What would constitute the seizure of a house? Let?s say I have a 15 year old trafficking marijuana and possibly Xanax, his mom (my sister) is selling drugs also. The house is in my name. It's possible my sister is encouraging this behavior or contributing to it. I told my sister if it doesn?t stop right now find another place to live.
Not only is my nephew selling drugs has making it obvious. He?s also trying to bait me into a physical confrontation by doing it right in front of my face. I have been known to loose control. I have never beaten the crap of a woman or a little kid before. I have "thrown" my sisters who are 2-3 years younger and my nephew?s mom who is 15 years older. Throwing them off of me after being punched in the face and having my face clawed does not mean I?m a woman beater, in my mind at least.
Back to my nephew, things have heated up recently as far as physical altercations, with him. The first one came when I noticed he had put something in his pocket which looked like about an ounce of weed. I was pretty heated about seeing that, and started yelling at him very loud. I can sound pretty intimidating. His mom who was sleeping came out and punched me in the face, so i pushed her away from me. Then my nephew came at me and hit me. Now my nephew and sister is swinging at me. I put my nephew in a headlock while his mom is clawing my face up. I try and throw his mom (my sister) off of me but she is attached to me by my baggy sweater. I get them both off of me eventually and we all went separate ways. My sister then threatens to call the cops on me. I was a little worried because I really wasn?t sure what just happened. My girlfriend comforts me by telling me that if they do call the cops they would be in trouble. I she pointed out that I was bleeding out of my face and neck and they didn?t have a scratch on them. She also told me that I didn?t get ruff with either of them until I was punched in the face, and that every thing I did was in self defense.
And that?s just one situation.
I asked my nephew ?I know your hands are full but please don?t kick the fence, you?re destroyed it.? He says to me fvck you b1tch and goes out and kicks it. My fence is falling apart I ask him to not kick it anymore and he does that! I got so mad I grabbed him by the throat and told him not to disrespect me like that. Throat grabbing, not a good call on my part, what can I say I was pretty heated and didn?t think. Nothing justifies chocking him for 3 seconds while I tried to get my point across. I know this. I sugar coated asking him to, not kick it, and then he flat out disrespects me in the worst way he could. Of course his mom clawed me up and he got a few punches in until I held him down by his face.
The other night he came home bragging that he punched and robbed some kid. I couldn?t believe my ears! I then got pretty mad and got in his face and asked, ?did you say you robbed some one?? He responded with a Yeah B1tch I robbed some one. I then did what I call a mush, where I grab him by the face and pushed him. Then I pushed him to where his back was against a door and he came at me swinging. I?m 6?4? and his head ended up under my arm and I held him in a headlock for a few seconds. His mom clawed my face again. This was 3 nights ago and the one I?m most disappointed at myself for. 1. I?m not his dad; if he robs some one it?s not my place to discipline him.2. I was the physical aggressor in that situation. 3. Now his mom is saying that I?m the problem, I gave her fuel. Her response later on was ?it was one little robbery.? I don?t know how can anyone think that way?
Today a few things happened where he said ?oh well, whatever? and some sort of ?do something then? (I tuned it out so I wouldn?t explode) after I confronted him in blatantly disregarding something I said, and then did it right in front of my face. This situation was very similar to the fence kicking situation. I did nothing but my heart raced with rage. Knowing I was going to kick them out soon helped me pass that aggression.
I told my sister a month ago, if I find out you are not doing anything to stop him from selling drugs, or you are helping him do so I?m going to kick you out. Today I told her, if you don?t do something about his behavior and continue to turn your back on the drug dealings your out. She then tells me that I?m that I?m the one looking for the fight with him that he?s not doing anything that?s really bad. I know she is selling drugs it?s not a secret, and she doesn?t sell much more than a little bit for extra cash. It?s bound to happen they are going to get kicked out. If I just have to find a replacement for them, I?m sick and have been for 2 years. Right now until I get social security disability my mom is paying my end of my bills, so they pay a vital 1/3rd of my bills. I can?t just kick them out without a replacement, so that?s going to delay kicking them. What I would like to know in the mean time is can there drug selling, about a ¼ pound, I think of weed every 2 weeks, get my house seized? Legally is it possible? I live in Florida if that helps. I?m 25, nephew is 15, and sister is 40.
**NEW** Nephew moved to Gainesville and is going to go to high school up there. My sister stopped selling drugs and is working now at a job i got her. I've started my own business that is picking up. I'm also coaching little league football.
Not only is my nephew selling drugs has making it obvious. He?s also trying to bait me into a physical confrontation by doing it right in front of my face. I have been known to loose control. I have never beaten the crap of a woman or a little kid before. I have "thrown" my sisters who are 2-3 years younger and my nephew?s mom who is 15 years older. Throwing them off of me after being punched in the face and having my face clawed does not mean I?m a woman beater, in my mind at least.
Back to my nephew, things have heated up recently as far as physical altercations, with him. The first one came when I noticed he had put something in his pocket which looked like about an ounce of weed. I was pretty heated about seeing that, and started yelling at him very loud. I can sound pretty intimidating. His mom who was sleeping came out and punched me in the face, so i pushed her away from me. Then my nephew came at me and hit me. Now my nephew and sister is swinging at me. I put my nephew in a headlock while his mom is clawing my face up. I try and throw his mom (my sister) off of me but she is attached to me by my baggy sweater. I get them both off of me eventually and we all went separate ways. My sister then threatens to call the cops on me. I was a little worried because I really wasn?t sure what just happened. My girlfriend comforts me by telling me that if they do call the cops they would be in trouble. I she pointed out that I was bleeding out of my face and neck and they didn?t have a scratch on them. She also told me that I didn?t get ruff with either of them until I was punched in the face, and that every thing I did was in self defense.
And that?s just one situation.
I asked my nephew ?I know your hands are full but please don?t kick the fence, you?re destroyed it.? He says to me fvck you b1tch and goes out and kicks it. My fence is falling apart I ask him to not kick it anymore and he does that! I got so mad I grabbed him by the throat and told him not to disrespect me like that. Throat grabbing, not a good call on my part, what can I say I was pretty heated and didn?t think. Nothing justifies chocking him for 3 seconds while I tried to get my point across. I know this. I sugar coated asking him to, not kick it, and then he flat out disrespects me in the worst way he could. Of course his mom clawed me up and he got a few punches in until I held him down by his face.
The other night he came home bragging that he punched and robbed some kid. I couldn?t believe my ears! I then got pretty mad and got in his face and asked, ?did you say you robbed some one?? He responded with a Yeah B1tch I robbed some one. I then did what I call a mush, where I grab him by the face and pushed him. Then I pushed him to where his back was against a door and he came at me swinging. I?m 6?4? and his head ended up under my arm and I held him in a headlock for a few seconds. His mom clawed my face again. This was 3 nights ago and the one I?m most disappointed at myself for. 1. I?m not his dad; if he robs some one it?s not my place to discipline him.2. I was the physical aggressor in that situation. 3. Now his mom is saying that I?m the problem, I gave her fuel. Her response later on was ?it was one little robbery.? I don?t know how can anyone think that way?
Today a few things happened where he said ?oh well, whatever? and some sort of ?do something then? (I tuned it out so I wouldn?t explode) after I confronted him in blatantly disregarding something I said, and then did it right in front of my face. This situation was very similar to the fence kicking situation. I did nothing but my heart raced with rage. Knowing I was going to kick them out soon helped me pass that aggression.
I told my sister a month ago, if I find out you are not doing anything to stop him from selling drugs, or you are helping him do so I?m going to kick you out. Today I told her, if you don?t do something about his behavior and continue to turn your back on the drug dealings your out. She then tells me that I?m that I?m the one looking for the fight with him that he?s not doing anything that?s really bad. I know she is selling drugs it?s not a secret, and she doesn?t sell much more than a little bit for extra cash. It?s bound to happen they are going to get kicked out. If I just have to find a replacement for them, I?m sick and have been for 2 years. Right now until I get social security disability my mom is paying my end of my bills, so they pay a vital 1/3rd of my bills. I can?t just kick them out without a replacement, so that?s going to delay kicking them. What I would like to know in the mean time is can there drug selling, about a ¼ pound, I think of weed every 2 weeks, get my house seized? Legally is it possible? I live in Florida if that helps. I?m 25, nephew is 15, and sister is 40.
**NEW** Nephew moved to Gainesville and is going to go to high school up there. My sister stopped selling drugs and is working now at a job i got her. I've started my own business that is picking up. I'm also coaching little league football.
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