Like I said before, I personally have no problem with most of the stuff that isn't allowed on the forums. I prefer when people are allowed to swear and be offensive, up to a point (certain types of links being the limit). I bring this sort of thing up just because I hate the inconsistency, if they're going to say something isn't allowed, it needs to not be allowed for anyone for any reason. Yes it limits what can be said, but so does the idea of banned words and topics in the first place.
I'm not trying to act like a moderator, I'm trying to get the moderators to act like objective moderators so that I personally can get a better experience on the site. That's why this forum exists. I don't like being called names for voicing my opinion that happens to not be the same as everyone else's.
As to the mods or staff not replying, again, they're not objective if they're not answering my legitimate questions just because they don't like me. As I said before (either here or elsewhere), answer the question the first time and I won't keep asking. Address an issue the first time, and I won't need to bring it up again.