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NFL player accepts officer's apology

moshquerade

No Lifer
Saw them interviewed, both are class acts. :thumbsup:
To come out and say they forgive this officer, who wronged them, instead of coming out with pitchforks and a posse, is nice to see.

NFL player accepts officer's apology

3 hours ago

DALLAS (AP) ? An NFL player said Monday he accepts the apology offered by a Dallas police officer who stopped him with a drawn gun in a hospital parking lot while his mother-in-law was dying inside.

Houston Texans running back Ryan Moats said on ABC's "Good Morning America" that he hopes Officer Robert Powell was sincere in his apology.

Powell stopped Moats' SUV outside Baylor Regional Medical Center in suburban Plano on March 18 after the vehicle rolled through a red light. Moats' wife, Tamishia, and other relatives were also in the car.

The officer pulled out his gun and threatened Moats with jail as the player pleaded to be allowed to go inside the hospital. Moats' mother-in-law died before he got there while Powell write Moats a ticket and lectured him.

Powell, who has been placed on paid leave pending an investigation, issued a statement Friday through his attorneys.

"I wish to publicly and sincerely apologize to the Moats family, my colleagues in the Dallas Police Department, and to all those who have been rightfully angered by my actions on March 18, 2009. After stopping Mr. Moats' vehicle, I showed poor judgment and insensitivity to Mr. Moats and his family by my words and actions," Powell's statement said.

Tamishia Moats said she'd like to hear the apology personally, but that she, too, would definitely accept it.

According to video from a dashboard camera inside the officer's vehicle, Tamishia Moats and another woman disregarded Powell's order to get back inside their vehicle, and they rushed into the hospital. She was by the side of her mother, 45-year-old Jonetta Collinsworth, when she died a short time later from breast cancer.

Powell yelled at Tamishia Moats to stay in the SUV.

"Excuse me, my mom is dying," Tamishia Moats said. "Do you understand?"

Ryan Moats later said the officer pointed his gun at his wife and then at him.

He explained that he waited until there was no traffic before continuing through the red light. When Powell asked for proof of insurance, Moats grew more agitated and told the officer to go find it.
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No way in hell would I have accepted an apology, especially after a gun was pointed at me when I am clearly unarmed. :thumbsdown: That cop can go to hell.
 
Originally posted by: amdhunter
No way in hell would I have accepted an apology, especially after a gun was pointed at me when I am clearly unarmed. :thumbsdown: That cop can go to hell.

I'm "clearly unarmed" right now, with a .45ACP under my shirt..
 
Apologies are great and all, but the cop did it to save his job, while Moats and his family are just a class act by not escalating this. Regardless, if they can let it go, then it's a non-issue.

What I want to know, though, are the proposed policy changes at this particular PD. If nobody there learned anything from this incident other than to apologize, they're no better off.
 
Originally posted by: sjwaste
Apologies are great and all, but the cop did it to save his job, while Moats and his family are just a class act by not escalating this. Regardless, if they can let it go, then it's a non-issue.

What I want to know, though, are the proposed policy changes at this particular PD. If nobody there learned anything from this incident other than to apologize, they're no better off.

i agree the cop did it to save his job. he was shown the video after it happened and said he didnt do anything wrong. Now that the story is all over the news and people are calling for his job he now really wish's he didnt do it and is willing to apologize...and mean it hehe.

Originally posted by: JLee
Originally posted by: amdhunter
No way in hell would I have accepted an apology, especially after a gun was pointed at me when I am clearly unarmed. :thumbsdown: That cop can go to hell.

I'm "clearly unarmed" right now, with a .45ACP under my shirt..

yeah..lol i would always expect YOU to be armed wherever!


but yeah i get what you are saying and i agree. i never had issue with how the cop started it. just how he finished it (and his attitude with it)
 
Originally posted by: sjwaste
Apologies are great and all, but the cop did it to save his job, while Moats and his family are just a class act by not escalating this. Regardless, if they can let it go, then it's a non-issue.

What I want to know, though, are the proposed policy changes at this particular PD. If nobody there learned anything from this incident other than to apologize, they're no better off.

Well, what the officer did already was against policy. They obviously already have a system in place to review tapes as well.

What's funny throughout this whole thing is that everyone keeps using "NFL player" in their titles and headlines. You gotta be a small NFL player to not even get your name mentioned in the headline 🙂
 
Originally posted by: amdhunter
No way in hell would I have accepted an apology, especially after a gun was pointed at me when I am clearly unarmed. :thumbsdown: That cop can go to hell.

[soapbox]people who harbor feelings of revenge, ill will, hate, are making themselves victims all over again. [/soapbox]

that's the difference between you and Ryan Moats and his wife. i commend them. i commend anyone who can forgive someone.
 
Originally posted by: moshquerade
[soapbox]people who harbor feelings of revenge, ill will, hate, are making themselves victims all over again. [/soapbox]

that's the difference between you and Ryan Moats and his wife. i commend them. i commend anyone who can forgive someone.

It is unhealthy to harbor a grudge, however it is dangerous to forgive too quickly.
 
Originally posted by: skace
Originally posted by: moshquerade
[soapbox]people who harbor feelings of revenge, ill will, hate, are making themselves victims all over again. [/soapbox]

that's the difference between you and Ryan Moats and his wife. i commend them. i commend anyone who can forgive someone.

It is unhealthy to harbor a grudge, however it is dangerous to forgive too quickly.

who says you cant do both? forgive the guy and still harbor ill feelings against him? because you know... thats whats going on here. like duh.
 
Originally posted by: amdhunter
No way in hell would I have accepted an apology, especially after a gun was pointed at me when I am clearly unarmed. :thumbsdown: That cop can go to hell.

I thought the officer pointed his gun at the ground? Pointing your gun at someone is a threat, pointing it at the ground is just being prepared.
 
Originally posted by: skace
Originally posted by: moshquerade
[soapbox]people who harbor feelings of revenge, ill will, hate, are making themselves victims all over again. [/soapbox]

that's the difference between you and Ryan Moats and his wife. i commend them. i commend anyone who can forgive someone.

It is unhealthy to harbor a grudge, however it is dangerous to forgive too quickly.

Confucius say?

actually, why is it dangerous to forgive too quickly? what is the time limit? 24 hrs? one week? months? years?
 
Originally posted by: randay
Originally posted by: skace
Originally posted by: moshquerade
[soapbox]people who harbor feelings of revenge, ill will, hate, are making themselves victims all over again. [/soapbox]

that's the difference between you and Ryan Moats and his wife. i commend them. i commend anyone who can forgive someone.

It is unhealthy to harbor a grudge, however it is dangerous to forgive too quickly.

who says you cant do both? forgive the guy and still harbor ill feelings against him? because you know... thats whats going on here. like duh.

Yeah, that's a good point. On the one hand, the cop apologized. It's not like he could do much else! Even if it wasn't totally sincere, it's so common these days for people to step around the apology forever and say something like "I regret the series of events" as though it wasn't his fault. So I'm glad he got that over with and admitted that he made a mistake.

However, this guy's reputation has been permanently damaged. Hopefully he learned his lesson but you never really know. In the future, when people learn who he is, they will probably trust him less than another cop because of the one incident. But he shouldn't be made to suffer endless scrutiny for one mistake.
 
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: skace
Originally posted by: moshquerade
[soapbox]people who harbor feelings of revenge, ill will, hate, are making themselves victims all over again. [/soapbox]

that's the difference between you and Ryan Moats and his wife. i commend them. i commend anyone who can forgive someone.

It is unhealthy to harbor a grudge, however it is dangerous to forgive too quickly.

Confucius say?

actually, why is it dangerous to forgive too quickly? what is the time limit? 24 hrs? one week? months? years?

I think the point is you shouldn't forgive too easily, not literally quickly like in a temporal sense. A lesson everyone learns when they're very young - sometimes sorry doesn't cut it! Hopefully this officer has learned his lesson and will handle future situations better for it. If he does, than an apology was all that was necessary. If not, then no amount of apologizing will help.
 
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: amdhunter
No way in hell would I have accepted an apology, especially after a gun was pointed at me when I am clearly unarmed. :thumbsdown: That cop can go to hell.

I thought the officer pointed his gun at the ground? Pointing your gun at someone is a threat, pointing it at the ground is just being prepared.

witness testimony had the gun pointed at them with the flashlight mounted... in fashion one would see in movies, etc
 
witness testimony had the gun pointed at them with the flashlight mounted... in fashion one would see in movies, etc

Which is not at all unusual.

If a cop is suspicious, he will approach your vehicle with his gun drawn and pointed at you.

 
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: amdhunter
No way in hell would I have accepted an apology, especially after a gun was pointed at me when I am clearly unarmed. :thumbsdown: That cop can go to hell.

I thought the officer pointed his gun at the ground? Pointing your gun at someone is a threat, pointing it at the ground is just being prepared.

Moats and his wife confirmed the gun was pointed at them during their Good Morning America interview.
 
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