Note to self: Don't let your "friends" sell you out.

LivinLaVivaPollo

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A friend of mine is a "personal banker" at a large national bank. He calls me a few months ago while I was still looking for work, and was trying to get me to switch from the bank I was with at the time.

I was poor at the time, and didn't want to screw around with what little money I had. So I told him, just wait until I land my job and then I'll make the switch. Few weeks go by, I get my job, he calls me again and pitches his bank again. I say fine, let's switch, I just want a good checking account (free checks, free money orders, etc.)

He signs me up for checking, savings, visa card, master card, and a personal line of credit (which he tells me is "like a plastic credit card without the plastic"). I hated this. I didn't ask for ANY of this. I just wanted a checking account.

That's not all. So now, everytime I go to my new bank, because I have so many accounts open with them now, they keep pestering me about their rewards program. I say I don't need it, because I don't plan on using those cards.

Few weeks ago, I get a brochure from my banker friend and it's about the rewards program. I think to myself, uh.. I guess he just wants me to have more information.

Fast forward to today, on my new Visa card, I have charges of 30 dollars for the rewards program, and 50 dollars for a credit protection program.

Um... I did not authorize any of these charges. He signed me up for them without my authorization and then charged me for them and he probably gets a fat commission for them.

This angers me beyond belief, but I'm a nice guy, I don't want to get him into trouble. I'll find some way out of these self-renewing programs and try not to get him in trouble.

But I mean, why would you do that to your friends? I work in the networking industry... I'm not trying to sell fiber transceivers to my friends.. why do you have to sell out your friends man?

Cliffs:
Helped a friend out by switching to his bank.
He signed me up for all these BS services that I didn't ask for, and charged me for them.

EDIT:
Some more background.

Yeah, he's a really good friend of mine. Known him since high school, so about 9 years of friendship.

The money doesn't bother me, but it's the principle of it. The fact that he knows that if he did this to a stranger, he would get severely reprimanded, but if he did it to a friend, that it would be OK, because friends help eachother.

I mean, this isn't the only case. He was running some open a new account promo, and he called me at work more than a couple of times, pretending to say what's up and trying to catch up, but then the conversation would inevitably end up trying to get me to refer other people I knew to open an account.

I always attributed this to his character. But never figured it would get to this.
 

So

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I'd stop being friends w/ him over it, and make him know why. Then I'd leave the bank.
 

pontifex

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and what do you want us to do about it? talk to your friend or just cancel eveyrthing and go back to the old bank
 

Aikouka

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Go down there and smack him up a bit. That's quite uncool and not very friendly thing to do.
 

LivinLaVivaPollo

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Originally posted by: pontifex
and what do you want us to do about it? talk to your friend or just cancel eveyrthing and go back to the old bank

Nothing. Aren't most Internet forums about complaining about someone/something anyway?
 

sixone

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Talk to your "friend" first. If he won't at least reimburse you for the charges, then go to his supervisor.
 

pontifex

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Originally posted by: LivinLaVivaPollo
Originally posted by: pontifex
and what do you want us to do about it? talk to your friend or just cancel eveyrthing and go back to the old bank

Nothing. Aren't most Internet forums about complaining about someone/something anyway?

don't tell that to the people here. you'll be lynched
 

spidey07

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That's no friend you've got their. That's a darn good salesman!

Seriously though, he isn't your friend.
 

yowolabi

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If you cancel all your accounts and leave the bank immediately, your friend won't get in trouble, but he'll lose out on the commission he fraudently tried to get from you.

Then never talk to him again.
 

Atheus

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I'm not trying to sell fiber transceivers to my friends...

Why not? I _like_ fiber, I'll buy it if you give me a friendly discount.

Doesn't sound like that guy gave you a discount though, more like ripped you off.
 

Mermaidman

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"With 'friends' like this, who needs enemies?"

Seriously, do not trust this guy at all. I would even make sure he doesn't steal your identity for more nefarious activities.
 

IceBergSLiM

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Find his manager. Explain that if he reviews your acocunt history he will find no record for authorizing the charges. They will likely find that "your friend" forged some documents. He will be fired.
 

Bryophyte

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Originally posted by: sixone
Talk to your "friend" first. If he won't at least reimburse you for the charges, then go to his supervisor.

Yep. And close all of the accounts at that bank.
 

Need4Speed

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Originally posted by: So
I'd stop being friends w/ him over it, and make him know why. Then I'd leave the bank.

I bet you have alot of friends. I'm assuming you practice what you preach and dump all your "friends" each time they do something stupid or you don't agree with...
 

Bryophyte

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I wonder what kind of bonus your 'friend' gets for signing people up for that crap. Maybe he's just trying to get a promotion if they don't have any kickbacks.
 

So

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Originally posted by: Need4Speed
Originally posted by: So
I'd stop being friends w/ him over it, and make him know why. Then I'd leave the bank.

I bet you have alot of friends. I'm assuming you practice what you preach and dump all your "friends" each time they do something stupid or you don't agree with...

There is a WIIIIIDE gap between 'doing something stupid or {I} don't agree with' and exploiting you and effectively stealing your money for a tiny career bump at best...

Sounds like you're a chump when it comes to friends.
 

Bryophyte

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Originally posted by: Need4Speed
Originally posted by: So
I'd stop being friends w/ him over it, and make him know why. Then I'd leave the bank.

I bet you have alot of friends. I'm assuming you practice what you preach and dump all your "friends" each time they do something stupid or you don't agree with...

If a friend of mine pulled a stunt like that, I would cut off contact with them. It is the least they deserve.
 

Need4Speed

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Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Originally posted by: Need4Speed
Originally posted by: So
I'd stop being friends w/ him over it, and make him know why. Then I'd leave the bank.

I bet you have alot of friends. I'm assuming you practice what you preach and dump all your "friends" each time they do something stupid or you don't agree with...

If a friend of mine pulled a stunt like that, I would cut off contact with them. It is the least they deserve.

Well I am quite happy that none of you are friends of mine then. It certainly wouldn't occur to me to ruin a friendship over 80 bucks...the right approach would be to talk to him about it, let him now how you feel, work it out, and then forget about it...sheeesh.