Non-negotiable relationship killers?

[Zebo]

If she's cold, like below 77F.

 

[sniperruff]

being psycho. there is this girl i was a little interested in but then she's a complete psycho and would analyze everything i say and think too much.

 

[dighn]

Originally posted by: Zebo
If she's cold, like below 77F.

that cracked me up

 

[suse920]

if she has teh pee pee

 

[Zebo]

Originally posted by: Svnla
Honesty, that's rule #1 and it is set in stone. Anything else I can tolerate or forgive/forget but if a gal lied to me, she is gone..

Now wait just a minute. I've been married 10 years and had a couple girlfriends before that. One thing I learned is women live in a parallel universe. So "lying" as you call it, is just a different interpretation of events. Get used to being single.

 

[Tiamat]

Smoking, illegal drugs, stupidity, too dependant (cant think on their own), disrespectful to themselves (mental issues like burning, cutting oneself for attn), and others.

 

[GTaudiophile]

I'm surprised the responses don't focus more on health, like what if she had a non-lethal STD or something.

 

[Svnla]

Originally posted by: Zebo

Originally posted by: Svnla
Honesty, that's rule #1 and it is set in stone. Anything else I can tolerate or forgive/forget but if a gal lied to me, she is gone..

Now wait just a minute. I've been married 10 years and had a couple girlfriends before that. One thing I learned is women live in a parallel universe. So "lying" as you call it, is just a different interpretation of events. Get used to being single.

I rather be single and be happy than married to a lying chick and be miserable and end up in divorce court or worst.

 

[StormRider]

If penis size is important to her....

 

[HardcoreRobot]

honesty and being genuine are required

 

[GTaudiophile]

Bump!

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

Originally posted by: Zebo
If she's cold, like below 77F.

lol... necro

 

[aidanjm]

if she's female. that could be a problem.

 

[Neurorelay]

"Before we get intimate lets get to know each other first." Frankly, that line is crap. Attraction is just that, physical, get that out of the way, and if you still are interested, then pursue the relationship.

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
When you are considering starting up a relationship with someone new, are there qualities or traits that could kill that relationship at the start?

has kids, has mental instability, is a cheating whore.

 

[Neurorelay]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
When you are considering starting up a relationship with someone new, are there qualities or traits that could kill that relationship at the start?

has kids, has mental instability, is a cheating whore.

cheating whore=gets along better with men BIG ol' warning sign right there

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: Neurorelay
cheating whore=gets along better with men BIG ol' warning sign right there

imho, gets along better with men = no female friends for you

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: sniperruff
being psycho. there is this girl i was a little interested in but then she's a complete psycho and would analyze everything i say and think too much.

heh, good luck with that.

 

[aidanjm]

-right wing politics
-christian (I have tried to be friends with christians, but there's just too much of a difference in our world views)

 

[poopaskoopa]

If she:

-is deeply religious and expects the same from her BF
or
-has kids

it's over. I'm not religious and I wouldn't want to deal with that again, and I'm not ready to have kids, much less someone else's.

If she's still in college, that's a huge minus too, but that's not an immediate disqualifier(especially if she's in grad school)...

 

[StormRider]

Originally posted by: Neurorelay

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
When you are considering starting up a relationship with someone new, are there qualities or traits that could kill that relationship at the start?

has kids, has mental instability, is a cheating whore.

cheating whore=gets along better with men BIG ol' warning sign right there

Isn't another big warning sign is someone who would have sex with you without really knowing you?

 

[drum]

Originally posted by: Zenmervolt
I have pre-requisites, the absense of which is an automatic disqualification:

Christian, wants kids, looking for something serious and not a casual fling, reasonably intelligent (i.e. no ditzes), isn't fixated on the idea of being a stay-at-home wife (not that I have a problem with that, but if worse comes to worse, she damn well better not refuse to work).

ZV

i like to think thats what I want. hard to find are they

 

[chrisms]

Originally posted by: aidanjm
-right wing politics
-christian (I have tried to be friends with christians, but there's just too much of a difference in our world views)

I think everyone knows you are a homosexual and hate Christians.. I every post I've seen you make is about these two topics.

As for the original question, if she smells bad that is a turnoff... because part of her is going to smell even worse

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
I'm surprised the responses don't focus more on health, like what if she had a non-lethal STD or something.

uh, but non-lethal stds are treatable

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: chrisms

Originally posted by: aidanjm
-right wing politics
-christian (I have tried to be friends with christians, but there's just too much of a difference in our world views)

I think everyone knows you are a homosexual and hate Christians.. I every post I've seen you make is about these two topics.

I don't hate xians, but xianity is definitely a non-negotiable relationship killer for me (the topic of this thread)

edit: as are right wing politics. I could never date a republican/ conservative for example