Then one day, a neighbor moved in right next to us and they had a girl
who was my age. She asked me one day if my family ate "qeemeh" and I
was confused as I didn't know what qeemeh was. Then she described it
to me, and I told her that we did eat qeemeh. She wasn't satisfied-
she asked me if we went on ziyarehs and I naively thought ziyareh was
what you did when you went to your grandmother's house or friend's
house

I eventually asked my parents about it and they both got
angry. I was then introduced to the whole Sunni and Shia concept- for
the first time in my life- and scolded for discussing it.
We were
Muslims and that's all that mattered. I was told anyone who discussed
or discriminated against either faction was silly and backward and
didn't deserve my time or respect.
We also come from a mixed family. My parents are both Sunni, but most
of my cousins are Shia and I have friends that are also from mixed
families- Sunnis and Shia.
I still stand by my belief that Iraqis didn't originally create this
situation. I swear to you [edited] that the majority of Iraqis prior to
the war didn't give this any thought.
We had both Sunni and Shia
idiots who talked about it every once in a while but it was considered
childish and incredibly narrow-minded.