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Ok... question here regarding sex...

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is that considered wrong
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depends on your definition of wrong...

morally, depends on your religion..most monotheistic religions state that sex is for procreation

legally, you get her pregnant, your gonna pay for 18 years if not longer

legallly, she cries rape, your gonna really pay through the nose..

psychologically, it's gonna be hard not to develop an emotional committment to this person (if your doing it with some regularity), at some
point it is going to end, and someone's feelings are going to be hurt.

don't forget blackmail if your a prominent person (or plan to become one).

don't forget communicable diseases (i assume your arrangement does not include monogamy)

otherwise, go for it.
 
Its upto you.

Problem could be in the future, you could lose the value of sex.

And its possible if you 2 spend too much time near each other , that attachment is likely.
 
tread lightly my fine furry friend! the last relationship i was exactly like this...strictly plutonic, but something always changes the girls once you knocked them a few times. she went from anitrelationship to psychobiatch...always wanting to spend more timme...at first i just thought she wanted to fiddle me tunes more often then i realized that TRAP! i was caught in a pussy with no way out...

never again will i do this, the emotional trama tired me out constantly...let alone utilizing my stealth skills around campus to avoid her and her spys.
 
omg she had spy's everywhere...even among my friends. sucks living in an isolated college community where everybody knows everybody! luckily i graduated and dont' have to deal with psychowoman anymore.
 
THIS AGREEMENT SHALL COVER THE FOLLOWING RULES AND PRINCIPLES:


1. No sleeping over - unless it is very good and we need to repeat it in the morning.


2. No meeting in public except for dinner or drinks before the events of the evening.


3. No calls before 9 PM - we don't have sh!t to talk about.


4. None of that "lovemaking" sh!t - only sex allowed.


5. No emotional discussions (i.e. Where are we heading with this? Do you love me?) The
answer is no, so don't ask.


6. No plans made in advance - that is why you are called the "backup," unless you are from
out-of-town, then it's only a one-time advanced arrangement.


7. All gifts accepted - money is always good.


8. No baby talk - however, dirty talk is encouraged.


9. No asking for comparisons with former lovers - it's really none of your damn business.


10. No calling each other "friends with privileges" we are not friends, just sex buddies.


11. Calling out the wrong name during sex is OK - don't be offended.


12. No extra clothing - I don't want your ass leaving anything behind when you leave.


13. No falling asleep right after sex - it's over, so get your ass up, get dressed and go the fVck home.


14. Don't be offended if I don't ask if you enjoyed it - I don't care.


15. If anyone asks who you are, the standard response will be: "My roommate's boyfriend."


16. Doggie style or in the dark is the preferred position - the reason is less eye contact the better.


17. No condoms, no fVcking. Carry your ass home.


18. Bring your own drink - I am not your liquor store.


19. No phone use, please - don't want anyone calling back looking for your ass.




* EXTRA TIP FOR SUCCESSFUL BOOTY CALLS:


The aforementioned rules may only be altered by the holder of the agreement. If the other party attempts to change or alter any terms of this Agreement, it will automatically become null and void and you will then be removed from the BOOTY CALL LIST and deleted from phone memory and email list. In other words, you will be BLOCKED from all communications until your silly ass understands the rules.



Participating Party

Signature_______________________________________
Date: ________________

Participating Party

Signature_______________________________________
Date: ________________


 
it was written by a chick who obviously meant business

she is completely right though this type of contract is the only way to avoid the fatal emotional attatchment effect
 
If you hold to God (Yahweh, the great "I Am") as your moral compass, then yes, it is sinful and destructive and wrong.
 
umm... in a christian sense it would definately be wrong b/c your out of wedlock... however, if you arn't concerned with that, go for it! Just use a freakin' condom!
 
Bear in mind that just because somebody says there are no feelings involved doesn't mean there are no feelings...

-geoff
 
For every action, there is a reaction...

There IS no such thing as sex without consequence. You might not see it, feel it, etc... but on a subtle psychological level, it is there. Everyone's consequence will be different... some (usually the women) may feel just a little more used underneath the surface, and some (usually men) will see women more as objects to be used and less like human beings with feelings. Either way, there is ALWAYS a psychological reaction to sex, no matter how hard you try to pretend there isn't.
 
Originally posted by: TJN23
u feel differently toward someone once you know them initimately...
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Not true. I've been with quite a few women in the casual, we've had a few, lets go have casual sex kind of way. And then I've had girlfriends that I was sexually active with. The first type, either they left my place in the morning or I left theirs. None of us particularly cared that we wern't getting involved. We just had a little fun. That's the mentality with a lot of people on a college campus. When I'm being intimate with a girlfriend, that's different. Sex means a bit more, but that doesn't mean that if I break up I'm not going to have casual sex with women when I start getting bored.
 
Originally posted by: Isla
For every action, there is a reaction...

There IS no such thing as sex without consequence. You might not see it, feel it, etc... but on a subtle psychological level, it is there. Everyone's consequence will be different... some (usually the women) may feel just a little more used underneath the surface, and some (usually men) will see women more as objects to be used and less like human beings with feelings. Either way, there is ALWAYS a psychological reaction to sex, no matter how hard you try to pretend there isn't.
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Can I get an "Amen"?
 
Is it wrong to eat a candy bar just cuz it tastes good and you're craving it? But aren't actually hungry?
 
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