OK, I'm pathetic. That said, help me with my *GIRL PROBLEM*

[johnjohn320]

OK, I really like this girl, I have for quite some time, but I don't get to see her very often at all. I haven't talked to her in a little over a week, I called her today to invite her to a concert, blah blah. I had to leave a message. When she calls back, I wanna somehow drop hints that I like her, and have romantic intentions. But, I don't wanna go overboard, and make it seem like I have no interest in her otherwise (I honestly just like her as a friend as well).

I don't know how to do this? I was thinking of dropping the line in somewhere "yeah, I just like looking for excuses to get out and see you" or something like that.

Eh? Eh? I'm anxiously waiting by the phone hehe.

 

[Ameesh]

you should answer the phone like this "kennedy residents, john john speaking"

 

[pulse8]

You've already shown her that you like her. You asked her out to a concert. People don't do that when they don't want to spend time with other people.

 

[helpme]

I saw my name in the title, and just had to read...

Just be yourself.

And have fun!

BTW, pulse8 that mod comment rocks. hahah

 

[johnjohn320]

Yeah, well I've asked her to a lot of things. That doesn't necesarily show my feelings for her.

 

[olds]

Well since you asked. If your not man enough to just say it to her face, your not man enough to enter a relationship.

 

[pulse8]

<< Yeah, well I've asked her to a lot of things. That doesn't necesarily show my feelings for her. >>



It may, you just don't realize it.

 

[Koing]

Just get her out somewhere. So that you two are out with each other in person. Then enjoy your day and then tell her straight that you like her. Say something like "I want to tell you something [name], you ever thought about me and you in a relationship?"

Or something to that affect. You will quickly know if shes interested you in that way and *more* then friendship. If you were good friends it shouldn't be awkward and you'd *just* be friends then and enjoy it.

No real way to tell her you like her and not. You just got to take it and ask her. If she says no then its no. If she has feelings that are in that way then your set

Good luck.

 

[khtm]

Pics???

 

[weezergirl]

<<

<< Yeah, well I've asked her to a lot of things. That doesn't necesarily show my feelings for her. >>



It may, you just don't realize it. >>



coming from a girl, YES IT DOES.

she knows. girls aren't as dumb as guys are

 

[pulse8]

<< she knows. girls aren't as dumb as guys are >>



Very true. Girls know more about this crap then guys too. It's another trick played on us men. We are the ones to ask the girls out, so of course there's not indication of how they feel directly.

 

[AkumaX]

<< Pics??? >>

 

[johnjohn320]

Well, when I say I've asked her to do lots of things, they've always been group things.

Normally, I would take y'all's advice and get her out somewhere and talk to her in person, but at this particular concert, I'm in it, I'm performing, so I won't really get much time alone with her, if any. And god knows who else she'll bring with her.

That's why I think I have to ask her over the phone. The only times I see her in person are when I ask her to do something (like this). She doesn't go to my school or anything, so I don't see her unless I take the initiative and ask her.

I'm nervous because I've called her many times, but the only times she calls me are when she's returning my calls. :Q

 

[duragezic]

If a girl is interested, will she show signs or something? Like the guy is suppose to start talking and try and hook up with her but it'd be nice if you girls gave us poor guys some hints whether or not you're interested.

 

[cmdavid]

ask her if she's like to go out to eat AFTER your concert.. so that you can see her and actually spend time w/ her...

 

[johnjohn320]

<< ask her if she's like to go out to eat AFTER your concert.. so that you can see her and actually spend time w/ her. >>



Good idea, but my concert probably won't be over til around 10:30. That's pretty late to go to dinner on a weeknight.

 

[yoda291]

I'm thinking you could open up with :

So, how about some of that intercourse stuff I been readin about?

Followed by:
Would you be terribly offended if I threw you into a corner and had my way with you?

J/k.

Just lay it on her straight.

 

[Robert01]

<< That's pretty late to go to dinner on a weeknight. >>

Ever heard of Wendy's or Taco Bell? Well, those might not be a good idea if she's a PETA member and doesn't like farting contests. Any real woman would.

 

[johnjohn320]

Well, after playing phone-tag for awhile, we finally got ahold of each other on the phone. She apologized a ton for not being able to go to the concert I invited her to, she has a conflict she can't get out of, (ironically, she can't get out of it because she ditched this thing she has to do about a month ago, to go do something with me. ).

So anyway we talked for about 45 mins or so, just about random stuff, then she had to go. But, I think I dropped a pretty good hint, and several times, hopefully she picked up on it. I told her don't feel bad about missing the concert, it really has nothing to do with the performance, I just like looking for little excuses to go out and see her.. I elaborated a bit but that's the gist of what I was saying. You think that's a good enough hint? Near the end of the convo, I also mentioned that I feel kinda guilty cause I call her so much, 'i hope i'm not getting annoying' etc etc, she was like 'No! I love talking to you, don't worry about it!'

So, hopefully things will continue on a good track, and maybe soon I'll be dating this girl.

 

[Anghang]

sounds like things are going well thus far...rock on!...

good luck

 

[Keego]

Get to the concert, drop your pants, and say "it's not going to suck itself!"

guarenteed winner!

 

[Rent]

<< Get to the concert, drop your pants, and say "it's not going to suck itself!"

guarenteed winner! >>



Why not go with just :

Nice shoes, wanna fvck?



Sounds like you're on track john.

 

[johnjohn320]

I hope so...

 

[Hyperblaze]

<< Get to the concert, drop your pants, and say "it's not going to suck itself!"

guarenteed winner! >>



that one is getting old...first read it in Kevin's thread about this hot asian lady (his words...althought I don't doubt it)

and people keep using it. Once hilarious, twice funny, third time and so forth = getting old

 

[Elita1]

After the concert, ask her out for ice cream, a drink or just a walk...just the two of you.
talk to her, and be sincere. See what comes of it.
Like Weezergirl said...we are very perceptive.

Good luck, hope it goes well!