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People who think they know you

bapace

Senior member
Does it annoy anyone else when people come up to you and start talking to you about your girlfriend/significant other like they know you? This guy at the bar tonight starts talking about the chick I'm dating saying "man she has a nice ass, I'm going to take her home tonight". I was like, "really? Cause she's going home with me man." Then proceeds to tell me there is no way that I'm dating her and starts asking me questions like how good in bed is she and all this crap. I simply said "Do you fvcking know me?" and he said "No". I said "don't talk to me like you do, and don't talk about my girl like that."

I proceeded to walk away and he said "I don't have to know you to talk to you, I can say what I want to who I want". If my buddies hadn't pulled me back, I would be in jail. This guy was like 35, talking about my girl (23).

Sorry for the rant....I wanted to kill the guy for some of the questions he was asking about her.
 
if time is never wasted if you're wasted all the time then i guess that man you where speaking with must always be busy.


never happened to me, he was probably just drunk
 
What pissed me off even more is he was buying her drinks when I would turn around. This is the typical bar fly that would slip something into a chicks drink. I was sober and ready to fight, rarely ever happens with me.
 
It is sad to see a man as old as he (about 35 like you mentioned) not nearly at the maturity level that you are at, at a much younger age (I assume you and your SO are relatively the same age).

He, in my opinion, is messed up if the only thing he thought about your GF was in a sexual nature. His retalitory comment as you walked away shows how mature his thinking is, though it also sounds like something a drunken would say.

Whatever happened to plain 'ol socializing and having a decent conversation with someone you know little of; like in a bar for example, you talk about sports, or work, or women (in general), cars, money etc.
 
I don't usually have that problem. Then again, I don't hang around a bunch of guys drinking beer. 😛

It's not like you have anything to worry about. She came with you and you know she's leaving with you. It's best just to ignore people like that and not let them get to you.


: ) Amanda
 
TechnoKid -

Exactly. Both of us are 23. I can strike up a conversation with anyone, but when someone sees a female with someone, you HAVE to assume that they are at least friends and that that kind of talk isn't acceptable (never is anyway). I mean, I'm standing there in this guys face and he is being so much less mature about the whole situation than someone 12 years his junior. It's guys like him that make me afraid for my SO and other female friends to go out by themselves. I like my SO to at least have a guy friend tag along with her when she goes out, and she knows this is why and accepts it.
 
I mean, it's bad when this guy and his friends are starting to move towards me. I just motion to my buddies to watch me and make sure I'm covered if more than one person starts sh!t.
 
Originally posted by: ohtwell
I don't usually have that problem. Then again, I don't hang around a bunch of guys drinking beer. 😛

It's not like you have anything to worry about. She came with you and you know she's leaving with you. It's best just to ignore people like that and not let them get to you.


: ) Amanda

I would normally agree (if said in a tasteful way), but when I said she was with me (while she was in the bathroom), he argued with me and said "No way she's here with you". I made it a point to kiss her when she came back.
 
Originally posted by: bapace

I would normally agree (if said in a tasteful way), but when I said she was with me (while she was in the bathroom), he argued with me and said "No way she's here with you". I made it a point to kiss her when she came back.
He was just trying to get you riled up and it worked. From what you have said about him, he seems to be one of those people who we on AT like to call a "troll". His only reason to say anything is to get a rise out of someone else.


: ) Amanda
 
Oh, I definitely had buddies there that would have helped, I'm not a hoodlum, but buddies gotta look out for each other.
 
Originally posted by: bapace
Oh, I definitely had buddies there that would have helped, I'm not a hoodlum, but buddies gotta look out for each other.

i was just saying they wouldnt have ever held me back to begin with...
 
Next time, get the guy really drunk on your dime, offer to drive him home. Except he never makes it home, instead, he ends up in the middle of nowhere.........................
 
Originally posted by: Wanescotting
Next time, get the guy really drunk on your dime, offer to drive him home. Except he never makes it home, instead, he ends up in the middle of nowhere.........................

heh...naked...actually...if he's white...leave him in the ghetto 😀
 
Did anyone else read this threat title and think about Pablo Francisco's routine about Rosa the mexican girlfriend who's saying how <latina>this guy is talking to me...like he KNOOOWS me</latina>?

lol that's what i thought of, anyway.
 
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