Originally posted by: Shanti
I'm a plain old caucasian american male.
I've never really liked my first name (Shanti) because people always mispronounce it like shanty and when I was young, kids teased me and told me it was a girl's name.
In fact, I have met about 4 people in my life with my name and all have been girls.
No, it isn't "me", it's just what my hippie parents decided on because it means peace in Sanskrit.
I've thought about just going by Sean, but it seems kinda stupid to be self-conscious about my unusual name as a 32 year old adult.
Sometimes I do wonder though if having a more common male sounding American name would get me more responses on my resume.
Not that managers would intentionally judge based on name, but I wonder if subconsciously, they would prefer to hire a John, Mike, or Sean instead of a Shanti.