young girl.... bout 16-19... what u think?


That sick lucky ba$tard.😉
 
Originally posted by: Yzzim
Originally posted by: Hankysmoo
Originally posted by: Yzzim
Originally posted by: wiredspider
I'm 17 (but will be 18 in just 2 weeks) and my bf is 23. I've got to say there is nothing wrong with it, if they are both mature about it.

My girlfriend is 18, I'm 23. We've been dating for ~5 years and I was very uncomfortable with it for the first couple years...well, in public anyway. I think it helped us that we spent a lot of time with her family for the first couple years. I got to know not only her but also her family very well.

We're talking about getting engaged in a couple months. I can't wait :heart:

WTH? How does an 18 year old find himself attracted to a 13 year old????

We knew eachother pretty much our whole lives. We started doing things together when she was 14, I was 18. First kiss didn't come until about a year later, we just look at the first year as a very entry level courtship 😉

Yes, it was extremely weird at first but both her family and my family supported us. Don't think we'd be together today if they hadn't in the beginning.


you are a serious fvckin loser. the difference in maturity of an 18 year old and a 13 year old is ridiculous. you are graduating high school and you are scamming on a 7th grader you should be beat you sick chimo.
 
there's a pretty big difference between 16 and 19.

16 = creepy

I dated a 19 year-old when I was 22-23, though, and it was pretty normal (outside of not being able to go drinking together).
 
Originally posted by: Ameesh
Originally posted by: Yzzim
Originally posted by: Hankysmoo
Originally posted by: Yzzim
Originally posted by: wiredspider
I'm 17 (but will be 18 in just 2 weeks) and my bf is 23. I've got to say there is nothing wrong with it, if they are both mature about it.

My girlfriend is 18, I'm 23. We've been dating for ~5 years and I was very uncomfortable with it for the first couple years...well, in public anyway. I think it helped us that we spent a lot of time with her family for the first couple years. I got to know not only her but also her family very well.

We're talking about getting engaged in a couple months. I can't wait :heart:

WTH? How does an 18 year old find himself attracted to a 13 year old????

We knew eachother pretty much our whole lives. We started doing things together when she was 14, I was 18. First kiss didn't come until about a year later, we just look at the first year as a very entry level courtship 😉

Yes, it was extremely weird at first but both her family and my family supported us. Don't think we'd be together today if they hadn't in the beginning.


you are a serious fvckin loser. the difference in maturity of an 18 year old and a 13 year old is ridiculous. you are graduating high school and you are scamming on a 7th grader you should be beat you sick chimo.

bwahahaha
 
Originally posted by: loki8481
there's a pretty big difference between 16 and 19.

16 = creepy

I dated a 19 year-old when I was 22-23, though, and it was pretty normal (outside of not being able to go drinking together).

you think 16 is creepy? look at ATOTs resident CHIMO Yzzim, he went out with a 13 year old when he was 18!
 
Originally posted by: Ameesh
Originally posted by: loki8481
there's a pretty big difference between 16 and 19.

16 = creepy

I dated a 19 year-old when I was 22-23, though, and it was pretty normal (outside of not being able to go drinking together).

you think 16 is creepy? look at ATOTs resident CHIMO Yzzim, he went out with a 13 year old when he was 18!

that's even creepier 😉
 
Originally posted by: DeeKnow
Originally posted by: Deeko
Its illegal in PA.

really? it's illegal for a 23 yr old to be socially seeing a 16 yr old? i doubt that ...!
Why do you doubt that?

In many states, it is illegal for someone over 18 to see someone under 18, period.

Then again, in some states the legal age is 14. It just totally depends.
 
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: DeeKnow
Originally posted by: Deeko
Its illegal in PA.

really? it's illegal for a 23 yr old to be socially seeing a 16 yr old? i doubt that ...!
Why do you doubt that?

In many states, it is illegal for someone over 18 to see someone under 18, period.

Then again, in some states the legal age is 14. It just totally depends.
actually its the difference in ages that depends.

For example 18 and 16 is fine. 18 and 14 is a no-no. 14 and 16 is fine.
 
Im 18 and my ex gf is 15. We were together for a year. She was a freshman and I was a senior. Recently I just ended it because I just really don't have the time anymore and since I have been in college, you see the maturity difference between girls that are 18-19 vs 15. Needless to stay, shes still my best friend with benefits and I still love her. She was my first everything.

Back on topic though, 23 and 16 is just way too much of a difference. Even if the girl looked 18, her maturity level would not be on par with a 23 year old, or maybe this guy has the maturity level of a 16 year old as well. I felt weird when I turned 18 and was dating a minor, but she looks 18 anyways so I didnt really worry about it.
 
Originally posted by: Iron Woode
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: DeeKnow
Originally posted by: Deeko
Its illegal in PA.

really? it's illegal for a 23 yr old to be socially seeing a 16 yr old? i doubt that ...!
Why do you doubt that?

In many states, it is illegal for someone over 18 to see someone under 18, period.

Then again, in some states the legal age is 14. It just totally depends.
actually its the difference in ages that depends.

For example 18 and 16 is fine. 18 and 14 is a no-no. 14 and 16 is fine.
That is true in some cases, but what I said is also true in some cases.

In Oregon, it is against the law for someone over 18 to be with someone who us under 18, period.

In Washington, it is 16+ but not more than 4 years difference.
 
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: Iron Woode
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: DeeKnow
Originally posted by: Deeko
Its illegal in PA.

really? it's illegal for a 23 yr old to be socially seeing a 16 yr old? i doubt that ...!
Why do you doubt that?

In many states, it is illegal for someone over 18 to see someone under 18, period.

Then again, in some states the legal age is 14. It just totally depends.
actually its the difference in ages that depends.

For example 18 and 16 is fine. 18 and 14 is a no-no. 14 and 16 is fine.
That is true in some cases, but what I said is also true in some cases.

In Oregon, it is against the law for someone over 18 to be with someone who us under 18, period.

In Washington, it is 16+ but not more than 4 years difference.

Be with as in sexual intercourse?
 
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