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What about this: Should the the virgin be dating the male whore? You know, she knows he'll be demanding so much from her to fulfill his sickness. She has been approached by decent guys who find her attractive, know what they want and see more in her beyond getting his penis in her vagina. Ever thought she had a choice to reject you too? With this kind of attitude, I hope she does. For someone that age and still a virgin, it would seem a personal choice and thinking. So I imagine she'll sense the desperation in you and send you out the door, since you seem to have no respect for her the way you've spoken in this thread.

"So getting laid is the only reason you would go out with a girl? You sicken me. At 23, you shouldn't only be thinking about that."

Thanks!
 
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: StatisticianOG
Is she smart and nice and pretty?

If not, don't date her.

there are no virgins left with those qualities.

1. i don't date woman i don't find attractive
2. i definitely don't date b!tches
3. i know she's not stupid 😛
 
Originally posted by: luvly
What about this: Should the the virgin be dating the male whore? You know, she knows he'll be demanding so much from her to fulfill his sickness. She has been approached by decent guys who find her attractive, know what they want and see more in her beyond getting his penis in her vagina. Ever thought she had a choice to reject you too? With this kind of attitude, I hope she does. For someone that age and still a virgin, it would see a personal choice and thinking. So I imagine she'll sense the desperation in you and send you out the door, since you seem to have no respect for her the way you've spoken in this thread.

"So getting laid is the only reason you would go out with a girl? You sicken me. At 23, you shouldn't only be thinking about that."

Thanks!

thats all great but you are forgetting the irresistable attraction girls have for a$$holes.
 
Originally posted by: masterxfob
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: StatisticianOG
Is she smart and nice and pretty?

If not, don't date her.

there are no virgins left with those qualities.

1. i don't date woman i don't find attractive
2. i definitely don't date b!tches
3. i know she's not stupid 😛


you must have found the last one on the shelf then!
 
Originally posted by: zimmie6576
So getting laid is the only reason you would go out with a girl? You sicken me. At 23, you shouldn't only be thinking about that.

Why not? That's all I thought about when I was 23.

I was in no way ready for a long term relationship.
 
Date her, treat her nicely. If you run out of patience, don't force the issue, just try to let her down easy and move on.

If she's never even dated someone before, she needs to get past those issues first. Adding sex to the mix too early may overcomplicate things and mess with her head. I would say 6-8 months at least, unless she's the one pushing for it.

Of course, nothing wrong with getting a little on the side... from your hand.
 
"thats all great but you are forgetting the irresistable attraction girls have for a$$holes."

I agree, Gigapet. However, If she's that dull to fall for a male whore/jerk and wants to get laid, then it's her choice and she deserves it. It's all good if she makes the choice and has no regrets/sob stories.
 
Your brother does not know whether she is a tiger in the sack or not, just that she has not appeared to have had any boyfriends. I've had sex before with lots of people that I would not classify as girlfriends...It is called friends with benefit sex and one night stands.


I say go for it. Even if she is a virgin waiting until she get's married should not matter if everything else is right.
 
Originally posted by: luvly
What about this: Should the the virgin be dating the male whore? You know, she knows he'll be demanding so much from her to fulfill his sickness. She has been approached by decent guys who find her attractive, know what they want and see more in her beyond getting his penis in her vagina. Ever thought she had a choice to reject you too? With this kind of attitude, I hope she does. For someone that age and still a virgin, it would see a personal choice and thinking. So I imagine she'll sense the desperation in you and send you out the door, since you seem to have no respect for her the way you've spoken in this thread.

"So getting laid is the only reason you would go out with a girl? You sicken me. At 23, you shouldn't only be thinking about that."

Thanks!

well, i wanted a girls response and did i ever get one :Q

luvly, please go back and read all of my posts and thoroughly. if you still think that about me, then i really can't say anything else that would make you think different.
 
Originally posted by: luvly
"thats all great but you are forgetting the irresistable attraction girls have for a$$holes."

I agree, Gigapet. However, If she's that dull to fall for a male whore/jerk and wants to get laid, then it's her choice and she deserves it. It's all good if she makes the choice and has no regrets/sob stories.

oh she will........they always do. drama is as important to women as shoes.
 
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: masterxfob
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: StatisticianOG
Is she smart and nice and pretty?

If not, don't date her.

there are no virgins left with those qualities.

1. i don't date woman i don't find attractive
2. i definitely don't date b!tches
3. i know she's not stupid 😛


you must have found the last one on the shelf then!

i wish i were 5 years older with a steady income, then this would be perfect.
 
Originally posted by: masterxfob
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: masterxfob
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: StatisticianOG
Is she smart and nice and pretty?

If not, don't date her.

there are no virgins left with those qualities.

1. i don't date woman i don't find attractive
2. i definitely don't date b!tches
3. i know she's not stupid 😛


you must have found the last one on the shelf then!

i wish i were 5 years older with a steady income, then this would be perfect.


wow........she's wifey material?
 
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Your brother does not know whether she is a tiger in the sack or not, just that she has not appeared to have had any boyfriends. I've had sex before with lots of people that I would not classify as girlfriends...It is called friends with benefit sex and one night stands.


I say go for it. Even if she is a virgin waiting until she get's married should not matter if everything else is right.

true, but one can generally tell if a girl wants an FTF or is down to have a one night stand. i definitely did not get that kind of vibe from her, she's most definitely a virgin. i'm not going to push anything on her, but i'm not looking to get married so early either 😛
 
Masterxfob, if that's not what you intended, then fine. It's just your starting paragraph has a totally different tone from your finishing paragraph. You seem to be bragging in the intro as if she was easy. If you didn't want people having that impression of your post, then you should have avoided your previous paragraphs.

If you mean it as a genuine relationship, then go for it. Be patient and she may be quickly persuaded by her emotions to change her point of view (if it's actually due to her decision) as far as sex at the moment. There are a couple of AT virgins who did just that (*cough* Viper GTS and The Blonde One. 😉)
 
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: masterxfob
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: masterxfob
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: StatisticianOG
Is she smart and nice and pretty?

If not, don't date her.

there are no virgins left with those qualities.

1. i don't date woman i don't find attractive
2. i definitely don't date b!tches
3. i know she's not stupid 😛


you must have found the last one on the shelf then!

i wish i were 5 years older with a steady income, then this would be perfect.


wow........she's wifey material?

i don't know about that, i've only spent one weekend with her. not that it matters a great deal, but i was just saying it would be next to impossible to find a virgin when i'm 28.
 
Originally posted by: masterxfob

i don't know about that, i've only spent one weekend with her. not that it matters a great deal, but i was just saying it would be next to impossible to find a virgin when i'm 28.

😀
 
Originally posted by: masterxfob
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: masterxfob
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: masterxfob
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: StatisticianOG
Is she smart and nice and pretty?

If not, don't date her.

there are no virgins left with those qualities.

1. i don't date woman i don't find attractive
2. i definitely don't date b!tches
3. i know she's not stupid 😛


you must have found the last one on the shelf then!

i wish i were 5 years older with a steady income, then this would be perfect.


wow........she's wifey material?

i don't know about that, i've only spent one weekend with her. not that it matters a great deal, but i was just saying it would be next to impossible to find a virgin when i'm 28.


a 28 year old virgin at least.
 
FVCK NO!
I voted yes before I read, not knowing she is a sister to a friend. That brings down alot of pain and awarkedness for the brother. Never in my life.

I have two sisters you see. No..... never would I do that to another guy.
 
Originally posted by: luvly
Masterxfob, if that's not what you intended, then fine. It's just your starting paragraph has a totally different tone from your finishing paragraph. You seem to be bragging in the intro as if she was easy. If you didn't want people having that impression of your post, then you should have avoided your previous paragraphs.

If you mean it as a genuine relationship, then go for it. Be patient and she may be quickly persuaded by her emotions to change her point of view (if it's actually due to her decision) as far as sex at the moment. There are a couple of AT virgins who did just that (*cough* Viper GTS and The Blonde One. 😉)

ahh, maybe it does sound a little.....bad? my bad 😱
 
Originally posted by: illusion88
FVCK NO!
I voted yes before I read, not knowing she is a sister to a friend. That brings down alot of pain and awarkedness for the brother. Never in my life.

I have two sisters you see. No..... never would I do that to another guy.

I think he said like a sister...
 
when i started going out with my girlfriend she was a virgin. in the beginning of the relationship i hinted her a couple times i would like to go further (at this point we were doing other stuff, but no sex) but i never pushed her to have sex. it was her who told me one day that she wanted to have sex with me. i guess just be genuine and let her decide. let her get comfortable with the relationship first also. oh and my girl never had a boyfriend before me too. and she decided on having sex within 2 months of the relationship. it all depends on how u treat her. and no, i didnt run after i "tapped" her. we're still going strong! and sex with her is the best sex ive ever had!
 
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