Not getting along with roommate at all....

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Jfrag Teh Foul

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Originally posted by: AlienCraft
Welcome to LIFE!!!!! There is no dress rehersal. This is it.
Now grow some and stand up for yourself. If you start taking shizt now, be prepared for a lifetime of it.

 

Kev

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Dec 17, 2001
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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Pussy this Pussy that,

WHAT DO YOU EXPECT ME TO DO?!?

He is friggin 250 lbs, I'm 165,
Besides even if I did try to get back at him in some way, I doubt he would just say "well done, its a good thing you stood up for yourself"
instead things would just escalate and get worse. No jerk gives up their ground, you guys seriously think I can somehow 'win' by standing up to him?

spoken like a true sackless bitch. there's no hope for you. turn to drugs.
 

FREAKZA69

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heres a quarter..go down to your local pet store, get a rat to naw the doormat imprint off your forehead..take the change and go to a plastic surgeon ask if they can implant a pair of balls for you.. then get off the computer and quit bitching about how bad your life sucks.
 

skywalker66

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Nov 5, 2001
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Originally posted by: mflacy
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Pussy this Pussy that,

WHAT DO YOU EXPECT ME TO DO?!?

He is friggin 250 lbs, I'm 165,
Besides even if I did try to get back at him in some way, I doubt he would just say "well done, its a good thing you stood up for yourself"
instead things would just escalate and get worse. No jerk gives up their ground, you guys seriously think I can somehow 'win' by standing up to him?

Standing up for yourself doesn't require an asskicking. Learn how to take a joke and give as well as you get.

Or you could just continue to whine about it on the internet and stay scared for the rest of your life.

I've tried that, I joke back and then he punches me, I punch him back and he comes after me, forces me to the ground and sits on me

you want to explain how this is going to work?
 

FREAKZA69

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heres a quarter..go down to your local pet store, get a rat to naw the doormat imprint off your forehead..take the change and go to a plastic surgeon ask if they can implant a pair of balls for you.. then get off the computer and quit bitching about how bad your life sucks.
 

FREAKZA69

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heres a quarter..go down to your local pet store, get a rat to naw the doormat imprint off your forehead..take the change and go to a plastic surgeon ask if they can implant a pair of balls for you.. then get off the computer and quit bitching about how bad your life sucks. no wait....actually just go buy some tampons for your pussy.
 

Saulbadguy

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Jan 27, 2003
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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: mflacy
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Pussy this Pussy that,

WHAT DO YOU EXPECT ME TO DO?!?

He is friggin 250 lbs, I'm 165,
Besides even if I did try to get back at him in some way, I doubt he would just say "well done, its a good thing you stood up for yourself"
instead things would just escalate and get worse. No jerk gives up their ground, you guys seriously think I can somehow 'win' by standing up to him?

Standing up for yourself doesn't require an asskicking. Learn how to take a joke and give as well as you get.

Or you could just continue to whine about it on the internet and stay scared for the rest of your life.

I've tried that, I joke back and then he punches me, I punch him back and he comes after me, forces me to the ground and sits on me

you want to explain how this is going to work?


That is assault. Tell him not to do it, instead of punching him back. If he does it again..report him for assault.
 

skywalker66

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Originally posted by: Saulbadguy
Ok..first serious response.

It really depends on what the "joking around" and "teasing you" is...

If he is pissing in your coffee, sh!tting in your bed, or sleeping with your girlfriend..thats going over the line.

If he is just calling you names, or poking fun of you..just try and roll with the punches, and try to come back with your own jokes. If he physically threatens you, or assaults you, report it immediately. That is unacceptable.


Naw, he just rips on me, sometimes flicks my ears, sometimes tries to pinch my nipples, stuff like that. oh yea, and will bitch about something like if I leave my jacket on the floor even though he leaves all of his clothes on the floor and takes up like half the room.
 

Saulbadguy

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Jan 27, 2003
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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: Saulbadguy
Ok..first serious response.

It really depends on what the "joking around" and "teasing you" is...

If he is pissing in your coffee, sh!tting in your bed, or sleeping with your girlfriend..thats going over the line.

If he is just calling you names, or poking fun of you..just try and roll with the punches, and try to come back with your own jokes. If he physically threatens you, or assaults you, report it immediately. That is unacceptable.


Naw, he just rips on me, sometimes flicks my ears, sometimes tries to pinch my nipples, stuff like that. oh yea, and will bitch about something like if I leave my jacket on the floor even though he leaves all of his clothes on the floor and takes up like half the room.

Then he is obviously one of those brainless jocks, that all he knows how to do is physically intimidate someone. I hate those sorts of people, so I'd try and get out of the situation. People like that are complete @sses, and its best to just get away from them.
 

RGN

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Dude, you sound sort of like 3rd grade. "You be nice to me!!!" "OK, buy you can't touch my TV then." "Yeah, but that's my Gaming system"

Jeez. The line should be. You don't touch him, he doesn't touch you. After that, grow a pair and deal with it.
 

Saulbadguy

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Originally posted by: RGN
Dude, you sound sort of like 3rd grade. "You be nice to me!!!" "OK, buy you can't touch my TV then." "Yeah, but that's my Gaming system"

Jeez. The line should be. You don't touch him, he doesn't touch you. After that, grow a pair and deal with it.

Read above post. This guy is "one of those guys" who all they know is "touching".
 

datalink7

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Jan 23, 2001
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lol...

Out of all my neighbors freshman year when I lived in the dorms, I was the geekiest guy. I was in alright shape, but wasn't an athlete.

But people didn't tease me becaues I could dish out bigger flames than anyone. They learned fast that if they opened their mouth they got burned.

Just got to know how to throw sh!t back in their face and stop being a sucker :)
 

kami333

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Dec 12, 2001
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Group hug time.

Seriously though, learn to take it either by ignoring it completely or dishing it back out. It's just the way living with other guys ends up working out from my experience. You insult each other, you yell at each other when someone starts getting on your nerves, you let it all out.

Or would you rather be like girls and act like you love each other and be all touchy-feely and all that while talking badly behind each others backs? I lived with three girls for a semester, I knew all of them and figured it would work out but by the end of the third month they had driven me nuts to the point I where I went home only to shower and change.
 

skywalker66

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His teasing involves stuff like "arrggg.... Steve.. your so gay..." or singing aloud, "Steve is a f@g, da dadada da" or stuff like that,

or making up rumors and spreading them around the floor about me. stuff like that. he's a cool dude no doubt.
 

Warthog912

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Originally posted by: isekii
P
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What does it spell ?

PUSSY PUSSY PUSSY~!!!!

Stand up for yourself. Once is all it takes-
(this is also true about dying)

Take your chances
 

rubix

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Oct 16, 1999
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read my post above.

also post his email address so we can all start making fun of him.

what does ryan look like and what kind of hair does he have? what type of clothes does he wear and what music does he like? does he have a gf and if so what's her name? do you know his mom's name by chance? what hobbies does he have? does he have a job and if so what's the name of place he works at and what type of job is it? can you post a pic of him too?

this is more than enough info to make fun of him daily for months and months. i want to tell him some rumors i heard about him.
 

skywalker66

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Nov 5, 2001
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Originally posted by: datalink7
lol...

Out of all my neighbors freshman year when I lived in the dorms, I was the geekiest guy. I was in alright shape, but wasn't an athlete.

But people didn't tease me becaues I could dish out bigger flames than anyone. They learned fast that if they opened their mouth they got burned.

Just got to know how to throw sh!t back in their face and stop being a sucker :)


I do burn him back good sometimes, and then he takes things to a physical level
 

LongCoolMother

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Sep 4, 2001
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damn dude. ill be the first here to say i feel sorry for you. that sounds like a tough situation. i dont know how you can "grow a pair" and deal with it, as it sounds like this guy is a lot bigger and stronger than you are. even if you do kick his ass, hed just be back for revenge. what a prick. id say if you can, just get away/switch dorms ASAP. doesnt sound like theres much else to do. just get away.
 

acemcmac

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Mar 31, 2003
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You guys are all fvcking assh0les.... cut the kid a break instead of ripping into him more...

He gets treated like crap in his only home, and you do nothing but treat him like crap here. I hope youre all proud....

MyrespectforATOT--;
 

OneOfTheseDays

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Jan 15, 2000
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if things are really that bad, just tell your RA and explain the situation. Tell him you'll take further action and he could risk the possiblity of being kicked out if things get any worse. Trust me, schools don't accept this kind of behavior and would much rather separate you two then find out that you brought a gun and shot the guy to death.