Originally posted by: Ilmater
You honestly think I should never buy a home?! My debt has been decreasing for years and this money gives me the option to finally put it behind me. I've been working with a financial planner (who I stopped working with when he lied to my friends and sold me things just to hit sales goals) and it has increased my FICO score a lot.
Understand, while $15k in debt is a lot and I accept that, I make a lot of money. I pull in $80k gross per year, and that growth in income has allowed me to pay off these debts faster. There was a time when I was in debt for $25k.
I honestly think that you shouldn't buy a home YET. I'll ignore the other posts you've made in other threads and just focus on this thread. What have you said?
1) You've had debt problems in the past.
2) You aren't sure yet how to handle your money (that is why you made a thread).
3) You are starting a new life with your GF (soon to be wife).
4) You fell for buying financial items from a scammer (and are going to a potentially scamming seminar in a few days).
5) As soon as you get a good financial footing (good job + inheritance) you want to spend it.
Those 5 things together don't give me a picture of someone ready for a home now. Instead, that list reminds me of several people I knew in similar situations. What happened to them? They all had their house forclosed, taken away from them, and they are on the verge of bankruptcy. Is that guaranteed to happen to you? Of course not. But you are certainly following in their paths perfectly so far.
I urge you do to several things first before you consider a house.
1) Pay off your debt.
2) Enjoy your $80k/year income without the headache of big bills. That means you can enjoy life. Too few people remember to do this. Spend a couple years care free (where you can go on a vacation on a whim, or buy whatever you want, etc) before getting bogged down with a house and the associated debt.
3) Prove to yourself that you can save and live within your means. This means don't go to excess in what I just said above.
4) Get married.
5) Then get a house that both you and your GF will like and enjoy together in a stable life without the constant hassle of unpaid debts.
Do it for yourself, but also do it for your GF. Why would you want to burden her with your massive CC bills or mortgage when you get married? If you truely cared about her, you'd get yourself debt free. You'll have 50 years in a house. Why rush just so it'll be 51 years? Housing prices certainly aren't going to be going any higher any time soon (in most areas of the country), so waiting won't harm you. Waiting will only help.