I'm not saying you, or liberals... I'm saying WE, our government for 30 years has dropped the ball with these people in this situation. Our diplomacy has failed, and much of the world seems all to happy for us to continue that failed road. And part of diplomacy is knowing that sometimes not everyone you'd like will play our way. Sometimes there will be differences, like with France and Germany. There's no point sacrificing our interests and goals just to please another country. I have developed a bias against France (with justification

), but certainly they are not looking out for what's best for America... they have been antagonistic and difficult for 40 years. The hell with them... they're a good trading partner, but they've never been much of an ally.
You are actually worried about America's reputation in the Middle East!? How very... European. The two great world wars occurred because of Europe's inept leadership and cultural vacuum. For once can they face reality and do something proactive? Listen, they destroyed themself, making the US the center of Western Civilization... so they need to quit being so impotent, stop the whining, and let the United States of America do the hard work that needs to be done... the tough job they are incapable of doing. This keeps up and pretty soon Europe's going to be as irrelevant as the UN (another topic).
Sorry about the tone, but I'm flat sick of Europe's sniveling popularity contest. We saved them, rebuilt them, and defended them... and all some of them can do is threaten us with how our image and reputation is suffering so badly simply because we are sick of the games, and sick of the terror. They're angry because they've never seen a country step up as a leader... they're used to fumbling around and paying for it dearly in the long run. Once again we are being scolded because of our "tone". Once again I will state my position that we're done playing patty-cake with enemies and allies. America will do what needs to be done, even if we have to drag whiners along kicking and screaming. What we do now, the actions we take today, will have collossal effects on where civilization is 50 years from now. We will spill our blood, use our money, resources, time, and effort to make this world a better place even while the morally blind people lecture us to "be nice".
The situation the US -and the world- finds itself in today is the result of multilateralism run amoke, and to make a long story short we are finally becoming the world leader we're supposed to be. Some people around the world may be irritated by this necessary paradigm shift. Too bad for them... Their attitude seems to be that the US should bow to petty jealousies and explain away our every action to any country with a gripe. I know they say those aren't their words, but I'm afraid that is the end result of their beliefs. Basically, they're agitated over our new-found assertiveness since 9/11, and they want us to go back to the old ways... appeasement, diplomatic paralysis, and pragmatic self-strangulation.
Our foreign policy was a parody of warnings followed by more warnings. We encouraged and emboldened enemies. We slept with evil for short-term gains that resulted (as they almost always do) in long term disasters. Toleration and compromise, evasion and accomodation thrived. We were losing to a motley collection of ungrateful "allies" and an international cabal of hateful killers. It was a range-of-the-moment pragmatic diplomacy that created the enemy that we are dealing with now. Today however, we have a sprinkling of something better. More resolve. Less hand-wringing over coalitions and international opinion, or "image". More self-confident, decisive action, employing the necessary tone and force required. We are finally trying to bury the old ideas that we can't be certain of anything, that there are no self-evident truths, nor any immutable facts and that no culture is better than another... that there was no right or wrong, no good or bad. There nearest thing to a "truth" was a "consesus", a constantly changing collective opinion about facts and morality. We are moving away from our moral self-doubt and squeamishness about the "arrogance" (i.e. self-assertion) of defending this country. We are starting to recognize that tyrants and murderers can't be cajoled into becoming benevolent leaders and citizens. We are starting to move away from non-judgemental humility and re-discover our moral and factual certainty.
Overall, I think the diplomacy argument is overblown, and also an attempt to "put the U.S. in its place" by some groups/countries who simply do not want to see (for a variety of reasons, most bad) an assertive America. The only problem is the world NEEDS an assertive America more than ever.