With the global economic turmoil currently happening, do you think many middle income parents should opt for a single children?
From what I heard, cities like Hong Kong are preferring a single child rather than multiple ones.
It makes sense though. Education is expensive, and having a single child would ensure that many middle income families can allocate more resources to that one child instead of multiples.
Usually this means tutoring lessons, sports lesson, and etc.
What do you think?
I think people should have as many children as they can responsibly handle. I know two families, both with 6 or so kids. The first family was very well-managed; all 6 kids went to college, half are married, and all are doing pretty well. The second family is a mess...moving from place to place, kids constantly getting kicked out of school, kids are very rough around the edges & fight a lot. The parental leadership is not so good in the second family family.
I don't think it has as much to do with finances as it does with what people can handle. My friend's neighbor pumps out a kid a year, lives on welfare, and pays zero attention to the children. They walk up & down the street asking for food and stuff. That's not a fair situation to put a kid in; that's not being a parent, that's just using kids for your own benefit. Pretty pathetic.
I personally don't think you should base your decision to have kids on finances; instead, you should base it on how many kids you want & think you can handle. Doors always open somehow, or to put it in Jurassic Park terms, "life finds a way". If you base your life decisions on finances as a driver, then that's the perspective you're going to see. If you base your life decisions on goals & dreams, then that's what you'll see & you'll find ways to manage.
I kind of like the middle, too - like public schools. I have a friend who was homeschooled & turned out kind of weird because he didn't have as much social interaction growing up. I also have a friend who went to prep school and turned out kind of weird because he has a very high opinion of himself and is somewhat stuck-up. Those are stereotypes, but they apply in the cases of those two people that I know. I mean, if your goal is soley to level-up your kid by doing massive tutoring & training for school, sports, etc., then hey, whatever floats your boat.
But to limit yourself on something as great as kids by saying the financial picture might not make much sense is kind of silly because there's always opportunities available if you're willing to move, or change jobs, or whatever. So while finances are valid, using that as a root decision driver seems like kind of a cop-out to me.