I'm rather busy right now,

but another can go into more detail when they come back to the thread. If you read the Anand article most of your questions will be answered. I gave you the link in my last post, you don't see it?
The CPU:memory ratio is what the 1:1 or 3:4 etc. settings mean. 1:1 is one to one, and the others are a divisor......like 3:4 is /3 the CPU bus and the 4 is /4 the memory bus so to speak. I think I'm describing it correctly.

1:1 is the best performance *usually* but not always if another setting will give you faster O'clock speeds. I asked a similar question in this thread and someone answered it. I THINK it was page 16 and later (depending on how your forum setup is) is where the post was.
No, you can't use an IDE drive on a SATA connector, but with an ADAPTER you can use an SATA drive on an IDE connector (which there is no point of you doing that in
your particular case since you have SATA connectors). You'll have to put your IDE HD on the IDE connector. You should probably read your mobo manual.
Bumping up the memory voltage will usually allow one to O'clock more, but I'd try it @default first although you'll probably have to increase it to get most out of it.
I don't have that mobo yet, but I think by "DRAM timings" you mean the settings like 2-2-2-5 or whatever (they are different for each memory module speed/brand) and this is what I referred to by "CAS2" setting. The first digit is usually the CAS latency and the lower the better, but the lower can also be unstable if the mhz is too high. You may be able to run 2-x-x-x at PC3200 speeds (DDR400) but when you go faster you will probably have to set it to 2.5 or 3. That holds true with all the settings. If your BIOS is now set to "Auto" in this area, they will probably be 'grayed out' and not accessible; you won't be able to see/change them until you set it to "manual". The link I gave you for the memory review will have more info on that.
You sound like a newbie, and that's cool.......we all once were. So you should probably go to Google and do some searches on these terms to learn more about them, and also read the articles at Anandtech's homepage. There are many linked
there. Look over that page and the nav menu @left.