Okay, I am in the midst of a problem in my college dorm room,
I have a couple roomates, and we are all crammed into a small room (a room that was meant for 2 ppl)
In the fall, we all agreed that it was okay if we were put into a 3 person room, and in return for our cooperation we would each receive
a $500 housing discount per semester. (housing is like 1900 a semester normally)
and well.. the first semester i dealt with it. my roomates were okay but kinda mean and dumb at the same time. They are both football linemen for our school team (we are D3) both 6'+ Ryan is about 250, Aaron about 225.
I'm the nonathlete who weighs about 165 and I'm only 5'8"
I get the feeling that neither of these two roommates really respect me, by the way that they both poke fun of me and in just the way that they do it. I really dont like it when they try to put me down. I've talked to one about it, and I think we're cool, but the other (Ryan) is not cool with not being allowed to put me down, he says roommates are allowed to tease one another.
Anyways.. the first semester conditions kinda sucked so I decided I would move out and commute over J-term and Spring semester.
Well, during J-term when I lived away and came by to visit every now and then, it felt like I was an alien, a stranger, that I was missing out, and basically I missed the social life you get with living on campus,
Well, thankfully there was one spot open in my hall, but unfortunately it was the same room with my old two roommates.
Well, I told them I was moving back in and I moved back in and I've been there for a couple weeks now.,
well as you can expect, the teasing came back again, from Ryan especially, and he finally agreed he would stop teasing me, but that in return I couldnt touch or use any of his stuff ever again. (Which includes the one TV in the room unfortunately which my gaming system is currently hooked up to)
Well.. thats where things are at.. and we basically hate each other.. we talked for a bit, he told me how i disliked how i had moved back in, i told him i had a right to, (the housing department would have let ANYONE move into our hall who had wanted to, they considered our room as being one with a spot open) and that I was sick of him making fun of me.
And then we made our little agreement about him not teasing me, and me not using his stuff.
And now there is a strange silence between both of us on the floor. Thankfully I dont really hang out with his friends that much, but i dunno, its just weird.
Any ideas folks?
I have a couple roomates, and we are all crammed into a small room (a room that was meant for 2 ppl)
In the fall, we all agreed that it was okay if we were put into a 3 person room, and in return for our cooperation we would each receive
a $500 housing discount per semester. (housing is like 1900 a semester normally)
and well.. the first semester i dealt with it. my roomates were okay but kinda mean and dumb at the same time. They are both football linemen for our school team (we are D3) both 6'+ Ryan is about 250, Aaron about 225.
I'm the nonathlete who weighs about 165 and I'm only 5'8"
I get the feeling that neither of these two roommates really respect me, by the way that they both poke fun of me and in just the way that they do it. I really dont like it when they try to put me down. I've talked to one about it, and I think we're cool, but the other (Ryan) is not cool with not being allowed to put me down, he says roommates are allowed to tease one another.
Anyways.. the first semester conditions kinda sucked so I decided I would move out and commute over J-term and Spring semester.
Well, during J-term when I lived away and came by to visit every now and then, it felt like I was an alien, a stranger, that I was missing out, and basically I missed the social life you get with living on campus,
Well, thankfully there was one spot open in my hall, but unfortunately it was the same room with my old two roommates.
Well, I told them I was moving back in and I moved back in and I've been there for a couple weeks now.,
well as you can expect, the teasing came back again, from Ryan especially, and he finally agreed he would stop teasing me, but that in return I couldnt touch or use any of his stuff ever again. (Which includes the one TV in the room unfortunately which my gaming system is currently hooked up to)
Well.. thats where things are at.. and we basically hate each other.. we talked for a bit, he told me how i disliked how i had moved back in, i told him i had a right to, (the housing department would have let ANYONE move into our hall who had wanted to, they considered our room as being one with a spot open) and that I was sick of him making fun of me.
And then we made our little agreement about him not teasing me, and me not using his stuff.
And now there is a strange silence between both of us on the floor. Thankfully I dont really hang out with his friends that much, but i dunno, its just weird.
Any ideas folks?
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