Paranoid Guys In Love

Stunt

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Originally posted by: Cheex
Are all guys who love their woman paranoid or is it just me?
Over protective ultimately leads to the end of many relationships.

Trust is a big issue in a relationship...don't fuk it up.
 

Cheex

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My last girlfriend cheated on me several times and i was deeply hurt by all that.
So now i'm paranoid about my girlfriend cheating now.
She's never really given me any reason not to trust her but....i'm still paranoid.
 

eits

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Originally posted by: Stunt
Originally posted by: Cheex
Are all guys who love their woman paranoid or is it just me?
Over protective ultimately leads to the end of many relationships.

Trust is a big issue in a relationship...don't fuk it up.

don't fvck it up like i just did... i accused her of lying about something and we had a 40 minute fight about it... even though the fight's been over since friday, she doesn't like spending time with me and she doesn't even let me touch her. the relationship's on it's last leg and i've been crying all day long in my room. it's the worst feeling in the world to know that you blew it by being a complete idiot.

the worst part is that she never ever gave me a reason to distrust her....

teusday would have been our 6 month anniversary.
 

Dragoon42

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Originally posted by: eits
Originally posted by: Stunt
Originally posted by: Cheex
Are all guys who love their woman paranoid or is it just me?
Over protective ultimately leads to the end of many relationships.

Trust is a big issue in a relationship...don't fuk it up.

don't fvck it up like i just did... i accused her of lying about something and we had a 40 minute fight about it... even though the fight's been over since friday, she doesn't like spending time with me and she doesn't even let me touch her. the relationship's on it's last leg and i've been crying all day long in my room. it's the worst feeling in the world to know that you blew it by being a complete idiot.

the worst part is that she never ever gave me a reason to distrust her....

teusday would have been our 6 month anniversary.

hahahaha i hope this is a parody? If you've been crying all day in your room, then don't. Coz you accusing her isn't the reason why she doesn't let you touch her. Lol, hahahaha

This has to be a parody
 

Cheex

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My gf hasn't given me any reason not to trust her either but i think i'm ready for a stable relationship and she isn't and that is creating a serious bottleneck on the progress of the relationship.

(Should i upgrade our processor? ROFL.)
 

Dragoon42

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Originally posted by: Cheex
My gf hasn't given me any reason not to trust her either but i think i'm ready for a stable relationship and she isn't and that is creating a serious bottleneck on the progress of the relationship.

(Should i upgrade our processor? ROFL.)



how long have you guys been dating? i mean...past a copula months most relationships are "stable" or it's pretty much over...
 

Cheex

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well i basically didn't treat her well for like the first 6 months but right now its been 5 more since things settled down so...11.
its just that we both love each other but i want to be more serious and she isn't ready.
says she needs some space....last gf told me that didn't come back.
i love her and i don't want to lose her...she's a good girl.
 

Dragoon42

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Originally posted by: Cheex
well i basically didn't treat her well for like the first 6 months but right now its been 5 more since things settled down so...11.
its just that we both love each other but i want to be more serious and she isn't ready.
says she needs some space....last gf told me that didn't come back.
i love her and i don't want to loose her...she's a good girl.

there's plenty of dirty good girls :)

and I don't get why you're paranoid. Seems like you're more worried about her ending the relationship then about another guy?
 

Cheex

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thanx for any reassurance i was hoping to receive (sarcasm)

Edit: that might be true.
 

Skeeedunt

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trying to keep her under your thumb is just going to piss her off, and rightfully so
 

Dragoon42

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Originally posted by: Chrono
I was going to type something interesting but decided n/m. ;P

you should have stopped at

"i was going to type something"

woulda been much better
 

Cheex

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how do i get over this?
i mean it isn't really the easiest thing in the world to do now is it?
 

Chrono

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Originally posted by: Cheex
how do i get over this?
i mean it isn't really the easiest thing in the world to do now is it?

Just go with the flow. Don't be too overly sensitive about her not reporting to you 24/7 and being with you all the time. Just relax and enjoy yourself. She's with you btw isn't she? The fact that you have a g/f makes the other 80% of ATOT people jealous. And yes, I have a g/f, and I too was paranoid at the beginning of our relationship. That's gone now and everything seems more relaxing now.
 

Cheex

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Well yes we're still together. We don't live together or anything but we're like glue at times.
The thing is...i'm dealing with the relationship properly...i'm faithful and honest and i just don't want her to be the one to fvck it up.

(Jealous...really? Take that you jealous mofos....lol....j/k.)
 

Skeeedunt

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she'll either f it up or she won't. there's nothing you can do to control that. the only way you can have a positive effect on the situation to be as worthwhile a boyfriend as possible.
 

Cheex

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that's true...maybe i just need to relax and give her the space she says she wants.