Originally posted by: mortong
There is another point to this: People always assume it's black and white. You either speak English or you don't (ironically, most Americans overseas don't bother to learn the language of the country their in, but that's a seperate can of worms). I've lived overseas in a non-English speaking country. The rough estimate is 2 years before you start to become reasonably conversant in the language, longer for those over 25 or 30 because the young human brain is designed to learn language, and that skill declines over time.
So to see someone who can't speak English well and assume they are lazy or don't want to learn is not only ignorant, it's incredibly arrogant given our behavior overseas.
It takes time to learn a language. Many immigrants do want to and will learn the language, but it's not something that happens overnight. Learn a second language and lose your American accent while speaking it before judging.
Being able to have a conversation and being able to FUNCTION are two very, very, VERY different things.
In the instance we're talking about here, you're ordering food. And it's not like a menu or anything. It's one damned thing. A philly cheese steak.
A transaction would go something like this:
<Emp> "Can I take your order?"
<Cust> "One cheese steak."
<Emp> "Fries?"
<Cust> "No."
<Emp> "$5.32"
This whoppingly difficult transaction requires that the customer know what the shop sells (cheese steaks. it's the ONLY reason you're in a cheesesteak joint), numerals, yes/no, how money is spoken of, and have a reasonable ability to read inflections (or know the word "fries", which, this being the United States, isn't very hard).
It's not as if we're communicating on any higher level with complex grammatical structures or in a social context. These things are covered in the first couple chapters of any "Spanish for English speakers" textbook, and are remarkably easy to pick up off the street.
I took Spanish in middle school. I damn near failed the class. But I know enough to be able to survive.
Talk to any foreign language teacher, and they'll tell you that there are several stages in learning a new language. There are the essentials - "I, you, we, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten", survival (money, food, getting from place to place, "where is the bathroom?"), smalltalk (weather, clothes, how are you feeling, misc. stuff like that, basic grammar), giving/recieving instructions and the associated grammar with that, conversation and higher grammar, and communicating abstract ideas.
Ordering a god damned cheese steak is in the survival stage. Think about this. Damned near all of us know enough spanish to order a taco. Even those of us living in the boondocks. Just from advertising and children's TV shows and stuff.
"Yo quiero un taco"
"Quieres papas fritas?"
"No."
"Tres pesos y catorce centavos, senor"
We all know "Yo quiero" - Taco Bell saw to that.
You might not get "un", but you'll definitely get "uno" and they'll get the point.
"Quieres" might confuse you, but it's kind of like quiero, and who really cares what the next two words mean, you want a taco. So you say no. Sesame Street taught you that.
Tres pesos. Everyone and their dog can count to ten in Spanish. So you know you owe them three pesos. Sesame street taught you that y means "and". So you owe them three pesos and somethingorother. Who cares if you know that catorce means 14, or wtf a centavo is. Give them 4 pesos, and you get change.
Ordering fast food is not rocket science. It requires only the most rudimentary understanding of a language. I'd venture to say you could pick that much up COLD within a week.
And why do our children learn rudimentary spanish on Sesame street? Because we're neighbors with mexico. Surely a similar process happens with them, though I can't be sure.