I just had to join the forum to help you amid all this horrible information.
1) The ICH9R/10R southbridge chipsets work AMAZING for Raid. There are a few things you want when using Raid 1; one of those being able to read from both disks at the same time for the same file/data which speeds Reads up a little. Most cheap PCI raid cards cannot do this but Intel's can.
2) Intel's Matrix Raid allows you to create 2 different Raid arrays using one set of drives so you can create your Raid 1 for data protection and then create a Raid 0 if certain programs can take advantage of higher speeds. NO hardware Raid controller can do this.
3) The ONLY time you need a hardware Raid controller is if you wanted to use Raid 5 or 6. I won't get into the specifics of each but both require "Parity" data to be calculated for writes, which slows write speeds a little to a lot depending on how good the XOR cpu is. You won't be using Raid 5 so no need for hardware controller.
4) I have tested my ICH8R vs my $600 3ware hardware raid controller(PCI-E x4) using 4 150GB Raptors in Raid 0 and Raid 10 and the ICH8R was a little faster.
5) Last but not least, if the motherboard dies using Intel's ICH*R for Raid, it is as simple as getting another Intel board as current as the original or newer. If my board died with ICH8R, I can use the ICH8/9 or 10R chipsets. Now, since you are using Raid 1, there is no need to even remotely worry about that. Unless, of course, you add a Raid 0 array. Research Intel Matrix Raid.