You know what that smacks of to me? that the BIOS is forcibly disabling high density dimms beyond a certain size. Intel has done this before, IIRC.
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I wonder if a linux bootstrap on such a board flashed into the BIOS area (thus replacing the bios with linux bootstrap code) would be able to see all of the ram in such a system?
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Modelworks: FBdimms are buffered aka registered dimms if I remember correctly, and heck yeah they are expensive. I remember buying them new for the mobo I had before this STL2, it was a Tyan Patriot BX100 dual slot 1 server mobo, which I got four ECC/registered PC100 dimms for (same ones I use now in the STL2). the dual P3/600s, the mobo, and the ram set me back almost as much as three normal computers, but it was so worth it, as I had true SMP and that little tank lasted so many years...finally died on me in early 2007... Soon after I got the STL2 and slapped in the RAM and a couple of matched P3 933s (non S-spec) I had gotten used.
Oh, and just for the record, everyone:
I know that over the net I tend to come off as being abrasive, snooty, and the like, but I am the exact opposite, I never mean to especially to other techs, but I have learned over time that my text does look like that... just letting you all know that I have the utmost respect for fellow techs and if I come off as that to any of you I definitely do not intend to.