Nexus 4 is a whole lot of phone for the money.. ( as it looks like you have already noticed from the resale value).. Very close to your daughters S3 in size and performance. If I were getting a new phone today it would be that or an unlocked S3 (with the nod to the S3 if you care about LTE, I personally don't)..
The subsidized phone game is very unappealing to me. It seems like a very poor value when you look at what you get vs simply paying cash for a "last gen" phone.
Then again, just my opinion ~ I seem to be past the need to have the biggest, fastest, best, and tend to weigh in value a bit more heavily than I used to.
Removable SD card used to be a very important feature to me as well, but I find with services like google music(to store music), pandora, netflix, and dropbox I use very little of my on-phone storage anymore & still manage to stay within 1-2GB of data useage per month. I have 16gb on-phone now, I think I have still 7-8GB free and that is with several ROMs, Nandroid backups, apps, and a whole bunch of other crap.
I could easily get by on 8GB with little effort (huge YMMV though obviously)