Originally posted by: LS8
The budget on the OPs link is broken up in a silly sort of way IMO. I think it?s important to find a system that works for you and your family and stick to it. My wife and I don't have many expenses and truthfully neither of us are big shoppers. Most months are no/low spend for us but it's not really on purpose, we just don't like wasting money on junk.
Same here.
It comes down to setting your real priorities and then sticking to them.
We are cheap-asses, especially for 20-somethings. We eat out maybe twice a month at affordable places, go to the movies maybe twice a year, and usually spend our weekends doing free or nearly free activities. As a result, more than 50% of our gross income goes towards savings, investments, and retirement. After two years at my job out of college, I have more than a year's worth of gross pay socked away and I purchased and paid off my car. My fiancee is doing the same.
The reason we do this is that we value the expensive things that matter: buying a home, paying for our future kid's college, retiring early and traveling, and maybe buying a few nice sports cars that would otherwise appear to be way outside our means. We know that to reach those goals later, we need to live like we're still broke-ass college students now. Compound interest works wonders, but only if you start early and take it seriously.
When I see how my co-workers piss away their money, I just shake my head. Designer clothes, makeup, lunch at restaurants, tropical vacations, big TV's. Those things are great, but then they're freaking out about how they will pay rent/mortgage at the end of the month. People who spend their entire paychecks also force themselves into more poor financial decisions, like leasing cars, not buying in bulk, buying cheap products that break instead of good ones that last, etc. You not only need to have money to make money, sometimes you need to have money to SAVE money.