Thread title has long bothered me. States are not striking down SSM bans, the federal courts/govt is.
Some things can be up to the states.
Like marriage age. Drinking age. And, well, thats about it.
But when a couple of any sex marries in one state, then not married in another, that is totally unacceptable, and mind you, something heterosexuals do not have to deal with.
If a heterosexual couple marries at 17 in a state that allows marriage at 17, then that married 17 year old couple moves to a state where marriage age is 18, that 17 year old couple's marriage is still legal and recognized married at 17 once that license is in hand.
Once they have that marriage license, they are legal everywhere in every state, regardless.
Not the case with SS marriage.
And there you have not only the injustice, but the inequality of treatment of SS married compared with opposite sex married couples.
Not exactly rocket science, is it.
And exactly why states should be allowed to set rules when it comes to some things, like age, but never when it comes to ""recognition"" of marriage.
Tell me one heterosexual married couple that would put up with such inconsistency?
Imagine married at 17 in a 17 legal age state, and also with a child, then moving to another state and suddenly your child becomes a bastard?
No... opposite sex couples do not have to put up with such nonsense.
And they would not.
Laws would be changed over night to accommodate heterosexual couples.
Yet, SS married couples have this injustice to live with in their married life.
Married in one state, not in another.
And that is not right.
I dare anyone to deny the injustice here.
Ps. And exactly why some aspects of marriage is, and rightly so, should be up to the federal government. NOT the state.
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