Originally posted by: ricleo2
All I do is anger the other players. But I really want to play better but the games itself seem too difficult for my old mind/body. Any multiplayer games out there that an old FPS player can play easier, at least for the sanity of the other players? I'm thinking of a game without a lot of key strokes or mouse clicks. And please keep your mocking jokes to yourself, I have heard them all. Thanks.
Don't let the other players get to you. Why do you care so much about what they think? Many of these people are ONLY good in these games they play... They don't have anything in RL and so they make themselves feel better by putting down newbs in games. You'll get better! Dont worry about it! In MMORPGs only join guilds that clearly state that they welcome newbs and people of any levels of experience, and willing to help beginners. You got no business joining guilds that consist solely of experience players.
The only thing you should try and NOT do is be SLOW. I dont mean doing things slow in the game, but being slow on the brain. There is nothing that pisses me and others more than "slow" people. For example, when a team is trying to avoid monster aggro, there is an idiot charging in... So he gets killed or gets the whole team killed, and then everyone asks him what the hell he was doing, explains what he did wrong, and he no longer does it again.. That's all good and well. But.. There are certain people that simply ignore others when they talk to them for some stupid reason.. Like you ask a guy: "What the hell are you doing?" No response... You keep asking him again and again.. Still no response... Then 30 min later he wakes up and he's like.. Huh? Amm... "I'm doing what you are saying". You keep wasting your time and energy explaining him what must be done, but he again, does not reply!!! Then 40 min later after everyone got killed and abandoned the whole thing, the guy suddenly says: Ahh... Sry.. I had to take the dog out for a walk.... or... my mom was screaming at me... or my wife was screaming at me because I want watching the kid... or he simply never replies and never says anything!
There's always this guy. Don't be that guy. It's very annoying and frustrating.
Some guidelines:
1)If you don't understand something, ASK.
2)If people are talking to you, especially if they are telling you something important, DON'T IGNORE THEM. REPLY IMMEDIATELY.
3)I'd you made a STUPID mistake TRY not to do it again.
4)If you got to take care of something in RL, for the love of god, don't just leave!
Apologize and tell people you gotta go, and tell them WHY. If you cant tell them why, make something legit up. People like to know why is it that you gotta abandon them all of a sudden.
5)If your mom/wife is screaming at you, tell her to fuck off, or if you are a pussy, go do what she wants. I'm joking... What I mean is, if your mom is screaming, you shouldn't be playing! Go do your f-ing homework, or wash the damn dishes, or cut the damn grass! You are pissing yourself off, and you are frustrating others. Shut the damn computer off and go take care of your RL!! That means NOW. Not in 5 or 10 min.
This goes for walking the dog, watching the kids or taking care of your wife. It's like this... DO YOUR SHIT 1st, and THEN PLAY GAMES. How hard can this be? I understand we're all human, I constantly screw up myself, but we need to understand that games and RL do not mix. You must have days or certain hours in a day dedicated for gaming, and you must make sure that you do whatever it is you have to do in RL BEFORE turning on your PC, so that no one around you has an excuse to bitch about you not doing something important.
Someone will say: "Jeez, cool the f down man! It's just a game!" Well sorry - it's no longer just a game when you dedicate hours to do a quest or a raid. At this point this game is now directly linked to your real life, and you must take responsibility for what you are doing to yourself and others. I mean.. It's so simple. Don't have the time? Don't start the quest! There are other games to play if you are short on time.
I personally stopped playing all MMOs except EVE online because they are just too damn time consuming. There is no way to be truly efficient in most MMOs AND be efficient in RL. It's just not going to happen no matter what you tell yourself. MMOs interfere with my RL, they hurt me, and in turn hurt my relatives. It took me more than 10 years to understand it, but at least I finally got it through my head.
Above all, remember that games are there for your fun and pleasure. When they become a full time job, or when they start pissing you off of making you angry or upset it's time to try another game or stop playing altogether and take a break.
Thanx for reading my rant. I hope it helps!