How many times must I spell it out? I don't use those features.
All my game directories consolidated in a special folder? Gee, I could never have managed that. I'm so glad that I have helpful steam to do that for me. Along with installing game updates that I'd prefer to handle myself, a store that I don't want and never use, a social network and mods infrastructure that I don't want and never use.
For what steam does for me, it is without doubt the most bloated piece of software on my PC. Four processes, 50MB of memory, ~500MB directory, regular 100MB client updates, just to allow me to launch a handful of games that would be perfectly capable of launching by themselves if steam didn't have it's hooks in them.
Wow . . . failed in the first sentence. :/ You know there's many games that don't always install themselves to C:\Program Files, right? You want to edit the install path for every single game you install, every single time? Or just known that they're all in the steamapps directory?
Not everyone wants to go to a dozen different manufacturer and/or file hosting sites to grab their patches. Its much easier for both the gamer and the manufacturer to have Steam handle the updates. Easier for the user to know that they're games are always up to date, easier for the devs to know that all their customers are running current versions. Incidentally, last night, I was checking my version for Original Sin. Haven't had the opportunity to play it in a while and I wanted to make sure I was up to date . . . but I have the GoG version, which doesn't handle patches at all. GoG has 3 different patches for it, that each have to be downloaded and ran separately. Pain in the behind when you compare it to if I had it on Steam, it would always be up to date.
The Store is Steam's strongest asset, almost every game you'd ever want right at your finger tips, purchasable from anywhere with an Internet connection. I've purchased games from my phone, had them remotely download to my PC, and ready to play when I get home. Again, you'd better to get used to the Store because its fast becoming one of the few places to get games.
I don't use the social network much either, but for MP games, its pretty damn awesome to be able to easily coordinate a game with your buddies.
You've never modded any game you own, ever? Steam Workshop has some growing pains I think it needs to address, but the concept is great.
So far as its resource use goes, if 50MBs of RAM usage is a problem for you, you need to upgrade from the 512MBs you have now. :/ 50MBs from the 8GB minimum a gaming machine should have today pretty much means nothing. A TB drive is 50 bucks.
Your argument is like suggesting that just because you prefer automatic transmission, then everyone else should also prefer it too. "Automaic transmission is so much better. It's so convenient, you don't have to worry about changing gears, the car does it for you. Why would anyone want to use a manual transmission?" But it's never that simple.
The problem with your analogy is that you're not talking about going to a manual transmission, you're talking about going back to leaded gasoline and hand cranks.
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http://www.pcgamer.com/2014/08/27/steam-client-beta-update-enables-simultaneous-game-installs/
While Oubadah is fumbling for his CDs and DVDs, I'll just click Install.
