This is very much like the answer to the Monty Hall curtain question which many people just refuse to believe. Put simply, to meet the first criteria of picking a gold ball your pick must be one of the following:
- Gold ball #1 in the two gold ball box
- Gold ball #2 in the two gold ball box
- The gold ball in the one gold ball box
Each of these gold ball picking possibilities are equally likely. For two of these possibilities (#1 and #2), the next ball you pick out of the box will be gold. The next ball you pick out of the box will be gray for only ones possibility (#3). So the answer is 2/3 or 66.6% of the times you try this your second ball will be gold.
If you do not believe this answer then you can prove it to yourself by getting three boxes and some colored balls and actually running a couple dozen trials.