crashtech: It's likely I won't participate too much in political discussions. What happens is that other participants will quickly classify you and you'll be stuck on one side or the other of all these imaginary battle lines. In my last forum experience I left my "side's" position but was never really welcome anywhere else; what happens in no man's land is that everyone attacks you, so I hope I have learned my lesson.
M: This I believe, is a natural and intelligent position to take and it describes quite accurately the inevitable course of events that take place. Where we differ, perhaps, is that I have known these things for a long time and have, in my personal search for self understanding lost any need I once had to be welcome. I found 1, in the truth I have validated regarding the source of human suffering, the fact of our unconscious and deeply repressed self hate and how it drives a need for conformity, and 2, a prison from which knowledge of these inner facts sets one free is a joy of revelation so great as to wipe any worry of non acceptance away.
I spent my early life in the very denial from which my wish is to set others free. In short the acceptance of self that I have reached causes me to wish that joy on others. And I know the price one has to pay and having paid it, nobody can now charge me more. Any lingering resentment I would have for others, because they are bitter and mean themselves, without that treasure, is only that self hate for myself that may still lie uncovered.
In short the words and opinions of others designed to ridicule and deprecate are the self hate of others projected, and they do no damage whatsoever but touch and awaken the damage that lies buried within us since we were children. You will have all of that damage and rage thrown in your face if you try to awaken the conscious awareness of folk so they too can begin to function with wisdom. So if not me than who?
c: If the intent is not to engage those with differing ideologies, then this discussion has little significance. But for those who do, the first step is to make a good faith to understand your opponent, and with understanding may come a re-humanization of them, if you will. I thought that was what I was seeing here in this post, though it is likely I am mistaken. It may be naive, but to view any moderation in views or rhetoric as an open channel instead of a trick might just be fruitful.
M: I am actually not interested much in ideologies. One of the results of self hate, obviously is self loathing. I happen to know how deep the sadness goes that this brings, a sadness so profound that one could not function as a child and survive if one can't repress it. All of us are survivors, but we survive with a breathing tube. We find some way, personal achievements, good deeds, family loyalty, membership in some group that is honored, etc., to survive. Conformity to an external to which we attach value is what we go for when we lose real self respect and to which we can become fanatically, even dangerously attached. The conservative lurch to the right that we here in the US have been experiencing for quite some number of years happens to present a cogent example of the irrationality such phenomena take.
As for you, I am very happy to note that you could be idealistic and hopeful, even if the inevitable self doubt has crept in. I believe that these feelings are the remnants of a time when as children we felt oceanic love. Love is never lost, it can only be deeply buried. I believe
c: Those who wish to engage and even persuade their ideological opponents instead of preaching to the choir might do well to check out the works of J. Haidt on their own, the take offered by the OP is not definitive, to say the least.
M: My effort here was to reach liberals who are as deaf to the moral underpinnings of conservative thinking as conservatives are blind to their own forms of bigotry and are additionally hooked on the notion that conservative are stupid because they can't reason logically. That a lot of conservative shit throwing apes would show up is to be expected. Jackals are attracted to the lion's table. My assurance that we hate ourselves is not a pleasant fact, but it explains the world we see, a world that will remain as miserable for every child born into it for as long as we survive as a species, unless we begin to address that reality. Humanity may evolve to become what we can't imagine or end up on the ant heap. I believe we become what we fear and what we fear is destruction by the other, the other we will not see is nothing at all but our own self hate. I am the other the moment I mention this stuff but what to do, we face extinction.