I agree that she hasn't come right out with it (it took a whole 5 days), but using her domain name as her username isn't exactly something somebody does when they want to hide the fact that they are an escort.
I agree that she hasn't come right out with it (it took a whole 5 days), but using her domain name as her username isn't exactly something somebody does when they want to hide the fact that they are an escort.
Svnla
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Hey Val, do you give us fellow ATOTers any discounts? Can we double or tripple stack those discount coupons? Can I go to Rossman site and find any hotdeals? LOL.
Hummm, Houston is only 4 hours away.
Seriously, I think your pics look good. Don't let these teenager boys talk you down.
Hummm, Houston is only 4 hours away.
Seriously, I think your pics look good. Don't let these teenager boys talk you down.
Meh.Originally posted by: Yzzim
But this one is guaranteed to put ou.........err, stay for dessertOriginally posted by: conjur
I've paid enough for my lawyer and to my ex-wife.Originally posted by: Yzzim
she looks to be about your age, conjur
Key Lime Pie, Chocolate Mousse Cake or, of course, Cheesecake from the Cheesecake Factory is much cheaper and much closer.
Heck, I want to splurge on dessert, I'll drop the $70 for a pound of a Neuhaus....mmmm....
MustangSVT
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Pretty much what I was thinking. If you pick up some pin cushion slut from a bar, buy her a few drinks and dinner, then take her home and hit it, how is that any better than paying for a high-class escort?
I really don't see the problem that people are having with what she does. If you don't like it, or wouldn't want a girl like that, fine...it's a free country. Don't hire an escore.
But there's no reason to sit safely behind your computer and insult her just to make yourself feel better either.
suse920
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Originally posted by: Aquaman
Originally posted by: BoberFett
Originally posted by: Aquaman
Everyone has to make a living
ps........ I thought there was no sex in the champagne room?!? :Q
Cheers,
Aquaman
Oh, there's definitely sex in the champagne room. You just have to find the right girl...
[hands over $5]
ok ......... get me the right girl :Q
Cheers,
Aquaman
hello
Cheers,
Aquaman
You incorrigible flirt, you.Originally posted by: Brutuskend
I didn't see that in your rates.
How much?
J/K
That's what I do around here....
Hardly. Just because I'm 24 doesn't mean I have zero life experience. That's a huge problem of mine with older folks. They think that you can't possibly know anything until you reach their age. :roll:
Cool :thumbsup:
Well it's not by me so bite me!
Is there something wrong with that in YOUR little world?
Well I'm happy that you've developed your own point of view about me, even if it is pretty twisted. However, I don't see how you can see her "success" if money isn't the only thing that means anything to you as you stated above. Care to elaborate?
She seems happy and her SO has accepted her chosen profession. She is able to work her hours on her terms and make more than both of us. She seems happy with herself and also sees no need to attack other to make herself seem better than she is. You clai to be happy because you accept who you are yet that is not how she should be. I look at people and see who they are, I try my best not to judge, I am happy where I am but not content because I can do better and I will do better. Success is not a destination but a journey and if you think that she is a BAD PERSON for her perfession you are the one who is unhappy. I am sure that VAl gets treated with more respect by her "clients" that you treat anyone on your "dates" You are judgemental of others and attack them solely to feed your own ego. I only hope that the persona that you have online is not the same as you have in person.
how is having sex for money any different from any other form of extramarital sex?
sex outside of marriage is all the same thing and you are a hypocrite if you think any differently.
I can't believe I missed out on this post
My.02..
Nik and the OP both make valid points. The truth lies somewhere in the middle. Selling your body for money is dangerous and involves very risky behavior that is morally reprehensible. Val, a percentage of your clients may suffer from sexual dysfunction or have issues with women. Some of these people may be capable of violence or agression towards women. I don't give a crap if the guy has tons of money, some of these people may pose a danger to your health.
When you lock yourself up in a room with someone you do not know, you are putting your life in HIS hands. Lets say he is a dirty SOB that likes to hit women, likes to have rough sex and likes to dominate. He probably can't get that from his wife so he turns to you. What do you do in that situation?
On the other hand, I have not lived your life nor can I judge your actions. You are entitled to make a living and to explore yourself sexually. Just be careful.
My.02..
Nik and the OP both make valid points. The truth lies somewhere in the middle. Selling your body for money is dangerous and involves very risky behavior that is morally reprehensible. Val, a percentage of your clients may suffer from sexual dysfunction or have issues with women. Some of these people may be capable of violence or agression towards women. I don't give a crap if the guy has tons of money, some of these people may pose a danger to your health.
When you lock yourself up in a room with someone you do not know, you are putting your life in HIS hands. Lets say he is a dirty SOB that likes to hit women, likes to have rough sex and likes to dominate. He probably can't get that from his wife so he turns to you. What do you do in that situation?
On the other hand, I have not lived your life nor can I judge your actions. You are entitled to make a living and to explore yourself sexually. Just be careful.
damn work....was gonna post something in here that was to the point and meaningful....no i forgotten cuz of some idiot phoning me and taking ages to do what they wanted done......
oh well......is this post therefore considered neffing? not something i can ever remember having done...if it is i do apologise....
oh well......is this post therefore considered neffing? not something i can ever remember having done...if it is i do apologise....
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
I can't believe I missed out on this post
My.02..
Nik and the OP both make valid points. The truth lies somewhere in the middle. Selling your body for money is dangerous and involves very risky behavior that is morally reprehensible. Val, a percentage of your clients may suffer from sexual dysfunction or have issues with women. Some of these people may be capable of violence or agression towards women. I don't give a crap if the guy has tons of money, some of these people may pose a danger to your health.
When you lock yourself up in a room with someone you do not know, you are putting your life in HIS hands. Lets say he is a dirty SOB that likes to hit women, likes to have rough sex and likes to dominate. He probably can't get that from his wife so he turns to you. What do you do in that situation?
On the other hand, I have not lived your life nor can I judge your actions. You are entitled to make a living and to explore yourself sexually. Just be careful.
No not all of them are sexually dysfunctional, alot of them are just very loney and lacking something in their life. You are stereotyping. There is always risk in the biz, but if the laws weren't set up the way they are the women in the biz could be better protected from the creeps who are out there looking to take their aggressions out on these women. Those are the kind of men who think that the ladies in the biz will not report them because of the line of work they are in.
Most of my special friends have treated me with more respect and kindness than then men I have met just dating in the civilian world. That has been my experience. Theres so much you don't know. In addition whose morals are you talking about? Everyone has their own set of morals, my morals differ from yours. You cannot govern Morality or legislate Virtue. It just doesn't work. But I do respect your opinion.
Hugs,
Val
I understand everything you are saying, but for me it comes down to risk vs reward. Are you willing to accept that your life may end at the hands of an aggressive SOB for money? I know that driving to work in the morning poses a risk to all of us, that you can generalize about anything that we do. But at the end of the day you are seeing more men per week than most women probably see in a year, exponentially raising the chances that someone will hurt you. That is what I find scary about people that choose your profession, hell you hear about crimes against women in your field every day.
Geekbabe
Moderator Emeritus<br>Elite Member
I would imagine that it's far better to be getting paid for your time and attentions than it is to be the one paying . All superfical pleasantries aside,most people who are smart enough to make a healthy living are also smart enough to understand that the only trait they have that's wanted by their companion is what's in their wallets, the painful reality of that stark fact must surface at least occasionally no matter how hard it's actively surpressed .
Val,I'm not at all surprised that your "special friends" treat you well, they probably know only to well what it is to be considered an outcast or undesirable socially . I would imagine that the inner landscape of a lot of your clients must be rather sad and that even your most geniune interactions with many of them must leave a rather bittersweet
feeling within them .
Val,I'm not at all surprised that your "special friends" treat you well, they probably know only to well what it is to be considered an outcast or undesirable socially . I would imagine that the inner landscape of a lot of your clients must be rather sad and that even your most geniune interactions with many of them must leave a rather bittersweet
feeling within them .
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