Originally posted by: Idontcare
I can appreciate the frustration one experiences when a seemingly straightforward statement appears to be woefully misinterpreted, or even worse it gets contorted into something that is actually in direct contradiction to the original message itself.
The emotions from such situations can range from bafflement to bemusement to sadness and on occasion to outright legitimate flashes of anger out of sheer frustration.
I don't presume to be saying anything you don't already know. Just saying you aren't alone.
But if I could be so bold as to assume I can add some value to this side-topic (yes I know this is unsolicited advice, sorry in advance, I'll be brief) I'd add that for me I've seen on occasion that the path of least resistance requires removing all references of emotion and potentially divisive wording from one's response post.
The challenge is to find the resolve to do this despite all the feelings of justification one has for lacing one's post with a side dish of vitriol.
The reward can sometimes be nothing more than simply getting the pleasure of not having to repeat oneself over and over again because people just can't seem to get the message.
I'll get off my soapbox now, just a pet peeve of mine to see an otherwise very logical debating format and style be undermined by a tinge of too much personal vindication. It'll be a personal goal of mine to not hassle you about it anymore though for fear of betraying myself as a hypocrite of this very message