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datalink7

Lifer
Jan 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: brigden
Shame on her for being human. I'm not condoning her actions, but for you idiots to call for her death is extreme. Guess what, assholes? People make mistakes.

Sexual desire is a hard monkey to get off your back.

I've managed to be faithful to my hand for 23 years.

;)
 

DAGTA

Diamond Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: brigden
Shame on her for being human. I'm not condoning her actions, but for you idiots to call for her death is extreme. Guess what, assholes? People make mistakes.

Sexual desire is a hard monkey to get off your back.

True, though some of us use that thing called will-power and remain faithful.
 

kranky

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Oct 9, 1999
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I think what happened is that she had subconsciously decided to break it off but didn't have the guts to do it. She knew telling her bf that she slept with another guy would trigger a breakup, but this way she didn't have to say the words.

It's like the married guy who starts going to lunch with his secretary, then working late, then stopping for a drink after work, then one day they sleep together. He goes home thinking, "I don't know how that happened." It's a defense mechanism to avoid feeling like there was an actual plan to do a bad thing.
 

Koing

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Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: arcenite
She's a hoe.

QFT

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week is slut'sville USA.

wtf?

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week means you just want SEX. That doesn't make you a hoe.

SO who do you guys think you sleep with when you meet some random girl out and about or through friends? Do you spend a month or months to get to know her before having sex? If you just want sex go for it.

Nothing wrong with her going out with a different guy every few nights. Nothing wrong with going out with other guys whilst in a relationship. Sleeping with other guys when in a relationship that is another thing.

Ease up guys. You guys never go out with other girls for some company etc when your gf is busy or somewhere else?

Koing
 

DAGTA

Diamond Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: arcenite
She's a hoe.

QFT

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week is slut'sville USA.

wtf?

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week means you just want SEX. That doesn't make you a hoe.

SO who do you guys think you sleep with when you meet some random girl out and about or through friends? Do you spend a month or months to get to know her before having sex? If you just want sex go for it.

Nothing wrong with her going out with a different guy every few nights. Nothing wrong with going out with other guys whilst in a relationship. Sleeping with other guys when in a relationship that is another thing.

Ease up guys. You guys never go out with other girls for some company etc when your gf is busy or somewhere else?

Koing

It's all about intentions.

I will go out with my female FRIENDS while I'm in a relationship but I won't be going out with women I don't know in a date-type situation.
 

halik

Lifer
Oct 10, 2000
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Originally posted by: Mrfrog840
thats a woman for you

that's a person for you... you know you'd do the same, just about anyone would.

Long distance relationships are pointless.
 

Dissipate

Diamond Member
Jan 17, 2004
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Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: arcenite
She's a hoe.

QFT

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week is slut'sville USA.

wtf?

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week means you just want SEX. That doesn't make you a hoe.

SO who do you guys think you sleep with when you meet some random girl out and about or through friends? Do you spend a month or months to get to know her before having sex? If you just want sex go for it.

Nothing wrong with her going out with a different guy every few nights. Nothing wrong with going out with other guys whilst in a relationship. Sleeping with other guys when in a relationship that is another thing.

Ease up guys. You guys never go out with other girls for some company etc when your gf is busy or somewhere else?

Koing

If a woman wants sex she should get into a comitted relationship, not banging a different guy every week.
 

Koing

Elite Member <br> Super Moderator<br> Health and F
Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: arcenite
She's a hoe.

QFT

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week is slut'sville USA.

wtf?

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week means you just want SEX. That doesn't make you a hoe.

SO who do you guys think you sleep with when you meet some random girl out and about or through friends? Do you spend a month or months to get to know her before having sex? If you just want sex go for it.

Nothing wrong with her going out with a different guy every few nights. Nothing wrong with going out with other guys whilst in a relationship. Sleeping with other guys when in a relationship that is another thing.

Ease up guys. You guys never go out with other girls for some company etc when your gf is busy or somewhere else?

Koing

It's all about intentions.

I will go out with my female FRIENDS while I'm in a relationship but I won't be going out with women I don't know in a date-type situation.

How are you going to make new friends if you only see yoru old friends?

Going out with random people doesn't mean much unless you want more from them, then company and some fun. You can have fun with people without sleeping with them.

Koing
 

Koing

Elite Member <br> Super Moderator<br> Health and F
Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: arcenite
She's a hoe.

QFT

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week is slut'sville USA.

wtf?

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week means you just want SEX. That doesn't make you a hoe.

SO who do you guys think you sleep with when you meet some random girl out and about or through friends? Do you spend a month or months to get to know her before having sex? If you just want sex go for it.

Nothing wrong with her going out with a different guy every few nights. Nothing wrong with going out with other guys whilst in a relationship. Sleeping with other guys when in a relationship that is another thing.

Ease up guys. You guys never go out with other girls for some company etc when your gf is busy or somewhere else?

Koing

If a woman wants sex she should get into a comitted relationship, not banging a different guy every week.

Well that is where we disagree.

I think if you just want sex go for it (use protection FFS!). Why bother getting in to a committed relationship if you don't particularly want one? Or you can't get one as a girl?

Koing
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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I don't have a problem with her wanting sex with someone to whom she's sexually attracted. That's only human. I do, on the other hand, think far, far less of her for cheating on her b/f, and for crying about how her b/f now wants to break up with her. She needs to grow up.
 

Agnostos Insania

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Oct 29, 2005
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I think cheaters should be court-ordered to get a tattoo on the forehead that says "Don't Trust Me". (Yes, it would be a talking tattoo)

Originally posted by: datalink7
I've managed to be faithful to my hand for 23 years.
;)

I cheat on my right hand regularly. He's just too controlling. :(
 

Dissipate

Diamond Member
Jan 17, 2004
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Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: arcenite
She's a hoe.

QFT

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week is slut'sville USA.

wtf?

Sleeping with someone you have known for a week means you just want SEX. That doesn't make you a hoe.

SO who do you guys think you sleep with when you meet some random girl out and about or through friends? Do you spend a month or months to get to know her before having sex? If you just want sex go for it.

Nothing wrong with her going out with a different guy every few nights. Nothing wrong with going out with other guys whilst in a relationship. Sleeping with other guys when in a relationship that is another thing.

Ease up guys. You guys never go out with other girls for some company etc when your gf is busy or somewhere else?

Koing

If a woman wants sex she should get into a comitted relationship, not banging a different guy every week.

Well that is where we disagree.

I think if you just want sex go for it (use protection FFS!). Why bother getting in to a committed relationship if you don't particularly want one? Or you can't get one as a girl?

Koing

Casual sex is just sleazy and dirty, that's why.

These women who want to sleep around should just go out and buy a masturbating machine like a Sybian.
 

Shadowknight

Diamond Member
May 4, 2001
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Originally posted by: arcenite
She's a hoe.

Mmmm... more of a pair of gardening shears, I think.

If she was really so hard up for sex, there are a variety of specialty shops both on the internet and in most towns that can cater to her needs without her having to cheat on her boyfriend.

Oh, and it doesn't count if she has a same-sex fling...

As long as she posts pics ;)
 

Koing

Elite Member <br> Super Moderator<br> Health and F
Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: Dissipate
Casual sex is just sleazy and dirty, that's why.

These women who want to sleep around should just go out and buy a masturbating machine like a Sybian.

Thats just your opinion of it. My opinion is that it is not. It is just sex, one of the basic and natural thing a person could do.

Koing
 

AccruedExpenditure

Diamond Member
May 12, 2001
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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
I don't have a problem with her wanting sex with someone to whom she's sexually attracted. That's only human. I do, on the other hand, think far, far less of her for cheating on her b/f, and for crying about how her b/f now wants to break up with her. She needs to grow up.

Agreed... if you want to have sex with strangers you meet on the street power to you... hell, i wish there were more girls like that (when i'm single)... but if you're in a fvcking relationship don't fvck around and if you do, don't expect the other party singing happy show tunes about it.
 

newParadigm

Diamond Member
Jul 30, 2003
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Originally posted by: HamburgerBoy
I hope she kills herself, being the slut that she is.



How come we have double standards in this damn country. Guys ar Playas, and honorable status of elitism. And girls are hoes, a despised, status of desperatism...
 

Dissipate

Diamond Member
Jan 17, 2004
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Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Casual sex is just sleazy and dirty, that's why.

These women who want to sleep around should just go out and buy a masturbating machine like a Sybian.

Thats just your opinion of it. My opinion is that it is not. It is just sex, one of the basic and natural thing a person could do.

Koing

Sex is natural yes, but since one is not an animal one is able to control one's sexual habits.
 

Koing

Elite Member <br> Super Moderator<br> Health and F
Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Casual sex is just sleazy and dirty, that's why.

These women who want to sleep around should just go out and buy a masturbating machine like a Sybian.

Thats just your opinion of it. My opinion is that it is not. It is just sex, one of the basic and natural thing a person could do.

Koing

Sex is natural yes, but since one is not an animal one is able to control one's sexual habits.

You reckon?

I think all humans are animals at heart and very basic in essence. Why control an urge like that?

Koing
 

Dissipate

Diamond Member
Jan 17, 2004
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Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Casual sex is just sleazy and dirty, that's why.

These women who want to sleep around should just go out and buy a masturbating machine like a Sybian.

Thats just your opinion of it. My opinion is that it is not. It is just sex, one of the basic and natural thing a person could do.

Koing

Sex is natural yes, but since one is not an animal one is able to control one's sexual habits.

You reckon?

I think all humans are animals at heart and very basic in essence. Why control an urge like that?

Koing

Hmm, pregnancy, STDs and self respect come to mind.
 

Strk

Lifer
Nov 23, 2003
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Sleeping around is just trashy, regardless of gender.

And like others, I don't get quite why she is the one who is upset, she is the one who cheated.