on being im the worst kind of girl...a rant .

[eakers]

today at skool i spotted my friend david talking with someone i didnt know across the university center so i creeped up behind him to scare him. so you know the playful grab and BOO! soon insued in which he turned around laughing and invited me to sit down with them.

background info: dave is a church boy, im ok with that, hes a great person

so we are talking me and david about our weekends and im like "blah blah club blah blah movie blah blah sleep at my boyfriends, got him to make breakfast and clean my car blah blah homework blah blah party blah blah im tired .

after revealing my crazy weekend tales davids friend says to me "you are the worst kind of girl."
i reply "pardon me?"
"well you see woman should be quiet and blah blah you should be making breakfast blah blah your boyfriend is using you for sex blah blah god blah blah sins blah blah lake of fire. no man will ever want you for real because you wont make a good wife"

my reply "you dont even know me. you the hell are you to judge me?"
him "i dont judge god does"
me: "god loves everyone, and im happy with my relationship with god and jesus"
him: "maybe they arent happy with it"
me: "f...you you pompus ass."

i am really angry.
that guy doesnt know a thing about me yet felt the need to make assumptions about my life that he has no clue about.
plus he doesnt believe in gender equality...

*kat. <-- grrrrrrrrrrrr.............

 

[Czar]

Stay away from him, he will allways judge you, you are not the worst kind of girl, you are what most call normal.

 

[Viper GTS]

Buy him a bottle of AstroGlide, wrap it up, &amp; give it to him with a note explaining that &quot;To settle our differences, I'm sending you &amp; the only companionship you'll ever get on an all-expense paid vacation.&quot;

Seriously, though, don't worry what he thinks. Most guys do stuff for their women because they WANT to.

Viper GTS

 

[iamwiz82]

once again, the highly religious cause problems. &quot;Our god is good, yours is bad.&quot; Thing is, if every religion has a clause that you go to hell if you dont worship that one specific god, then every person will go to hell, cuz no one complies with every religion

 

[vi edit]

Hint...it's called jealousy. Getting laid does wonders in removing the stick that shoved up some peoples asses.

 

[The Dancing Peacock]

i hate when ppl try to dictate their morality on to others. Who are they to say their lifestyle is right, and yours is wrong?

My roommate's girlfriend's roommates did the same thing. They are hardcore religious and tell her that she cant drink alcohol or have my friend sleep over anymore. It's a little absurd, it's her apartment too. My friend says they're just bitter because they aren't very attractive and 1 has alot of body hair :Q.


So ya, anyways..People dictating their morality to other suck.


late.

TDP

 

[desy]

Doesn't sound like &quot;David&quot; is friend, just an aquaintance that will soon be history.
You don't need narrow minded schmucks in you life.

 

[madmacks]

sounds like hes got some issues. maybe hes referring you as &quot;worst kind of girl&quot; because he's gay and is in love with your bf.

 

[Pastore]

Dont get pissed at him for speaking his mind, and preaching his religion... if you dont like it, stay away from him...

why does he have issues??? man, people think that just because they think differently than you, they have &quot;issues&quot;????

that is BS

 

[bobtist]

That sucks. I'm sorry... Some people just never learn how to treat others nicely, it hurts.

 

[LordMaul]

If you don't like what he says, which sounds like bullshit, then just ignore him.


American Woman Lenny Kravitz

 

[geno]

Hahaa, excuse me for laughing, but that kid has no right to say anything. What you and your bf do is your business and no one elses. It sounds like this kid's been braiwashed and he's trying to push his beliefs onto you - don't tolerate it and tell him to screw until he comes back to his senses.

 

[eakers]

ahhhh you guys are too much.
yeah i figured i was a jelousy thing.

ok yeah hes an aquantance and his church friends will probley tell him to keep away from me.
meh..

*kat. <-- mommas lock your sons in there rooms

 

[happykitten]

Don't let it get to you, hon... there have always been close-minded people like that out there, and there always will be. I've found that only the most insecure people resort to adopting a &quot;holier-than-thou&quot; attitude... the best thing to do in that kind of situation? Smile politely and run like heck... =P

 

[madmacks]

i say get pissed all you want because there is a thing called being considerate to one another. anyways, now you know how he is and so you should stay away like beast said.

 

[Napalm381]

<< &quot;well you see woman should be quiet and blah blah you should be making breakfast blah blah your boyfriend is using you for sex blah blah god blah blah sins blah blah lake of fire. no man will ever want you for real because you wont make a good wife&quot; >>

If this is at all close to what this jerk said, then that goes beyond &quot;expressing one's opinion&quot;. Women should be quiet and subservient and make good wives? The rest of us are in the 21st century, Beast1284. Feel free to stop living in the 1950's anytime.

 

[toph99]

i say do what Viper suggested

 

[Wedesdo]

i know why...

He's Mr.Paltroll!!!!!!!!

well... maybe not, but at least someone as uneducated, stupid and reactionary as him...

 

[Czar]

no no, dont smile, if you show your teeth they will think you are hostile and mean them harm

 

[eakers]

no i can deal with the preching of morality
its telling me im a bad person because im a girl and i believe that its ok for a boy to do my laundry

i mean calling me the worst kind of girl is a little harsh.

*kat. <-- the BEST!

 

[kduncan5]

It's nice to be able to rant, to get all that BS that's inside of you, out. But having ranted, hopefully you feel all better now, you can move on and forget about the stoopid sh*t. The guy's got a narrow mind. Just leave it, and him, at that and move on. -kd5-

 

[BoberFett]

Napalm

How was he going beyond expressing his opinion? That's all he did. He didn't physically put an apron on her and shove her in the kitchen. He said what role he though women should have. He has that right. As does she to disagree.

You're clouding the argument by accusing Beast of thinking that way. His post in no way indicated that he agreed with him, just that it was an opinion and that he's free to express it. That last post of yours is below you.

 

[TuffGuy]

BoberFett - by that rationale, it would be ok for me to call someone(let's say you{for example[not a flame]}) an idiot, a dumba**, etc. i'm only saying my opinion. right?

 

[Pastore]

boberfett said it for me... the guy had an opinion and spoke his mind... if kat was offended by it that much, she should have said something to him about it...

tuffguy, calling someone a name is a direct attack... saying that a girl should be doing the dishes isnt personally attacking her... if he called her a &quot;slut&quot;, then it would be a different story...

 

[dc]

you know he's a church boy and you tell him all that stuff... gee, you were expecting him to congratulate you?

you're just asking for something when you do that. the equivalent of starting a religious thread on this board, you know it's gonna fire up lots of people and cause some flames.