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Originally posted by: villan
I neglected my girlfriend for months, spent all my time on the computer while she was on the couch. Never gave an inch in an arguement - I was a bad boyfriend.
Her blog 2 months ago:

"i don't know what to do anymore. our relationship isn't working anymore. i can't apologize anymore. i can't let go of the things that are nagging at me. i don't feel loved. i don't feel wanted. when i'm over at his house i feel like a nuisance, a burden. like someone who just wants to take him away from his work. i have to beg for attention. the passion has dwindled. he's sarcastic and mean. i feel so needy, and i feel like i have become that whiny, bitchy girlfriend. and i f*cking hate it. i just don't know what to do. i love him, and i know he loves me, even though he has a funny way of showing it. i don't want to break up. but i also don't want to continue to be neglected and feel this way.

i'm going home this weekend in hopes that some space will do more good than harm. he can work on his f*cking computer without me bothering him. he doesn't have to worry about 'wasting his time paying attention to me'"

Then she cheated on me. The girl I love. Ironically my years of sl*tty "bad girls" never produced a situation like this, and now I face it from a girl that "doesnt do things like that". I am shocked.. Good home, good grades, great future.. I thought I had really struck gold with her.

She says it was a mistake. The sex doesnt hurt, but the emotions f*cking do. I've been rejected by the girl I love, she wanted someone else - someone to talk to, someone to hold her..

It took me an hour to take her back, I feel so dead. I used to enjoy my "f*ck it" attitude, now I'm scared to speak. I touch her every second I can, we hug and cry, she says its going to be alright, it still hurts. All of my control has been subverted, this is she must have felt for 8 months.. She fell asleep early tonight, present but invisible. My mind wanders- "there is too much poison in our love" but I still will hold on.
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suck it up
 
Originally posted by: Tremulant
Originally posted by: PCTweaker5
So what does your wife have to say about your sig girls? lol
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I was thinking the same.
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damn man... you guys are always on my case about that... they're there for YOUR pleasure. 😀

Besides, I have JA wallpapers up all the time... I told her she could have Brad Pitt wallpapers on her computer that she never uses. 😉
 
thanks for the honesty.

You learned a tough lesson....women crave attention (so do men!)
If you don't take the time to treasure what is important, you will
lose it and if you really love someone it isn't worth it.

Good luck.....talk to each other...and keep loving each other!
 
Originally posted by: DAGTA
While you neglected her, and that isn't right, it doesn't justify cheating.
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...now, take time to relearn/rediscover each other. Your relationship will have to start fm scratch again and hopefully become stronger later on. However, it will greatly depend on you...forgiving her and forgetting that regrettable incident. Something that is hard to do. We have a saying, "somebody just did poo-poo on your head"...the stench, the feel of it are something your senses would have a hard time blocking.

 
Originally posted by: MichaelD
If you don't twiddle your GF, someone else will. She actively sought out Alternate Sausage Stuffing. Dump the bitch.

Living together has it's ups and down. For us guys, the ups is the sex. The downs is having her STAY in the house with you after the sex is over.

Women are jealous little creatures; 99% of all women hate the fact that you like to tinker with your computers, or make yet another speaker stand for your HT, or work on your car in the garage. The reason is b/c you doing all that takes away time that you "should" be spending with her. Needy, needy, clingy, clingy, gimme, gimme. :roll:

Women are like cats, except only worse; they TALK.
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:beer:
 
Originally posted by: MichaelD
If you don't twiddle your GF, someone else will. She actively sought out Alternate Sausage Stuffing. Dump the bitch.

Living together has it's ups and down. For us guys, the ups is the sex. The downs is having her STAY in the house with you after the sex is over.

Women are jealous little creatures; 99% of all women hate the fact that you like to tinker with your computers, or make yet another speaker stand for your HT, or work on your car in the garage. The reason is b/c you doing all that takes away time that you "should" be spending with her. Needy, needy, clingy, clingy, gimme, gimme. :roll:

Women are like cats, except only worse; they TALK.
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you need to die now
with that attitude :|
 
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: MichaelD
If you don't twiddle your GF, someone else will. She actively sought out Alternate Sausage Stuffing. Dump the bitch.

Living together has it's ups and down. For us guys, the ups is the sex. The downs is having her STAY in the house with you after the sex is over.

Women are jealous little creatures; 99% of all women hate the fact that you like to tinker with your computers, or make yet another speaker stand for your HT, or work on your car in the garage. The reason is b/c you doing all that takes away time that you "should" be spending with her. Needy, needy, clingy, clingy, gimme, gimme. :roll:

Women are like cats, except only worse; they TALK.
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you need to die now
with that attitude :|
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You completely missed the point. MichaelD is telling us he twiddles his cat.
 
Originally posted by: Gurck
Originally posted by: MichaelD
If you don't twiddle your GF, someone else will. She actively sought out Alternate Sausage Stuffing. Dump the bitch.

Living together has it's ups and down. For us guys, the ups is the sex. The downs is having her STAY in the house with you after the sex is over.

Women are jealous little creatures; 99% of all women hate the fact that you like to tinker with your computers, or make yet another speaker stand for your HT, or work on your car in the garage. The reason is b/c you doing all that takes away time that you "should" be spending with her. Needy, needy, clingy, clingy, gimme, gimme. :roll:

Women are like cats, except only worse; they TALK.
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:beer:
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Is that a bad thing?
 
Originally posted by: MichaelD
If you don't twiddle your GF, someone else will. She actively sought out Alternate Sausage Stuffing. Dump the bitch.

Living together has it's ups and down. For us guys, the ups is the sex. The downs is having her STAY in the house with you after the sex is over.

Women are jealous little creatures; 99% of all women hate the fact that you like to tinker with your computers, or make yet another speaker stand for your HT, or work on your car in the garage. The reason is b/c you doing all that takes away time that you "should" be spending with her. Needy, needy, clingy, clingy, gimme, gimme. :roll:

Women are like cats, except only worse; they TALK.
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haha nice, new sig 🙂
 
Originally posted by: mflacy
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: MichaelD
If you don't twiddle your GF, someone else will. She actively sought out Alternate Sausage Stuffing. Dump the bitch.

Living together has it's ups and down. For us guys, the ups is the sex. The downs is having her STAY in the house with you after the sex is over.

Women are jealous little creatures; 99% of all women hate the fact that you like to tinker with your computers, or make yet another speaker stand for your HT, or work on your car in the garage. The reason is b/c you doing all that takes away time that you "should" be spending with her. Needy, needy, clingy, clingy, gimme, gimme. :roll:

Women are like cats, except only worse; they TALK.
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you need to die now
with that attitude :|
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You completely missed the point. MichaelD is telling us he twiddles his cat.
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I once twiddled a pussy, not bad. :Q
 
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