old people in the office

MrDudeMan

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i have to get this off of my chest before i explode. background: i work part time at a company to help them get their products moving in the right direction in the down time from my own company. it's only two days a week, but the old people still make me want to /wrists.


every. single. morning. all of the old people in this office walk around and chat with everyone about pointless things for several minutes. it drives me crazy. they have nothing to do so they don't understand that i don't wan't to stop what i'm doing to listen to absolutely nothing. i'm going to have to start shutting my door so people will leave me alone. they all want to be friends and have a good time, but i'm here to work. of course, i can't say that because i'll become a social pariah (maybe i don't care anymore...).

even a simple question like "how are you doing?" gets on my nerves at this point. it didn't at first, but the conversation never ends there. i also really, really don't care if there's pizza and it's getting cold especially if you're going to tell me more than three times. just like yesterday and all the days before that, i brought my lunch and i've told you this repeatedly.

then there's the idiot old guy who comes in and sits in my other chair because he wants to have a conversation about the work i'm doing. i don't even turn around to look at him and i usually reply with one word answers until there's a long enough silence that he eventually leaves. it sounds rude, and it probably is, but it's nicer than what i want to do. i talked to him the first few times until i realized i was feeding a stray cat. it always ends with "i just don't understand what you do with all the little circuits and blah blah blah" so if you don't understand even after i explain it then STOP TRYING.

just leave me the hell alone and let me work. UGH. well, i guess it isn't that simple because i have to tell basically all of them what to do at certain times during the day, but i want the interaction to be strictly about work. i've tried being nice about it and i've even tried telling myself (repeatedly) that they're just trying to be friendly so i should get over it. however, that stops working five minutes later when the old lady patrols by my office to ask about my kids and my weekend and blah blah. it sounds so petty to get annoyed at a friendly conversation, but it's just too frequent.

i want to be here to get work done and then leave to see my family. if i spend 30 minutes throughout the day talking to people, that's 30 less minutes i can spend with my family. there's just no nice way to say any of this and, unfortunately, the paycheck is disproportionately large compared to the effort so i really don't want to leave.

maybe i'll tell the president to come up with things for these people to do to keep them busy. that's probably the smartest way to handle it and maybe, just maybe, it will reduce the interrupt frequency down to a level that doesn't make me want to strangle old ladies.
 

sdifox

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Ask them if their purpose in life is to transport their coffee mug.
 

NetWareHead

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i don't even turn around to look at him and i usually reply with one word answers until there's a long enough silence that he eventually leaves.

Next time someone interrupts you, make a phone call from google voice to your office phone number. Your office phone rings, you say excuse me I have to take this. Pick up your phone and have an imaginary conversation. They should get the hint and leave.

Either that or let a silent one fly. Most people would leave a smelly confined space of an office.
 
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Some corporate cultures are more socially oriented than they used to be.

Cubicle drones are only getting in 4-6 hours of "real" work in an day anyway. Probably better to have employees visibly socializing with each other and occasionally talking about work too, than having everybody in their cube, trying desperately to look busy with Facebook.
 

Newell Steamer

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Old people in the workforce - God bless them.

I had to teach someone what favorites are. So, all these years, this person went back to e-mails, to get URLs for the various intranet sites he needed to go to.
 

Sonikku

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Damn seniors. They're conditioned by a sense of entitlement that has them believing there is sometimes a minute of downtime to relax and interact with coworkers on matters that are not work related.

THERE ISN'T ANY.

GET BACK TO WORK.
 

WhoBeDaPlaya

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I don't mind socializing at the office, but there are times when I want to be left the f**k alone because I'm in the zone.
These people don't get the hint when I have my Sennheiser Momentums on :|
 

CPA

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And just think, soon enough you'll be one of those annoying old people.
 

BurnItDwn

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Old people in the workforce - God bless them.

I had to teach someone what favorites are. So, all these years, this person went back to e-mails, to get URLs for the various intranet sites he needed to go to.

Was he in IT?

I ask because that would be hillarious.
 

Markbnj

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OP, if the office was full of people your own age, who shared your interests, and whose occasional (or even incessant) side conversations were about topics that interested you, do you think you would have the same reaction, to the same degree?
 

MrDudeMan

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OP, if the office was full of people your own age, who shared your interests, and whose occasional (or even incessant) side conversations were about topics that interested you, do you think you would have the same reaction, to the same degree?

for the most part, yes. when i'm at work, i want to focus and work hard so i can leave earlier. i already put in long hours so i don't want to add extra time just to socialize. if i wanted to do that, i wouldn't have gotten married or had kids. i worked at a huge company for several years, so i understand the culture and why it can be important, but i'm 'past' that and want to simply work at work. i also know i'm probably in the minority because a lot of people either can't focus or just don't want to work hard. i own a business, which means if i want to make money i have to be working. i carry that attitude into this office and the only person who shares it is the president.

with that said, i think the old people here are slightly worse than younger people (anyone below 70) because they smell, talk extremely loud, don't know how to turn the volume down on their computers, and they seem to have lost the ability to understand subtlety. you know the walk-away-while-talking trick most people understand to mean leave the person the hell alone? they're unphased by this. actually, i can walk away completely and they still won't stop talking.
 

MrDudeMan

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LOL- the OP sounds like an old person :p

lol, damn it. you're right.

And just think, soon enough you'll be one of those annoying old people.

nope. i have a contract with my wife. she has to either force me to quit my job or take me out back behind the shed to take care of it if i'm still working when i become as annoying as the lady here who smells like a potato.

Can't you tell your manager how you feel?

my manager owns the company and he's somewhat senior as well. that wouldn't be a very pleasant conversation nor would i be in the right to initiate it imo. instead of hurting the feelings of the people here, i'd rather just vent on a forum.
 

KlokWyze

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Sounds like me with people of all ages. ^Mark makes a great point, because frankly, I don't care much for discussing with you your opinion on..... anything. It's even worse when they just interject with their unasked for & unneeded opinions.

I'm here for the paycheck not chit chat with dumbasses.

Opinions from superiors and people better than me are always welcome even if unnecessary.
 

sze5003

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Smells like a potato lol. I understand how you feel too. I often feel like I have no life outside of work because of traffic and how long I spend traveling back and forth, other obligations to family members, etc. I too come in early and work through lunch so I can leave at 4pm. If I'm lucky I will get home by 6pm.

I've started spending money now on the turnpike so I can get home around 5 usually. Otherwise, it would be sometimes between 6 and 630 with a feeling of I've wasted my day.
 

gorcorps

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frankly you sound like an asshole

I'm shocked anybody wants to talk to you at all
 

Markbnj

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with that said, i think the old people here are slightly worse than younger people (anyone below 70) because they smell, talk extremely loud, don't know how to turn the volume down on their computers, and they seem to have lost the ability to understand subtlety. you know the walk-away-while-talking trick most people understand to mean leave the person the hell alone? they're unphased by this. actually, i can walk away completely and they still won't stop talking.

Sounds like you are working with my parents.