I'm from Raleigh, live in Wake Forest now, which has become essentially an extension of North Raleigh.
There are lots of nice places around the country, but I can't think of a better place to live.
We are 2.5 hours from either the beach or the mountains. Weather is great most of the year. We get a little snow every couple of years, but it melts off in a day or two, so you don't have to deal with it for weeks on end.
About the only downside to this area is that we keep getting rated the #1 place to live, and are consistently in the top 5, which is bringing in lots of yankees. They are, in turn, steadily screwing things up, lol. But honestly, what they ARE doing, is leaving the north and coming South, because of the weather and cost of living. What they are doing here, though, is voting for the same tax and spend politicians whose policies drove the north's cost of living up so high. Now we have the highest taxes and cost of living in the region.
So I guess in another 20 years they'll find another low-cost/nice weather oasis to move to.