Update ! I had more problems today. was down to 3000 and still bad. So I was going drop even more, and went to 9x multi to drop the fsb in case that was heating the NB too much. So I also dropped the vdimm from 2.3 down to 2.2, and at 9x333 wouldn;t even stay stable for 10 seconds ! So I put the vdimm back to 2.3 and the speed to 3160, higher than before this started and its now been a couple of hours.
And the memory is gskill PC-8000, si I am WAY under spec, but I think it does need 2.2 real vdimm.
So here is what I think, the ASUS mobo has horrible vdroop, what if the vdimm also is way lower than I set ? If so, I could probably get 3.2 or better if I pump the vdimm even more !
Question. Is there a tool that reports actual vdimm like cpuz does for vcore ?
Edit: Acanthus, I don't have time to remove 2 motherboards, then HSF's for a swap, just for this. My HSF's require removing the motherboards, Big Typhoon, and Ninja sythe type A