<< Okay...so if I [hypothetically] shoot your family dead and pay you the equivalent of three years wages' you'll be able to "get on with it"? Tree roots may be tough, but these people are human, after all >>
Different cultures deal with death differently. These people don't grieve forever like Americans, they have to get on with it because there are pressing issues to worry about like "how am I going to feed my children today". They don't have the luxury of so much idle time with which they can prolong the grieving period indefinitely. They have a different perspective on death, its a weekly thing there.
This fact is proven in the way we have seen dozens of interviews with people who lost members of their family, some their entire family, and they have said they will not hold it against the Americans because they understand that mistakes happen despite our best efforts and they believe in what we are doing (a greater cause).
Americans think there is no price you can put on life, that life is priceless, because we have the luxury of thinking this way. Many Americans make no distinction between an accidental death and intentional death, or they believe there is NO cause great or just enough to justify a single death. Offer an Afghan $1000 for his daughter. He might be very offended...that you're offer was too low.
If my family was killed accidentally in pursuit of a greater cause I support, I wouldn't expect a penny. But then, I'm not the type of person who thinks that greater causes are only worth pursuing so long as someone else is taking the risks (i.e. fair weather patriots).
<< I don't recall giving anybody permission to use my tax money to kill people. There is more than one way to skin a cat, and this was the wrong way to go about solving the terrorist problem (in my humble opinion). >>
You don't give anyone permission, that's not the way it works.