'New' women's underware.

[Viper GTS]

why risk kids before you're ready?

If I'm "ready" to get married, I'm "ready" to have kids. It's part of the deal.

Viper GTS

 

[Soybomb]

Ahhh didn't know you had it planned out like that.
So how long until you're married then if you had to guess? I'd say within 4 years I'd be married but I want to be late 20's, early 30's before kids.....I don't think I could put off sex until my early 30s because I wanted to wait until marriage, but didn't want to get married until I was ready for kids!

 

[Elita1]

<< If I'm &quot;ready&quot; to get married, I'm &quot;ready&quot; to have kids. It's part of the deal. >>



Couldn't have said it better myself, Viper. That's the right attitude!
You'll make a great husband and daddy someday

 

[Viper GTS]

My guess is less than four years... Possibly as soon as two. Have to wait for her to finish school, &amp; I'm probably going back myself.

In all honesty, though, I already want kids.

Viper GTS

 

[Soybomb]

Just find another job first so you can still feel like you can quit with no worries when they make you mad enough

 

[RevVveD1]

Good attitude viper..

Actually though, my fionse and I are holding off on the marriage for certain reasons right now, so I will be a daddy before we are married.. But I am thrilled about it.. Half the people at my work think I'm nuts cuz there is an ultrasound picture hanging on the wall by my workstation.. (course, she threatoned me and told me I had to take it to work)

anyways, laterz

 

[Elita1]

Hey, Viper, hopefully this is not unwanted advice but let me tell you; it's a good idea if you both finish your studies before you get married. Perhaps even wait just a bit more until you find a job. This way your education is done and you can both focus on working and building a life together.
My husband and I got married a week after we graduated from university. It was the best decision because of our unique circumstance(had we waited longer I would've had to leave for my home country and lord knows when we would've seen eachother again) but when I meet other young couples that are studying and thinking of marriage I always recommend that they finish and get a job first. It just makes life a bit easier.
Just my 0.02

 

[Regine]

Viper,

have you talked to your future wife about this?? How many kids does she plan on having, because if you don't use any birth control she better get ready for raising a litter.

 

[Viper GTS]

Elita1...

That's our plan. We're both going to finish school first. The only way we won't do that is if one of us is working full time &amp; the person in school doesn't work at all. For example, if she decides she wants her Master's degree (which is very likely), we'll consider that to be her full time job.

toolgirl...

She's even more adamant about the &quot;no condom&quot; rule than I am. And it's not like we won't be using birth control. She'll be on it 4 months before we get married, &amp; if they have male birth control by then I'll be on that as well. No, we don't intend to have kids right away, but if they happen anyway we'll both be thrilled.

Viper GTS

 

[Regine]

<< And it's not like we won't be using birth control. >>


Just making sure. And about the no-condom rule. If you're married, and you're on other birthcontrol, and ready to have kids - then not using condoms makes it so much better

Disclaimer:
If you're not ready to have a kid - use a damn condom.

 

[visgf]

Why is birth control always the responsibility of the female? I hate men that say that it is the girl's job to worry about that. Why can't the men have a special pouch? They're the one using the condom, so they should be the one carrying the condom.

 

[vi edit]

<< Why is birth control always the responsibility of the female? I hate men that say that it is the girl's job to worry about that. Why can't the men have a special pouch? They're the one using the condom, so they should be the one carrying the condom. >>



Why? Because women get their panties in a bunch if a guy carries a condom around with him. They make it out like the man is expecting them to have sex with them instead of a guy simply &quot;being prepared&quot;.

 

[JeffreyLebowski]

<< On the down side, I suspect few women (outside of an established relationship) will buy these because it does give an impression of willingness that most single women don't want to state quite so blatantly, IMO. >>



How will any one know that she's wearing them unless she shows them to ME

 

[Emulex]

yah my chick thinks jimmy hats are gross. Thank god, i do too.

of course, we are monogamous and tested, and birth control is in use So i can just go at it any time, and way i want it muahahha


and, man, theres no cool way for a guy to put a rubber on..

 

[jacobnero6918]

Where are the pics ?

 

[JellyBaby]

Yes, too many words not enough pix.